Ubunzima beempawu zeBPD zibonakala ziyancipha njengomntu ubudala
Ukuba umntu owaziyo unemingcipheko yomntu ongapheliyo (BPD), usenokuba uqaphele ukuba njengoko loo mntu ekhula (ekupheleni kwe-30s kunye neye-40 yokugqibela), iimpawu zabo zibonakala ziyancipha kwixesha elininzi kunye nobunzima.
Enyanisweni, oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo phakathi kwalabo abane-BPD kwaye ibe yinto ephakamileyo yophando phakathi kwabaqeqeshi bezempilo kunye nabagula ngengqondo.
Nangona abaphandi bengayazi kakuhle ukuba kutheni iimpawu zeBPD zinciphisa ngobudala, ezinye iingcali zicebise izizathu ezithile, kuquka ukutshiswa, ukufunda nokukhusela ubudlelwane. Ezi zinokudityaniswa kwimiba yobomi kunye neyendalo.
Phuma kwi-BPD
Ezinye iingcali ziye zacinga ukuba iimpawu zeBPD ziyancipha ngenxa yokuba iimpawu zendalo "zitshisa" okanye ukuba abantu bavele bekhulile kwiimpawu njengoko bekhula. Ngokukodwa, uphando lubonise ukuba iimpawu zengqondo yokungabonakali kweBPD ziyakwazi ukuhla kwexesha. Oku kuyahambelana nokuqwalasela ukuba, ngokubanzi, abantu abadala baye baziphatha ngokungathandeki, nangona bengenayo i-BPD.
Kungenzeka ukuba njengoko sikhula kwaye sivuthiwe, ukunyanzeliswa kokuziphatha ngokunyanisekileyo kuyahamba, kusenza sikwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezinokulinganiswa kunye neziqulunqo. Njengoko ukuhlalisa ubusuku bonke bulahlekelwa yinkqonkqo kubaninzi kwiminyaka yabo engamashumi amahlanu, amaqhinga angabonakaliyo okanye ama-BPD angabonakaliyo angabonakala engezantsi.
Kufunda kwi BPD
Ezinye iingcali zicinga ukuba iimpawu ze-BPD zingancipha ngenxa yokuba uneminyaka yobudala, ufunda indlela yokuphatha kakuhle iimpawu zakho. Kwabanye abantu, le nkalo ingafika ngenxa yonyango olunzulu, kodwa kwabanye, oku kungaba ngumphumo wesifundo semvelo esivela ekuxoxeni iingxaki zempilo.
Ngamava kunye nokuzama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokonyango kunye nezakhono zokuhlangabezana , unokukwazi ukunciphisa ubunzima beempawu okanye ukuphatha phambi kokuba ziqale. Oku kufana nokufunda naziphi na izakhono-ngokuziqhelanisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuba lula ukufeza.
Uphephe ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kwi-BPD
Ekugqibeleni, iingcali ziye zacinga ukuba iimpawu zeBPD ziyancipha ngenxa yokuba, ngokugqithiseleyo, umntu ophethe i-BPD angafunda ukuphepha iimeko ezibangalisa iimpawu. Ngokomzekelo, kubantu abaninzi abane-BPD, iingxaki kwiintsebenziswano zontsebenziswano zibangalisa iimpendulo kunye neempawu. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abane-BPD bangaqala ukukhusela ubudlelwane babo ngokubanzi ukuze banciphise uxinzelelo lwabo. Oku kuye kwabizwa ngokuba "yinduduzo yodwa."
Ngelixa abanye abantu bebike impumelelo ngale ndlela, akucingwa ukuba yonyango olukhethileyo. Ukuphepheka nokuhlala ubomi bobuqu bodwa akunakuthatyathwa njengeendlela eziphilileyo kwi-BPD, kodwa kudlala indima ekunciphiseni imvama yesifo.
Enye imbono Kule nxu
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ezinye iingcali ziphikisana nokuba ngaba ngumntu wobudala okanye nje ubude besikhathi ayenayo i-BPD edibeneyo nokuhla kweempawu zabo.
Ngamanye amazwi, ngaba ngumntu womntu oqikelela iimpawu zabo, okanye bahlala bude kangakanani na?
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ngelixa i-BPD idlalwa njengengxaki yokudala yabantu abadala, kukho iqela labantu abahlangabezana nemigqaliselo ekudala (40 ukuya ku-60 ubudala ubudala), njengoko kucetyiswa yiphononongo Umbhalo woPhando lwezeMpilo.
Kule sifundo, abantu abadala aseBPD babekho amathuba okubonisa iimvakalelo ezingapheliyo kwaye banamaqondo aphezulu okukhubazeka kwentlalo. Babengenakwenzeka ukuba banomdla, bazibandakanye ukuzilimaza, okanye babe neenguqu ezikhawulezayo.
ILizwi
Nangona kubonakala ngathi unxibelelwano phakathi kweminyaka kunye nokunciphisa impawu kwi-BPD, uphando alukwazanga ukuchonga isizathu esona.
Ingaba kukho umphumo wokukhula komzimba okanye utshintsho kwi-chemistry yengqondo ngokuhamba kwexesha, izazinzulu ziqhubeka zikhangelelanisa umbutho njengoko zinokuba negalelo elikhulu ekuhloleni nasekuphatheni abantu nge-BPD kwikamva.
Ukuba kukho, empeleni, utshintsho kwi-chemistry yezobuchopho, kunokuthetha ukuba amayeza angakwazi ukulinganisa le mphulo kwaye uncede unciphise iimpawu.
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