Maxa wambi IYo kuphela Ikhohlo Lokukhetha
Ngamanye amaxesha xa iingxaki zomlutha okanye utywala zifikelela kwinqanaba leengxaki, ukuphela kokukhethwa kwintsapho yakhe kukungenelela kobuchwepheshe.
Iyintoni inxaxheba yentsapho? Ngokuyinene, kuhla ukujongana nomnxila kunye nendlela ukusela kwakhe kuye kwachaphazela ngayo wonke umntu ojikelezile. Intsapho yomnxila, abahlobo kunye nabaqeshi batshela otywala ngamagama abo ukuba ukusela kwakhe (ingxaki) kuye kwaba yingxaki ebomini babo.
Kodwa akulula nje. Ukuba kungenziwanga kakuhle, ilinge lokungenelela elincinci lingazibangela ukuba intsapho ibe ngakumbi, iingxaki ezinzulu kunye nexesha elide.
UNcedo lwezobuNtu luyakhusela iNtlekele
Amanyathelo angenelelo kufuneka acwangciswe ngokucophelela kwaye aphuhliswe ngabacebisi abaxhatshazwayo bokusetyenziswa kakubi ngokweziyobisi abanobuchule kule nkqubo. Injongo yodwa yokungenelela kukufumana utywala ukuba angene kwinkqubo yokonyango .
Uninzi lwamaziko otywala kunye namachiza olwenziwe ngamachiza abaqeqeshwayo baqeqeshelwa ukunceda iintsapho zilungiselele ukulwa, okuhlala kwenzeka kwiimeko "ezilawulwayo," kukhethwe ngokukhethekileyo ukubeka utywala kwisimo apho angakuphulaphula khona. Amaninzi amaninzi okungenelela kwenzeka kwindawo yokusebenzela, ngokubambisana ngokupheleleyo nomqeshi.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukungenelela kubangel 'unxungupheko kumntu onxilisayo, kodwa amatsha amatsha amatsha aphuhlisiwe apho amalungu angenelelo athetha utshwala ukuba bathetha nomcebisi malunga neengxaki zokusela kwakhe iintsuku eziliqela phambi kokungenelela kwangempela.
Ngaba Umsebenzi Wongenelelo Lentsapho?
Ngendlela entsha, utywala uqonda ukuba abantu abaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakhe badibana neengxaki zakhe, kwaye xa ekugqibeleni emenywa kwingxoxo, akavakalelwa "njengentlonelo" njengamacebo angenelelo angaphambili.
Ukuba umntu onxilisayo unquma ukungena kwisiko lonyango, ufanelekile ukuba angabi nomsindo ngakumbi kunomsebenzi wangaphambili wokumangaliswa naye.
Uziva engaphantsi kokusebenza kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ufaka inkqubo kunye nesimo sengqondo sokuzama ukuphucula ukususela ekuqaleni.
Ngendlela endala, amaxesha amaninzi utywala wavuma ukunyango, kodwa waqala inkqubo yokubuyisela "isimo sengqondo."
Ezinye iingozi zibandakanya
Ukungenelela kobugcisa akuyona inketho kuyo yonke intsapho kunye nayo yonke imeko. Isigqibo sokukhetha indlela yokungenelela yinto enokuthi yenziwe ngenyameko kunye neengcebiso zomcebisi onamava. Kukho iingozi ezikhoyo.
Njengomnye unonophelo lobugcisa bezempilo uthi: "Kukho inani elincinci lokuncedisa ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kakubi ngokweziyobisi, baye bayeka ukwenza oku kungenelela kuba xa ukungenelela kungaphumeleli, njengokuba ngamanye amaxesha kungenakwenzeka, intsapho inokudityaniswa nakwezinye iimvakalelo ezimbi malunga ukungenelela. Akunalo inxalenye encinane kwintsapho esele isondele ekutshatyalaliswa kokuba nelungu elinxilisayo. "
Ukujongana Nokungenelela Kwangenelelo
"Ukungenelela kunokuncedwa ukuba umntu onxilisayo akayi kwenza utshintsho olubalulekileyo ngexesha kunye nangemva kokunyangwa ngokusemthethweni, kodwa isigxina esiboneleleyo esinokudakwa sinokuthi siphumelele kakhulu kwiseshoni yokungenelela kwaye intsapho iya kufuneka iqokelele iingqungquthela zokungenelela ukungaphumeleli phezulu kweengxaki zabo zonke. "
Kukho abanye abakholelwa ukuba kungenelelo olungaphumelela ekuhambeni kwexesha, ngenxa yamava abo abaninzi abanxilisayo abanako ukuncedwa baze balungele ukufumana uncedo ngokwabo. Nangona ulwalamano ngokwawo, ngokwenene, lubeka utywala kwisimo sengqondo ukuba 'silungele' ukufumana uncedo, luyakwazi nokuba yintlungu enomso.
Impumelelo ixhomekeke kwisibophezelo soTywala
Akukho "ulwaphilo" olubizwa ngokuba ngumnxila. Unokunyangwa, kodwa "aluphilwanga." Ukungenelela kuya kusebenza kuphela xa utywala ezinikezela ukuba angathathi niselo.
Ukuba iingxaki zomnxila ziqhubekile kangangokuba uye waba yingozi kuye okanye kwabanye, okanye ukuba utywala lwakhe sele lufikelele ekungenakulungele ukuzikhangela, ukungenelela kunokukhetha ukonga ubomi.
Kodwa akusilo unyango olusisigxina. Utywala ngokwakhe kuphela onokuguqula inkqubo yonyango lweentsuku ezingama-28 kwiprogram yokuphila.
Ukuthatha isigqibo sokusondeza utywala ebomini bakho kunye nokungenelela kokubambisana kunokuvelisa nemiphumo engathandekiyo .