Indlela yokusebenzisa ixesha loLawulo lokunciphisa uxinzelelo
Abantu abaninzi bayazixakeka kule mihla, ebangela uxinzelelo . Izizathu ziyahlukahluka kumntu kumntu, kodwa ezi zilandelayo zizathu zokuba kutheni abantu bexakeke kakhulu, kunye nexesha lokulawula kunye nokulawula uxinzelelo ekuncedeni:
Hayi
Abantu abaninzi baphela ngokuzicwangcisa ngokwabo kuba baziva bengakhululekile xa bethetha "akukho" xa abantu bebuza izinto.
Mhlawumbi abafuni ukudukisa abanye okanye bavume ukuba abanako "ukwenza konke." Ekugqibeleni, bayazixhalabisa ngokungabi nako ixesha elaneleyo lokwenza okubalulekileyo kubo. Ngaba oku kusebenza kuwe? Ukuba kunjalo, ukufunda ukuthi hayi kube yinto ephambili yokuphathwa kwexesha. Nantsi imithombo yendlela yokuthi cha . Yisebenzise ukudala indawo kwishedyuli yakho yinto ebalulekileyo kuwe.
Cacisa kwizinto ezibalulekileyo
Ungafaki imisebenzi kwishedyuli yakho ngezizathu ezingafanelekanga, kwaye ugqibe ukuchitha iintsuku zakho ukwenza izinto ezingabonakali iimpawu zakho nezinto eziphambili. Ukuba ufumana ukulwela ukulingana nezinto ezibalulekileyo, ngoko iimfuneko ezifana nokulala ngokwaneleyo kunye neminye imikhwa enempilo ingawa phantsi. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuba oku kwenzekayo kuwe, yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezibalulekileyo. Bhala izinto ezifana nosapho, abahlobo kunye nomsebenzi. Emva koko jonga indlela ochitha ngayo iintsuku zakho. Bona ukuba ixesha elide liya kwezi zinto.
Ingaba ngumdlalo ofanelekileyo, okanye uchitha ixesha elingapheliyo ukwenza izinto ezingabalulekanga kuwe? Akukaze kukhawuleze ukwenza utshintsho. (Jonga eli nqaku malunga nokubeka izinto eziphambili kwishedyuli yakho .)
Imephu Yaphuma
Abantu abahlala kulo mgibe wokuphatha ixesha eliqhelekileyo ukuba bangayazi ukuba ixesha labo lihamba phi, okanye bahlawulela ixesha elithe bafumanekayo kwaye bancipha inani lexesha ngamnye umsebenzi uthatha ukugqiba, kwaye lube lukhulu.
Ukuba oku kufana neentsuku zakho, unokufuna ukugcina ishedyuli ngokucophelela, ukubhala yonke into oyenzayo. Awuvumelani nemisebenzi emitsha de ufumene indlela yokubhenela ipensela, ukuhlawula inani lexesha ocinga ukuba liya kuthatha ukuba lizalise.
Ukulawula Imali Ngokuhlakanipha
Kuye kwanda kakhulu ukuba abantu basebenze ngaphezu kokuthandayo kuba iimali zifuna. Abantu abaninzi basebenza iiyure ezinde kwaye nangaphezulu komsebenzi omnye. Ukuphuma phantsi kwetyala kunye nosizi lwezemali, ufuna isicwangciso esichazela ukuchitha imali encinci, ukusindisa, ukuhlawula amatyala, kunye nokufumana imali engaphezulu (kungekhona ngokusebenza ngaphezulu kodwa ngokuhlawula oko ufanele). Icandelo loxinzelelo lwezezimali kule ndawo linokukunceda ngazo zonke ezo zinto.
Hlala uhleli
Ishedyuli yakho ayilona nto kuphela emele ilungelelaniswe, ngokunjalo kufanele ukuba ikhaya lakho. Uninzi lwabantu aluqapheli ukuba lixesha elingakanani nemali elinyusayo (ingathethi ukunyanzelisa uxinzelelo) ngokuhlala kwimeko apho kunzima ukufumana nokuphucula. Eli candelo malunga nokuhlala elungelelanako kunokukunceda ukuba unqande ixesha lakho lokuba ikhaya elibi likwazi ukudala.
Kuze Ube Wakho Ube Yi nyaniso
Ukwazi kakuhle kakuhle kunokukunceda ukuba ugweme ukuphazamiseka.
Njani? Enye into, ngokwazi ukulinganiselwa kwakho, ugwema ukuthatha kakhulu. Ukuba uhlala uzibeka kwisithuba sokuthatha okungaphezulu kunokuba ungayisebenzisa, jonga ngenyameko ngaphakathi ukuze kukuncede ukuba uqonde oko kusemva kwalokhu. Ngale ndlela, unokuyeka.
Ezi zibonelelo kufuneka zikunike isiqalo esihle kwiindlela zokuphila ezincinci. Okwangoku, nantsi ezinye iingcebiso zokulawula ixesha kumama, kunye nokuxinwa kweengxaki kubantu abaxakekile . Zifaneleka ngokukhawuleza kwishedyuli exakekileyo ukuze uhlale uphumule, upholile kwaye uqokelele.