Umcimbi wabalingani obukele uonografi ngumnye onokuqhawula umtshato. Ezinye izibini, iifoto zoonografi zilungile, ngelixa abanye, ukubukela iifostile kuyintlupheko.
Xa umfazi onxamnye noonobumba efumanisa ukuba umyeni wakhe uyayibheka, udla ngokuvutha umsindo, ukugxekwa, ukudideka nokungaqiniseki. Ingqumbo yakhe yomsindo kunye nokukhathazeka kunokunyaniseka ukuba ukhetha ukujonga iifostile ngokulala naye.
Ingxaki yoTywala
Nangona abafazi abaninzi bejonga iifoto zoonografi ukuba zihlambalaza, zihlazola kunye nendlela yokukhohlisa, amadoda amaninzi abaqondi ukuba abafazi babo bacaphukile malunga nokusetyenziswa koononobumba okanye indlela abawenza ngayo ukungathembeki. Ngaba Kukho Ukuziphatha Kokugqithisa? , URoss Douthat uyanda:
"Ingqwalasela ehlawulwa ekudibanisaneni phakathi koononophala kunye nokungathembeki ayiguquli nantoni na ngokufana nokuvumelana malunga nokuba kudibana njani. Iingqungquthela zibonisa ukuba abantu baseMerika bahluke ngokulinganayo kwimibandela enoba i-pornography ayimbi kubundlelwane, nokuba ingaba yinto engenakukuphepha ubukho bendoda, nokuba ngaba uyabahlaziya abantu besini. Ukuhlukana kuncipha ukukhawulwa ngokwemiba yesini, ngokuqinisekileyo: abasetyhini banokukhangeleka kwiimifanekiso engamanyala kunexesha elidlulileyo, kodwa bahlala benqabileyo kakhulu kunabantu, kwaye ukusetyenziswa kwayo. (Nokuba phakathi kwesizukulwana se-intanethi, ukwahlukana phakathi koomntu wesini kuya kuhlala kugxininisa. babo ontanga; malunga nesiqingatha sabesilisa abahlolisisiweyo babujonga ubuncinci ubuncinane kanye ngeveki, ngokumalunga nama-3 ekhulwini kwabesetyhini.) "- URoss Douthat
UCorey Silverberg uyanda ngakumbi kwisiqwenga sakhe Ngaba Ukhangeleka Ngokugqithisileyo? Uthi umbuzo kunye nenkxalabo yokuba ingaba i-pornography ilungile. Ukongezelela, uthi akukho nto engafanelekiyo okanye engaqhelekanga ngokubukela iifilimu zomntu omdala osemthethweni ngemvume. Nangona kunjalo, i-Silverberg iyavuma ukuba abanye abantu basebenzisa iigrazil ngendlela engafanelekanga, kwaye ukubukela okuninzi okanye ukugqithiswa kungabangela ingozi.
Uya kuwuqhathanisa neziyobisi, umsebenzi, kunye nemidlalo, nangona kukho i-tab encane kakhulu edibene nale mi sebenzi.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuthatha ukuthetha nomyeni wakho ngaphandle kokugweba. Khangela into ayithandayo ngeentlobo zoononopopasho, kwaye ukuba yinto engumngcamango, okanye ukuba ufuna nje ukubona into ekhona apho. Mhlawumbi zikhona izinto afuna ukuba bobabili uzame, okanye mhlawumbi ukubukela imifanekiso engamanyala, akunjalo nje.
Ukuchaza i-Porn
Iifoto zoonografi kunzima ukuchaza ngokuba izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abahlukeneyo. Ngaphezu koko, akusiyo yonke into ebonayo ayikho mthethweni. Iidrafiya zichazwa ngokubanzi njengezinto eziphathekayo, ezifana neemagazini, imifanekiso, iividiyo, ii-movie, kunye newebhsayithi, ezibonisa abantu ngendlela ecacileyo ngesondo. Nangona i-pornography ikwachazwa njengento yokuzonwabisa yabantu abadala kunye nomkhwa onobungozi, kubonakala ngathi "isichengiselwano sesango" esingakhokelela ekungcatshweni nasekungathembeki.
Kumsebenzi wakhe othi, Ngaba umtshato kunye noonografi baya kulala kunye? , U- Shannon Bradley-Calleary uxelela ukuba ubundlobongela bunokuba luncedo njani kwizibini ezitshatileyo:
"Ezinye ze-aphrodisiacs zam intandokazi ziquka i- Blood True , i- Spartacus , i- Hung (eyadabukisayo idityanisiwe), Amantombazana, kunye neMidlalo yeZihlalo zobukhosi . Ubunzima okanye bunzima (ewe, i-pun), ndicinga ukuba imifanekiso engamanyala iyakunceda ukugcina umtshato uphelele, obalulekile, ohlekisayo, kwaye uphila njalo xa ungasetyenziselwa ukutshatyalaliswa ngokwesini kunye qabane. " - Shannon Bradley-Calleary
Izimpawu zoMnxeba onobungozi
Uphawu olubonakalayo lokonakalisa ukusetyenziswa koonografi olusetyenziswayo kukuba ukungabikho kwesondo kumtshato wakho. Kukho iindlela ezongezelelweyo apho iqabane lakho lingabonisa ukuba wawela umgca:
- Ukuqhubeka ukuphika ebusweni bobufakazi obucacileyo
- Ukugqithisa ngokugqithisileyo
- Ukungakwazi ukuyeka ukujonga i-porn
- Ukunganakwa kwintsapho, umlingane, umsebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nezinye iimbopheleleko ezibalulekileyo
- Ukula ukuxoxa ngale ngxaki
- Ukulahlekelwa ngokwesondo kunye nomlingane
- Ukuthetha ngokusetyenziswa kwezithombe ezingcolileyo
- Ukungabi nenyameko malunga neemvakalelo zakho kumbandela
- Ukuzonwabisa
- Ukuhlala kamva ebusuku ukuchitha ixesha kwikompyutha
- Ukutshintsha rhoqo iiphasiwedi zamakhompyutha
- Ukufuna iimali ezingaqhelekanga zobumfihlo kunye nexesha lakho kwikhompyutha
- Ukuvumela ukufikelela lula kumaphephancwadi angcolileyo, iividiyo kunye neefayile zekhompyutheni kwamanye amalungu entsapho
Xa Umyeni Wakho Akayi Kuyeka Ukubukela Ubunono
Xa umtshato wakho ubonakaliswe kakubi ngopopayi, kwaye umyeni wakho akayi kuyeka ukubukela imifanekiso engamanyala, kufuneka uhlangabezane nenyaniso yokuba awukwazi ukutshintsha le ndlela. Nangona kunjalo, ukubuyisela ulawulo lolwalamano nokuhlola ezinye izicwangciso kunokukubuyisela emibini kwindlela.
Into yokuqala yokuyenza, xa ufumanisa umkhuba wakhe woonografi uphazamisa ubudlelwane bakho, kukuhlala phantsi kunye nentetho. Yabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho kwaye ucinge ukuba nomcebisi nawe ukuba awukwazi ukulungisa ingxaki. Unakho ukuthatha inxaxheba kumcebisi womtshato ukuze ubone ukuba kukho ezinye iingxaki emtshatweni wakho obangela ukusetyenziswa koononophelo okugqithiseleyo.
Xa ucinga ukuphelisa umtshato wakho, iimvakalelo zokuzithemba, ukuzithoba, kunye necala okanye ityala liya kutyhubela. Ungavumeli ukuba umyeni wakho asebenzise iinthombe zoononophala kakubi nakwezinye iindawo zobomi bakho. Ukuba izinto ezilungileyo ziphakathi kokubili, zama ukukhulula ngakumbi kwaye uqhubeke nemimiselo yobomi bakho. Ngaphandle koko, ingcali ingafuneka.