I-pedediophobia, okanye ukwesaba iimboli, kuyafana. Kukholelwa ukuba luhlobo lwe-automatonophobia, okanye ukwesaba ama-humanoid . Abanye abantu bayesaba zonke iidonki kunye nemidlalo yokudlala, ngelixa abanye besaba uhlobo oluthile kuphela. Iidloli ezithethayo okanye ezihambayo kunye namadonsa ase-old-fashion zizinto eziqhelekileyo ezijoliswe kukoyika.
I-Pediophobia neyabantwana
Abazali abaninzi banqwenela ukuba abantwana babo, ingakumbi amantombazana amancinane, bathande amodoli.
Basenokudandatheka xa umntwana wabo ekhala okanye ekhala xa kudonsa idonsa. Kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni, nangona kunjalo, ukuba abantwana abancinci bafunda ukuhlukanisa imfesane kwinyani. Idoli, ebonakala ngathi yindoda kodwa ayikho, inokuyikrakra kumntwana ongeyayiyiqonda loo nto.
Ngoko ke, njengeninzi ye-phobias, i-pediophobia ayifumaneki kwiintsana ngaphandle kokuba iqhubeka iminyaka engaphezu kweyesithandathu. Kakade ke, ukuba ukwesaba umntwana wakho kunzima okanye kunganyanziseki, kubalulekile ukucela icebiso logqirha lomntwana.
I-Pediophobia kwi-Pop Culture
Ukwesaba iimboli kuye kwaxhatshazwa kakhulu kwizicwangciso zenkcubeko ye pop, ukusuka kwiifilimu ukuya kwiiHalloween. Kwiinkoliso zezi zihlandlo, i-siseko kukuba idoli ebonakala ngathi ingenakulimala ibe yinto enomdla. Ingaba oko kwenzeka ngeentlobo zemilingo okanye ithuba elingenangqungquthela, umphumo wenetha unye: umdlalo wokudlala wengane usufile.
Ezi ifilimu zithintela uloyiko olusisiseko esingaba sisinye seengcambu ze-pediophobia; ukwesaba umbulali ongenanto. Kwihlabathi elizaliswe ngongongelo, ukusuka kwi-bioterrorism ukuya kwisipinashi esicocekileyo, kuyaqhelekile ukuba sikhathazeke ukuba into esingaziqondi njengengozi ingakhokelela ekubhujisweni. Le ngenye yezoyiko ezisisiseko ezikhoyo kwi- phobias ye-doomsday kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kwiifilimu zaseHollywood, ezifana neNgcebiso .
Ukuxilongwa
Ekubeni i-pediophobia inokudibaniswa nolunye uluhlu lwezinye iinkxalabo, kubalulekile ukuba kuphela umzamo oqeqeshiwe oqeqeshiweyo wokufumana ukuxilongwa. Ingcali yakho iya kubuza imibuzo eqondekileyo eyenzelwe ukukunceda ukucacisa oko ukoyikisayo. Noko ke, unokulungiselela ukutyelela kwakho ngokwenza uludwe lwezinto zakho ezibangela. Ngaba ukwesaba zonke iidodoli okanye ezinye iintlobo? Ngaba usoloko uloyiko okanye unokukwazi ukuba uloyiko lwaqala nini? Ngaba unokwesaba okungekho okanye okungahambelani nayo? Ukuqokelela ulwazi oluninzi njengoko unakho ngaphambi kokutyelela kwakho kunokuncedisa ugqirha wakho ekwenzeni ukuxilongwa ngokuchanekileyo.
Unyango
I-Pediophobia iphathwa ngokulula. Ngokuxhomekeka kwimeko efanelekileyo yokwesaba kwakho, uluhlu lwezonyango zonyango luyafaneleka. Ingqiqo-yokuziphatha iyona exhaphakileyo kulabo abane- phobia ethile , njengoko kubini iphela kwaye iyasebenza. Akukuphela kokhetho, nangona kunjalo.
Olunye uhlobo lweyeza olunokuba luncedo ngonyango olusondeleyo kuba lukunceda ukuba usebenzise ukubonakala kweedodoli ngokubakho ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubo, oku kunokukunciphisa okanye ukuphelisa ukwesaba kwakho ngokupheleleyo.
Umthombo:
Umbutho wezeMpilo waseMerika. (1994). Incwadana yokuxilonga kunye neenkcukacha zeengxaki zengqondo (4 Ed.) . Washington, DC: Umbhali.