Ufuna Ngakumbi Ubomi Ukwaneliseka? Fumana ixesha malunga noko ufuna ukukwenza
Zingaphi izihlandlo ozicingayo malunga nento ongathanda ukuyenza kwaye, ngaphambi kokuba uhlolisise ingcamango yokongeza loo msebenzi ebomini bakho, uzikhumbuze ukuba awunaso ixesha? Uninzi lwethu sichitha ixesha elininzi senza oko sivakalelwa kukuba simele senze, ukuba asinayo ixesha elaneleyo lokuba sithanda ukuthini. Isiva sokungabikho inkululeko esaneleyo yokulandela ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye neentsapho zethu, imisebenzi yokuvuselela yedwa , okanye ezinye izinto eziza kusinceda zisishiye siziva sicinezelekile kwaye singonwabi.
Ukuba ungathanda ukwandisa inqanaba lakho lonwabo kunye nokwaneliseka komsebenzi kulo nyaka, enye yeenguqu ezintle ongayenza kukuba ufumane ixesha elingakumbi kwishedyuli yakho yobomi obonisa oko uthanda ukukwenza. Ezi nyathelo zinokunceda.
De-clutter iShedyuli Yakho
Cinga ngolu hlobo luyindlela ochitha ngayo iintsuku zakho, ubone oko kunokunqunyulwa. Ngaba ubukela iiyure ezili-tv ngosuku? Ngaba unako ukwenza umsebenzi osebenza kakuhle? Ngaba kukho izinto kwishedyuli yakho enokuthi idibanwe ngaphandle kwemigangatho enzulu? Ukuqhawula ixesha elincinane apha nakhona kunokuncedisa ukuvakalelwa ngakumbi kwenkululeko yakho yokwenza into onokuyithandayo. Kukho ezinye izinto kwishedyuli yakho enokuthi ikhutshwe ngaphandle kwemiphumo emibi, mhlawumbi nabanye ukuba awuyi kuphinda ulahleke.
Funda ngakumbi malunga nokwahlula iShedyuli yakho
Funda Ukunikezela
Ngaba zikhona uxanduva onawo ekhaya okanye emsebenzini onokuthunyelwa kubancedisi, amalungu omndeni okanye abanye?
Ukubuyisela kwakhona uxanduva lokucoca kubantwana, umzekelo, unokukhulula ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokuchitha kwimisebenzi yendlu kwaye ukhuthaze umthwalo wemfanelo kwiingane zakho ngexesha elifanayo. Ukuqeshisa uncedo, xa kunengqiqo, ingaba yinto efanelekileyo. Akunjalo lula ukunikezela, kodwa xa ufumanisa oko "kunokugqithiselwa" kwaye ngubani, indlela eyona ndlela yokukhulula ixesha, kwaye unokuba luncedo kubancedisi bakho.
(Ukufumana yonke intsapho echaphazelekayo kwimithwalo-xanduva lomama inokufundisa ukuzimela, ukukhulisa iimvakalelo zabo zokuzimelela, kunye nokuzisa intsapho kunye.)
Funda Ukunikezela
Funda ukuthi "akukho"
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe nayiphi na imithwalo mfanelo, cinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga nokuba le mi sebenzi iyakuchukumisa njani ubomi bakho, kokubili ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye engalunganga. Cinga kwakhona malunga neenjongo zakho zokuthi "yee": ngaba ufuna nje ukuphepha ukuva ngathi uvumela omnye umntu phantsi? Ngaba ujwayele ukuziqinisekisa ukuba unayo ixesha elingenamkhawulo kwishedyuli yakho, kwaye uzenzele ixesha lokuba wonke umntu ngaphandle kwakho? Ngamanye amaxesha uzive uzingca ukuba ungatsho kwizinto abanye abangathanda ukuba siyenze, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abakwenzi kube lula, kodwa ukuba uzinqamle kakhulu kangangokuthi awukwazi ukusho ewe uxolo lwakho lwengqondo, Uzibethelela kakhulu ukuba ube luncedo kwabanye njengoko unako. Ukuthi hayi kwezinye izinto kukuvumela ukuba u-ye kwizinto ezibaluleke ngokwenene.
Funda Ukuthi Hayi