Imisebenzi embalwa ingabangela ukuxabana okukhulu
Xa wena okanye lakho iqabane lingonwabi malunga nokwabiwa kwemisebenzi yasemakhaya, izinga lokuxinwa kwikhaya lakho liya kunyuka kakhulu. Impikiswano kwimisebenzi yasekhaya yinto yesibini kuphela ekungquzululeni kwimali kwimitshato ngokwempembelelo yayo.
Iqondo eliya kubelwe umsebenzi wendlu ngenye yezona zibini ezibalulekileyo zokuqheliswa komtshato womfazi, "kubhala uStephanie Coontz eNew York Times.
"Kwaye amadoda anenzuzo kakhulu, kuba izifundo zibonisa ukuba abasetyhini banomdla wokwabelana ngesondo nakwabalingani abangena kuwo."
Ukuba ubuza abafazi ukuba yintoni umthombo wabo ophezulu woxinzelelo, baninzi abaya kuphendula ukuba kukuba amadoda abo akafuni ukwenza isabelo sabo somsebenzi osendlwini. Izinga lokuxininisa likhula kwiphaya lakho xa omnye wenu engonwabanga ngemisebenzi engapheliyo. Amaqabane alwa malunga nabani okwenzayo malunga nendlu ngokuphantse xa belwa ngemali. Uninzi lweengxelo kunye neengxelo zibonisa ukuba nangona abaninzi abafazi basebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya, bahlala benentsebenzo emininzi yasemakhaya.
Indlela Ukungaqhathanisi Ukungaqhathanisi Kungabangela Ukubambisana Umtshato
Umtshato useendlela ezininzi zokubambisana kwezoshishino-kwaye ishishini liqhuba indlu. Oko kuthetha ukugcina iirekhodi zezemali, ukugcinwa, ukuthenga, ukucwangcisa, ukucoca , ukupheka, ukunakekelwa kwabantwana, ukuthutha, njl. Xa ishishini lihamba kakuhle, kukho uxolo kunye nokuvisisana .
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngabahlobo behla kwaye indlu iyinkathazo, okanye ukuba akukho zambatho ezihlambulukileyo zokugqoka, okanye izulu lilukhuni kwaye uphahla oluvuzayo aluzange lulungiswe ngenxa yokugweba ... ke ukucaphukisa kukukhula, ukungaqondi kakuhle, kunye Isiphumo sixabano .
"Ulingana" ICandelo loKhetho luseJongweni loMbonisi
INkundla uRonan ubhala ukuba ngokwe-MSNBC uphando, abaphenduli babuzwa ukuba imisebenzi yendlu yabo yenziwa ngumntu omnye kuphela okanye ukuba babelwe.
Iziphumo zazixelela: ama-74 ekhulwini amadoda athi imisebenzi yabelwe; Amaphesenti ama-51 amabhinqa athi imisebenzi yabelwe. Amaphesenti angama-26 amadoda athi omnye umntu wenza umsebenzi wendlu; Amaphesenti angama-49 amabhinqa athetha okufanayo.
Umbuzo Weengxoxo
UGeorge Eliot wabhala wathi, Yintoni esihlala kuyo, ukuba kungekhona ukwenza ubomi bunzima kunobunye?
Ngaba wenza ubomi bunzima kunobunye, okanye bunzima kunzima? Impendulo yakho yenza njani uzive?
Indlela yokwahlula imisebenzi yasekhaya
Impazamo enkulu ongayenza kwisigqibo sakho sokuba iqabane lakho lenze imisebenzi emininzi kwindlu kukucela uncedo. Ukucela uncedo kubonisa ukuba uxanduva lomsebenzi luyenawe kuphela. Ngokwenene, imisebenzi ejikeleze indlu kufuneka ikwabelwane ngemithwalo, kunye nokwenza umsebenzi omhle ukwahlula umsebenzi wendlu kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba umtshato uyavuya . Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokuwahlula ngokufanelekileyo.
- Beka izinto eziphambili njengesiqabane. Yintoni ebaluleke ngokwenene kuni? Xoxa ngendlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngokuphathelele ukutya okuphekiweyo ekhaya kunye nokutya okukhawuleza okanye ukutya ngoku nangoku. Fumana iimvakalelo zakho malunga nokuthungca, ukucoca indlu yangasese, ukwenza ithedi, ukuhlawula utshani, ukuhlawula iibhili, njl njl.
- Hlala phantsi ndawonye kwaye wenze uludwe lwemisebenzi eyenziwa yilowo nalowo ngokunyanisekileyo. Yiyiphi into eyithiyileyo, enye inokukwazi ukunyamezela. Ukuba ngaba bobabili bayamthiya into efanayo, baqaphele indlela yokudibanisa ukufumana lo msebenzi ongathandekiyo. Okanye mhlawumbi unokwenza usebenze kunye kunye, njengethimba. Unokufumana imali kwibhajethi yakho ukuqesha umntu ukuba enze loo msebenzi.
- Kubalulekile, kwakhona, ukuba ucingisise ngamaxesha omzimba omnye. Abanye abantu bangabantu basentsimini kunye nabanye abantu bangabomvu. Ukuphoqelelana ukwenza iphrojekthi okanye ukwenza umsebenzi xa bengakulungele ukwenza oko kukudala uxinzelelo. Ukubaluleka kubalulekile. Ngoko ukwabelana ngethemba.
- Makhelane ngolwazi malunga neveki ezayo iya kubakho. Iintlanganiso, iziganeko, iziganeko ezizodwa, njl. Bese ugqibe ukuba ubani oya kwenza ntoni, yenza uluhlu, kwaye uthumele uluhlu. Emva koko mayeke. Musa ukuxhaphalana malunga nento ozinikele ngayo. Ukuba umsebenzi awukwenziwanga ngeveki elandelayo xa uhlala phantsi ukuze wabelane ngezilindelo, lixesha lokulikhupha.
- Ukuba omnye wenu akayithobeli kwizithembiso zokwenza isabelo sakho somsebenzi malunga nekhaya lakho, zama uzame kunye kunye kutheni kukho ukungafuni. Amanye amadoda angabuka imisebenzi yasekhaya njengomsebenzi wesifazane. Ukugxeka iqabane lakho kwizinto ezingazange zenziwe okanye zigqityiwe nje ukuchitha amandla.
- Yitshintsha kwaye uvumele iqabane lakho ukuba lifeze imisebenzi ngendlela yazo. Ukuba ukuba neelwimi ezifakwe ngendlela ethile kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, yenza oko ngokwakho.
- Amabhangqwana amaninzi athola ukuba bajonga ukwahlukana kwemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Ingxaki yasekhaya ayikukhathazi abanye abantu. Ukuba emva kokuxoxa ngale meko, lakho iqabane liyakwenqaba ukuhlanganyela ngokulinganayo kwimisebenzi yasendlini, kwaye ukhathele ukuthwala umthwalo ngokwakho, ngoko unokhetho olwenziwe. Eyona nto, awukwazi ukutshintsha lakho iqabane. Unokuqesha abanye ngaphandle kwinqununu, okanye unokuyeka ukwenza imisebenzi enqwenela ukuyenza. Uphahla aluyi kuwela nje ngokuba awupheki isidlo se-3 ubusuku bonke.
- Khangela ezinye iinkalo zendlu yakho kunye neyard ukuba ufuna ukunciphisa ukugcina ixesha kunye nemali. Zama ukwenza ikhaya lakho lihlelwe ukuze liqhube kakuhle. Zibuze ukuba imisebenzi ethile ifuneka ukuba yenziwe rhoqo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukutshisa umtshini kuthatha ixesha elininzi, ufafaze imbewu yeentyantyambo zasendle apho kwaye uvumele imvelo yenza into yakhe. Ukuba uyayithiya i-ironing, vela iingubo ezikude ezidinga ukutshiza kunye nokuphosa intsimbi. Ngaba iifestile kufuneka zihlale zikhanya? Emva kokuvavanywa komgangatho wakho wokugcina indlu, imisebenzi yakho yasekhaya ingaba yincinci yomoya kunye nomzimba.
> Umthombo:
> Stephanie Coontz. "I-MRS kunye neF.D" NYTimes.com. 2/11/2012.