1 - Ukuqonda Ukubaluleka kweFf Down Time
Zingaphi izihlandlo ozicingayo malunga nento ongathanda ukuyenza kwaye, ngaphambi kokuba uhlolisise ingcamango yokongeza loo msebenzi ebomini bakho, uzikhumbuze ukuba awunaso ixesha? Uninzi lwethu sichitha ixesha elininzi senza oko sivakalelwa kukuba simele senze, ukuba asinayo ixesha elaneleyo lokuba sithanda ukuthini. Isiva sokungabikho inkululeko esaneleyo yokulandela ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye neentsapho zethu, imisebenzi yokuvuselela yedwa , okanye ezinye izinto eziza kusinceda zisishiye siziva sicinezelekile kwaye singonwabi.
Ukukwazi ukufumana ixesha kwixesha elixakekileyo kubalulekile ngezizathu ezimbalwa. Akunjalo nje kuphela ukukhawuleza okubangelwa ixesha elifunekayo, ukuba nexesha elaneleyo lokwenza umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, ixesha elilodwa, kunye nexesha elingekho nto ibalulekile ekugcineni ukulinganisela. Abantu, ngakumbi i-introverts, badinga ixesha lokuphumla kunye nokudibanisa, kwaye inani lexesha elifunekayo liyanda ngexesha loxinzelelo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukugxininiswa ngakumbi, xa ufuna ngakumbi ixesha eliphantsi.
Ukuba ungathanda ukwandisa inqanaba lakho lonwabo kunye nokwaneliseka komsebenzi kulo nyaka, enye yeenguqu ezintle ongayenza kukuba ufumane ixesha elingakumbi kwishedyuli yakho yobomi obonisa oko uthanda ukukwenza. Ezi nyathelo zinokunceda.
2 - De-Clutter iShedyuli yakho
Cinga ngolu hlobo luyindlela ochitha ngayo iintsuku zakho, ubone oko kunokunqunyulwa. Ngaba ubukela iiyure ezininzi zeTV ngosuku? Ngaba unako ukwenza umsebenzi osebenza kakuhle? Ngaba kukho izinto kwishedyuli yakho enokuthi idibanwe ngaphandle kwemigangatho enzulu?
Oku kunokuba kunzima ngenxa yokuba unokufuna ukufumana enye yexesha elongezelelweyo ukuze udibanise, ngoko awufuni ukuphoqeleka ukuba usebenze ngokugcwele ngokupheleleyo iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku xa ufuna ukuphumla ngokutsha kwakhona ke ngoku. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba usichitha ixesha kwiinkonzo zentlalo ngaphandle komkhwa kunokuba ungaphandle kwesidingo sokuphuka, okanye ukuchitha ixesha ngeendlela ongenakwenene ngokwenene ngaphandle kokuyiqonda, nantsi indawo ebalulekileyo apho ulwazi kunye noshintsho kwimikhwa unokukunika ixesha elongezelelweyo elingasetyenziselwa iindlela ezingcono.
Ukuqhawula ixesha elincinane apha nakhona kunokuncedisa ukuvakalelwa ngakumbi kwenkululeko yakho yokwenza into onokuyithandayo.
3 - Funda ukuMisela
Ngaba zikhona uxanduva onawo ekhaya okanye emsebenzini onokuthunyelwa kubancedisi, amalungu omndeni okanye abanye? Ukubuyisela kwakhona uxanduva lokucoca kubantwana, umzekelo, unokukhulula ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokuchitha kwimisebenzi yendlu kwaye ukhuthaze umthwalo wemfanelo kwiingane zakho ngexesha elifanayo. Ukuqasha uncedo ngemisebenzi eyanciphayo inokukushiya ixesha elongezelelweyo namandla okwaneleyo kunokwenza inkcitho. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukuvumela omnye umntu ukuba athathe umsebenzi angabangela izibonelelo ezingakumbi: banokufumanisa ukuba bangcono kunokuba bacinga ukuba baya kuba (okanye kunokuba bacinga ukuba baya kuba), banokuzonwabisa xa bencedwa, okanye ubuncinci, kungabangela ingqiqo yeqela.
4 - Funda Ukuthi "Hayi" Ngeengcinezelo ezincinci
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe nayiphi na imithwalo mfanelo, cinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga nokuba le mi sebenzi iyakuchukumisa njani ubomi bakho, kokubili ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye engalunganga. Cinga kwakhona malunga neenjongo zakho zokuthi "yee": ngaba ufuna nje ukuphepha ukuva ngathi uvumela omnye umntu phantsi? Ngaba ujwayele ukuziqinisekisa ukuba unalo ixesha elingenamkhawulo kwishedyuli yakho kwaye uzenzele ixesha lokuba wonke umntu ngaphandle kwakho?
Ukuthi ayikho inokubangela ukuwa, kodwa kudla ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuthi cha habe lula ngokusebenza, kwaye xa uyayazi ukuba ungatshiyo ngaphandle kokumema ukuhlola okungadingekile okanye ukuphazamisa iimvakalelo ezinzima, kuba lula nakakhulu. Kwaye kuba lula ngokusebenza. Zama ezi zicwangciso zokuthi cha, kwaye unokufumana ixesha elingakumbi.
Kufuneka ufunde kabanzi malunga neengcebiso zolawulo lwexesha kwaye ukhangele ulawulo lwezixhobo eziqhubekayo zokulawula uxinzelelo .