Ngelishwa, nangaliphi na usuku olunikeziweyo kwiidolophu emhlabeni wonke, unokufumana ubuncinane ibali elinye kwiindaba malunga nokuziphatha kwentsha ngokukhawuleza. Ingaba kuyilwa lokulwa namagqirha okanye isenzo esinobundlobongela kumntu ongaziwayo, izizathu zobundlobongela ziyahluka.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezidibeneyo ukwenzela ukwandisa amathuba okuba umntwana usebundlobongela.
Izinto zobungozi ngabanye
- Abaselula abane-IQ ephantsi, ukulahlekelwa kwengqondo, okanye ukuphazamiseka kokufunda banokukwazi ukuziphatha ngokugqithiseleyo. Ukunqongophala kokunqongophala nokuxhatshazwa kwimiba yengozi.
- Imbali yokusetyenziswa gadalala kunye nembali yokuziphatha kakubi kwandisa umngcipheko we-adolescence wokuziphatha ngobundlobongela.
- Imiba yempilo yengqondo kunye nokuxinezeleka kwengqondo kudlala indima ekusebenzeni kobudlova. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abaninzi abatsha abanesifo sengqondo abagonyamelo.
- Izinkolelo ezingekho emthethweni kunye nokubandakanyeka kwimisebenzi engekho mthethweni-njengokusebenzisa iziyobisi kunye notywala-kwandise amathuba okuba umntwana usetshatyalaliswa.
- Ngokomlando, amadoda ayengenako ukutshintshiselwa emzimbeni. Nangona kunjalo, kwiminyaka yamuva, ubundlobongela obwenziwe ngabafazi buya kunyuka.
Izinto zeengozi zemfundo
- Izibalo zibonisa ukuba izikolo zasezidolophini ziba ziphindwe kabini ukuba zichaze ulwaphulo-mthetho olujongene nolwaphulo-mthetho oluqhathaniswa nezikolo zasemakhaya
- Phantse enye yesithathu yezikolo ezinezikolo ezingaphezu kwe-1 000 zichaza ubuncinane ubundlobongela obundlobongela rhoqo ngonyaka xa izikolo ezingaphantsi kweyeshumi ezincinane zibika izenzo zobundlobongela.
- Amasebe eZikolo azisa ingxelo yegundane kunye neziyobisi zinezinga eliphezulu kakhulu lobundlobongela.
- Abafundi abaqhuba kakubi ngexesha lesibini esikolweni basemngciphekweni ophezulu wokuziphatha ngobundlobongela ngexesha lephakamileyo esikolweni.
- Abaselula abaye baphuma esikolweni ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-15 banakho amathuba okwenza ubundlobongela.
Izinto zobungozi basekuhlaleni
- Imihlali enezindlu ezingenamgangatho kunye nokwehla kwezoqoqosho kunokufaka isandla kubantwana abavakalelwa kukuba uluntu alukhathaleli ngabo ngamanye amaxesha bavakalisa umsindo wabo ngobudlova.
- Amanani aphantsi aphantsi kunye nokubandakanyeka kwabantu abaphantsi kunokuba negalelo lokungabikho kwentsha kwaye kunokukhokelela ekwandiseni ulwaphulo-mthetho kunye nogonyamelo. Xa ulutsha lubona ubungqina bundlobongela kwimimandla yabo okanye baba ngamaxhoba obundlobongela, banobukhulu becala ukuba babe ngabaphulaphuli.
Izinto Zengozi Zentsapho
- Ukuziphatha okungahambelaniyo, kuquka ukuqeqeshwa ngokugqithiseleyo nokuvumileyo, kunokubangela ukuba intsha iphumelele. Ukungabikho kwongamela kukunika ithuba lokufumana intsha, ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kunye nokuziphatha ngokungafaniyo.
- Ukungabikho koxinzelelo lwabazali okanye abanakekeli banandisa amathuba okuba abatsha baya kuhoxisa igunya.
- Ukugula kwengqondo engabonakaliyo kwengqondo kubangela ukuba ubomi bemihlali buzinzileyo kunye nolwalamano nolutsha olusenokunyusa ingozi yomntwana.
- Abazali abaneengeniso eziphantsi kunye nemfundo engaphantsi kunokwenzeka ukuba banomdla osemvisweni okhulayo. Abazali abasebenzisa kakubi iziyobisi okanye utywala badla umngcipheko we-adolescence wokuziphatha ngokugqithisileyo.
- Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwabantwana kunye nokunyaniseka kwandisa amathuba okuba umntwana usebundlobongela obundlobongela ngama-38%.
- Imiba yentsapho egxininisekile, njengokungabikho kwisekhaya ekhaya, ukungquzulana kwindlu, okanye inxaxheba yabazali yokuziphatha okungalunganga kubangela ukuba intsha ingento yokungabi nantlontle engakhokelela ekusebenzeni ngobundlobongela.
Izinto Zengozi Zentlalo
- Xa intsha ifikeleleka ngokulula kwimipu, iyakwazi ukubandakanya ubudlova. Izibhamu zandisa amathuba okuba ulwalamano luya kufa.
- Ukudibanisa nabaontanga abangaphambukiyo kunokunyusa umngcipheko waselula wokubandakanyeka kwimisebenzi engekho mthethweni kunye nogonyamelo.
- Ukubandakanyeka okuphantsi kwimisebenzi ehleliweyo, njengeeklabhu okanye ezemidlalo, kunokudlala indima ekusebenzeni ngobundlobongela.
- Ukubonakaliswa kweMidiya yokuziphatha okungekho mthethweni kungabangela ukuba intsha ibenobundlobongela. Iindaba zokunxibelelana zingabangela ukuba ulutsha lube nelo lokhuseleko lwabo, oluya kubakhuthaza ukuba bathwale izixhobo.
Ukufumana Uncedo Olutsha Olushushu
Ukuba ubona iimpawu zobundlobongela, kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo olukhawulezayo kwintsapho yakho.
Nangona izenzo ezinobundlobongela, ezifana nokubetha umntakwabo omncinci okanye ukutshabalalisa ipropati ngenjongo, akufaneleki. Ubundlobongela buya kuba bubi ngaphezu kwexesha ukuba lugqityiwe.
Thetha ugqirha wakho wengane ukuba unenkxalabo. Udokotela wakho osemtsha unokuncoma unyango ngengcali yezempilo yengqondo. Ukunyanga ukuziphatha ngoku kunokunciphisa amathuba okuba umntwana okhuselekileyo uya kuba ngumntu onobudlova.
Imithombo:
ISebe lezeMpilo kunye neNkonzo zoLuntu (2001). Ubundlobongela Bolutsha: Ingxelo Yogqirha Jikelele .
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