Iingcebiso Zokuphikisana Xa Umlingani Wakho Eveza Ukwabelana Ngezesondo zoBwenene
Uye waxolisa. Isiqhelo sakho sesondo esifanelekileyo sesicatshulwa sicinga ukuba lakho iqabane libe likhulu. Umlingane wakho akafuni ukuba nantoni na enokuyenza ngesondo kwaye wenza into egxothwa ngumsebenzi wesondo. Iqabane lakho liba liyimfihlo kwaye likhulu. Uyabona ukuba ukhangele abantu abafani ngesini esinye.
Emva koko ufumanisa inyaniso kwaye ufunde ukuba iqabane lakho liyintombazana okanye isini.
Njengoko ihlabathi lakho liphendulela phantsi, kwaye njengoko iqabane lakho liphuma ', ufumana utyhulwa kwikhempi.
Nangona uvakalelwa wodwa, udelele kwaye unentloni, awunayo yezo zinto.
Izibalo ezimalunga noBuchule boBomi bezoBomi
Iibini eziqhelanisiweyo ezixubileyo zithetha ukuba elinye iqabane lingumlingani, isithandana, isini okanye isini.
Ngokwe-Network Straight Network, kuqikelelwa ukuba kukho izigidi ezi-2 ezidibeneyo. Ngokutsho kuka-Amity Buxton we-Network Straight Network, "Xa umlingani wesini, wesithandana, okanye obesini kunye naye, uya kuphuma, esinye sesithathu sihlala sihlanganisane omnye ukuya kwiminyaka emibini, senza into ekufuneka siyenze size siqhawule , isithathu eseleyo yenza ukuba imitshato yabo isebenze. Isiqingatha sazo iziqabane zesahlukaniso, ngelixa isiqingatha sabo (i-17% yexabiso) sihlala kunye iminyaka emithathu okanye ngaphezulu. "
I-Family Pride Coalition iqulunqe la manani alandelayo:
- Amaphesenti angama-20 kuwo onke amadoda angama-gay e-America asemtshatweni wesini.
- Amaphesenti angama-50 abo bonke abesilisa abangamazinyane eMelika baye bazala abantwana.
Amaphesenti angama-40 abo bonke ama-lesbians eMelika atshatile iqabane lamadoda.
Amaphesenti angama-75 abo bonke abantwabizi banabantwana.
Iingxaki eziphambili ezijongene nomlingani ochanekileyo
- Ukulahlwa ngokwesondo.
- Ukuzithemba ngokwesini.
- Imibuzo efana ne "Yintoni endiyenzayo ukwenza ukuba le" okanye "andiyindoda / isetyhini ngokwaneleyo"?
- Ukuzithoba komgangatho kunye nomgangatho ophezulu wokuzithemba.
- Ukuxhalabela ngabantwana. Baza kuthwala njani iindaba? Kuthiwani ngempembelelo yentsholongwane xa behlala nomzali wabo wesini?
- Ukukholelwa kweenkolelo emva kokuphila ubuxoki.
- Ukudideka ngomtshato kunye nokuba kulungile ukugcina.
- Uloyiko lokuba usapho lwakho luqhekeke.
- Kubuhlungu ngenxa yokuphulwa nokuxoxwa.
- Ukusingatha iimvakalelo, ukukrakra, ukwesaba, ukuthuthumela, ukuphelelwa yithemba, ukuphazamiseka, ukugxekwa, ukukhathazeka kunye nomsindo.
- Imibuzo malunga nokungathembeki.
- Ukujamelana neentloni, ukufihla kunye nokwesaba ukungabi nako kwamkelwa.
- Ukusebenzisana nomlingane womlingani ongathandanga ukukhawulela ukhetho lwezesondo.
- Uloyiko lokungabonakali okanye ukufumana izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo kunye noGawulayo.
Izinto Ozenzayo kwaye Ungenzi
- Musa ukuzihlukanisa. Usapho lwakho lusenkingeni. Funa iqela lokuxhasa okanye uncedo lobuchwepheshe.
- Qinisekisa ukuba nonke unako kwaye unako ukuhlala nayo. Abanye abantu banokukhangela ukhetho lwezesondo oludlulileyo kwaye abanye abakwazi.
- Ungacingi ukuba umtshato wakho usuphelile. Eminye imitshato eqondekileyo / emtshatweni yintlanano yintsebenziswano. Nangona kunjalo, uphando lubonisa ukuba ngaphandle kwe-15% yezibini ezenza ukuba zisebenze, i-7% kuphela yenze ixesha elide emva kokufunda enye iqabane lingumlingani.
- Yamkela ukuba kuthatha amabini ukwenza umtshato. Elinye iqabane alikwazi ukugcina umtshato wodwa.
- Khangela ngokukhawuleza izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo nokuba ingaba lakho iqabane livuma ukuba naluphi na ukungathembeki ngokwesondo.
- Khumbula ukuba akukho namnye onokuguqula umntu ongcolileyo.
- Ziyinyamekele njengoko uhamba kwinkqubo yokulila. Umtshato wakho njengoko wazi ukuba usuphelile. Ukuba uhlala utshatile, kuya kutshintshwa. Zama ukwamkela le nyaniso kwaye uqhubeke nobomi bakho.
- Ukuxelela abantwana bakho kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabo kunye nokuqonda. Unokufuna ukukhokelwa kobugcisa ukujongana nale nto. Kubalulekile ukuba bazive bebathandekile kwaye bekhuselekile kwaye bayazi ukuba abayikusola ityala.
- Musa ukuvumela iminyaka yokukhohlisa kunye nomqondo wokungcatsha ususe kumaxesha amahle kunye nezikhumbuzo ezintle onalo kumtshato wakho.
Oku akusiyo Inkohlakalo Yakho
Nangona ukuxhatshazwa kokuba ngumlingani ochanekileyo kunokuba kunzima, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba imeko ozifumanayo akuyiyo iphoso lakho.
Unyaka wokuqala uya kuba yinto enzima kakhulu. Xa ubhekene namava antshintsha ubomi, wena kunye nomlingane wakho unokwenza izigqibo zokunika ubomi ngenxa yomtshato, omnye nomnye kunye nabantwana bakho.
Ezi zigqibo zithetha ukuphela komtshato wakho. Ezinye izibini zitshatile zitshatile kwaye ezinye aziyi. Ukunyuka nokuyeka ukuhamba kuya kuthatha ixesha kwaye kuya kuthatha ukuzimisela ukuxolela.