Impembelelo yokugqitywa kweyona nto yinto evuzwa ngayo ngokwenza into eyenza ngokwenene inciphisa intshukumo ebalulekileyo yokuyenza loo ntshukumo. Cinga ngezimbalwa zezinto othanda ukuzenza. Ngaba kukho imidlalo efana ne-volleyball okanye i-basketball othanda ukuyidlala? Ngaba unomdla ngokukhwela, ukufunda, okanye ukuqokelela i-memorabilia ye-movie?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, uyazibandakanya kule mi sebenzi nje ngovuyo olukhulu nolonwabo, kungekhona uhlobo oluthile lokuqiniswa ngaphandle. Lo msebenzi ngokwawo usebenza njengomvuzo wayo. Ngaba unokumangaliswa ukuba ufunde ukuba xa uvuzwa izinto ozilungele ukwenza, unomnqweno wokuthatha inxaxheba kuloo mi sebenzi ngamanye amaxesha uncipha?
Kwiengqondo, oku kwaziwa ngokuba yimpembelelo engaphezulu kwaye ingaba nefuthe elibi kwizizathu zakho zokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Makhe sihlolisise ukuba yintoni le mpawu kunye nendlela ekuchaphazela ngayo ukuziphatha.
Ukuqwalasela ngokugqithiseleyo Impembelelo yokuGwenxa
Isiphumo sokusasazeka senzeke xa ukukhuthaza kwangaphandle kunciphisa umququzelelo womntu ukuba enze ukuziphatha okanye uthathe inxaxheba kumsebenzi. Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba xa kuvuzwa umvuzo (njengemali kunye nemiklomelo) ngenxa yezenzo abantu abasele bazifumana ngokuzithandela, baya kuba bancinci ekukhuthazeni ezo zinto kwixesha elizayo.
Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukuba abantwana esikolweni bayavunyelwa ukudlala ngamathoyizi amnandi ngexesha labo lokukhulula. Ukuba abanonophelo baqala ukunika abantwana umvuzo wokudlala ngala maathoyizi, abantwana banokuqala ukuziva bengaphantsi kakhudlwana ukuba badlale kunye nalawo maathoyizi.
Yintoni Ebangelwa Umphumo Wokugqithisa?
Kutheni kwenzeka ukuba isiphumo sokugqithisa senzeke?
Ngokweminye imfundiso, abantu bathambekele ekugqibeleni ingqalelo kule mivuzo yangaphandle kunokuzonwabisa kwabo. Ngenxa yoko, abantu bacinga ukuba ukuthatha inxaxheba kulo msebenzi kubangelwa yimiphumo yangaphandle ngaphandle kokubonga kwabo ngaphakathi.
Enye ingcaciso enokwenzeka kukuba abantu ngamanye amaxesha bajonga ukuqiniswa kwangaphandle njengamandla okunyanzelisa. Ekubeni bazivakalelwa kukuba "batyhola" ukuba benze ukuziphatha, bacinga ukuba bayakwenza kuphela ngenxa yokomelezwa kwangaphandle.
Imiba
Uphando lufumene ukuba ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle kuxhomekeke ekwenzeni okuthile kakuhle, ngoko ukuziphatha kakubi ngaphantsi kwefuthe lokugqithisa. Ukufumana umvuzo ngokufunda, umzekelo, mhlawumbi akuyi kunciphisa nayiphi na into efunekayo ukuba ufunde. Oku kungenxa yokuba ibakala lakho liyi-reinforcer. Bomeleza ukuziphatha kwakho kokufunda, kodwa baxhomekeke ekusebenzeni ngokwenene kunokuba bahambe kuphela.
Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukusebenzisa iindumiso njengomlomo kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele. Abantwana abadunyiswayo ngenzame yabo ("Usebenze kanzima kuloo sabelo!") Kunokuba banamakhono abo ("Uhlakaniphile!") Bathambekele ekubeni bakholelwa ukuba impumelelo ixhomekeke kwimigudu kunokuba italente engenamntu.
Abantwana abahlakulela olu hlobo lweengqondo nabo banokuthi baqhubeke bejamelene neengxaki.
Iingxelo
Breckler, SJ, Olson, JM, & Wiggins, EC (2006). I-Psychology Social. EBelmont, CA: Thomson Wadsworth.
Griggs, RA (2010). I-Psychology: Isingeniso esicacileyo. IYew York: Abapapashi abafanelekileyo.