"Ukuthabatha izinto" ngokuqhelekileyo ngumqondiso wokufuna ukwazi
Umntwana wakho ene- ADHD uthanda ukuhlola ukusebenza kwangaphakathi koomatshini - usebenzisa izixhobo ezininzi ezifunyenwe kwiworkshop kaTata. Kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo. Ngaphandle kokuba izixhobo azikhethayo zenzeka ukuba zixhobo zamandla ezingamlimaza kakhulu. Okanye into ayithathayo iyabonakala yintsapho exabisekileyo.
Kutheni i-ADD abantwana "Yenza Konke?"
Abantwana abane-ADHD banomdla wokucinga ngemiphumo yokuziphatha kwabo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ziqhutywa nje ngethuba, abakwazi ukuchasa iminqweno , ngakumbi xa kukho into abayithandayo kwaye bayakujabulela ukuyenza. Ngamanye amagama, umntwana wakho we-ADHD akanakucinga ngeengxaki ezinokuthi zenzeke xa ethatha iwashi lakho elibizayo. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, akakwazi ukucinga ngeengozi ezinokuthi zenzeke kwigaraji njengoko ehamba kunye nokuhlola esinye sezixhobo zikayise. Kunoko, uphila ngexesha kwaye ujabulele ukuzonwabisa kunye nokufunda okuza kunye nokudlala kunye nezixhobo kunye nokuthatha izinto ngaphandle.
Ukongezelela, abantwana abane-ADHD bavame ukuvakalisa nokwanelisa umnqweno wabo ngokuzibandakanya ngezinto ezenza umdla. Unokuva umzali athi, "Umntwana wam into yonke!" Kwaye umntwana udla ngokuba "ngena" kule nto njengoko evakalelwa kwaye aziphathe ngendlela ecacileyo- ukufunda ngokusebenzisa ukuhlola kwangokwenyama.
Iingcebiso zokunciphisa iingxaki ngelixa uhlolisisa amaxesha
Ewe, kubalulekile ukunciphisa amandla omntwana wakho wokubangela ingozi kwimpahla yabanye okanye kuye.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, njengomntu omdala onomxholo we-ADD wachaza ukuba, "Ndenze into efanayo nomntwana kwaye ndaqukumbela ukuba ndiphumelele ngeminyaka engama-35 njengomsebenzi wezobunjineli!"
Kunokwenzeka ukuxhasa umdla womntanakho kumatshini kunye nobunjineli ngelixa uqinisekisa nokuba umntwana wakho okanye izinto zakho zenzakele.
Ngokubeka iiparameters kunye nemida ejikeleze ukuziphatha okungavumelekanga kuwe, kunye nokubonelela ngesikhokelo esisebenzayo, umntwana wakho unokukwazi ukulungisa ukuthanda kwakhe kumathuba afanelekileyo okufunda.
Nazi ezinye iingcamango ezinokukunceda:
- Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe izinto ezinokuthathwa ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye ngaphandle kokubangela iingxaki kwamanye amalungu entsapho. Cinga ukutyelela ivenkile yokuthengisa okanye i-junk shop apho izinto ezinomdla zifumaneka kwixabiso eliphantsi.
- Yenza ibhokisi ekhethiweyo yetswelo eyomntwana wakho. Unokuze uqalise inkqubo yokufumana umvuzo apho angafumana khona izixhobo ezongezelelweyo zokuzongeza kwiqoqo lakhe.
- Beka amaxesha okufundisa umntwana wakho ngezixhobo zamandla kunye nokukhusela kwabo, ukusetyenziswa okufanelekileyo. Kwaye mhlawumbi oku kunokuba yinto ekhethekileyo yokubambisana kunye nexesha lokufundisa elinayo kunye noyise okanye umama wakhe.
- Yenza uphinde uthumele uluhlu lwemithetho ecacileyo malunga nokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo. Xoxa ngemiphumo yokuphula imithetho ngaphambi kwexesha.
Ezi zizinye iingcamango zendlela onokukwazi ukuhambisa ngayo iimpembelelo zomntwana wakho kumava okufunda okulungileyo.