Ingxaki yintando yesondo kunye nobudlelwane obunothando. Ngokuqhelekileyo, imicimbi ayihlali ixesha elide kwaye ivela phakathi kwabantu ababini abangatshatanga. Sekunjalo, kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zemicimbi, kubandakanywa nezobuhlungu kunye nezo zenzeka kwi-intanethi, ezaziwa ngokuba yi-cyber.
Yintoni ethathwa njengomntu osweleyo?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye kunye nemibandela embalwa, umcimbi uthathwa njengokungcatshiswa kokwethemba.
Unako ukudala uxinzelelo olubukhulu ubudlelwane kwaye kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba abantu baqhatha iqabane labo.
Imicimbi ibizwa ngokuthi "ukukrexeza" phakathi kwezibini ezitshatileyo kunye "nokungathembeki" phakathi kwabatshatileyo nabalingani. Umcimbi ungahamba ngamanye amagama ngokunjalo. Unokuva oko kuthiwa yintando yothando, intlungu yomzwelo, ukuxhamla, okanye ubudlelwane obungaphandle komtshato. Abanye abantu baqamba nje ngokuba bangathembekanga okanye baqhatha.
Imiba ingaba yothando , ebizwa ngokuba "yintliziyo yenhliziyo." Ezi zinto zihlala zifana neentlobo zesinibano zesini phakathi kwamaqela angatshatanga okanye adibeneyo. Kwakhona kunokuqwalaselwa ngenye indlela okanye enye engekho yimi-monogamy.
Ngaphandle koko, ubudlelwane obuthathaka bubuhlobo (kwaye kaninzi bubuhlungu) phakathi kwabantu ababini abanokubandakanya ubudlelwane bezesondo. Nangona kunjalo, bahlala benjenjalo ngaphandle kokulindela ulwalamano olusenziwa ngokusemthethweni.
Umtshato Ovulekile
I-term affair inokuchaza kwakhona inxalenye yesivumelwano ngaphakathi komtshato "ovulekile" (okanye ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo). Isibini esivumelanayo sivuma ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zesini ezivunyelwe nomntu ngaphandle komlingani wazo oyintloko. Ijongwa njengento "enyanzeliswayo."
Imigaqo esetyenziswa ngokubanzi kule meko ibandakanya ukuzula, ukuthandana, i-polyamory, kunye neentambo ezintathu.
Ezinye iintlobo zeMicimbi
Ulwalamano lwe-platonic lunokuthiwa yintlungu yothando. Ukuphelelwa ngumntu onovakalelo , ngumntu ongenalo ukuthandana ngokwesondo kodwa unomdla okanye uhlala esondelene. Imicimbi yeemvakalelo iyakwazi ukuguqukela kwimicimbi yesondo ize ibe nje isongela ulwalamano oluphambili.
I-intanethi ye-intanethi, okanye i- cyber affair, enye enye eyenzeka ngenye indlela "ye-cyber-space". Inokuba ingaziwa okanye umntu owaziyo ngobomi bwenene. Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-cyber affair ine-emotional and / or sexes undertones. Oku kufezwa nge-chat, webcam, i-imeyile, itekisi kunye nezinye i-medium-based mediums.
Imicimbi Yakho
Enye into yokuba zonke iintlobo zemiba efana nayo kukuba zizinto ezizimeleyo kubo bonke abachaphazelekayo. Bayazinyanzelisa ubudlelwane bexesha elide kwaye bavame ukuzisa iimvakalelo ezininzi, zombini ezimbi nezilungileyo, kuxhomekeke kwindlela ojonga ngayo. Abanye abantu abandakanyekayo kwintlanganiso bafumanisa ukuba kudidekile kwaye akufaneleki ukuhlaselwa komzimba.
Njengokuba kunxulumano lobuqu, akukho zimpendulo ezichanekileyo okanye ezingalunganga xa kuziwa ekujonganeni nomcimbi. Ngamanye amaxesha inokutshatyalaza umtshato, ngelixa ezinye iibinibini ziyakwazi ukuphinda zibuyele ekungathembeki kwaye zilondoloze ubudlelwane babo.