Yintoni Eyona Imfuno Yokuba Nakho?

Imfuno yokubamba iqela , edla ngokubhekiswa njengokuba ngumntu, ibhekisela kwiimfuno zomntu ezichaphazelekayo ukuze zidibane kunye kwaye zamkelwe ngamalungu eqela. Oku kungabandakanya isidingo sokuba ngumlingane kwiqela leontanga esikolweni, ukuba samkelwe ngabasebenzi abasebenzisana nabo, ukuba babe yinxalenye yeqela lezemidlalo kunye nokuba yinxalenye yeqela lecawa. Kuquka okungakumbi kunokuqhelana nabanye abantu.

Kunoko kugxile ekufumaneni ukwamkelwa, ingqwalasela kunye nenkxaso evela kumalungu eqela kunye nokunika ingqalelo efanayo kwamanye amalungu.

Indlela Okufuneka Yokuba Ngayo Inokushukumisa Indlela Yokuziphatha

Kwizengqondo zezenhlalakahle , imfuno yokubamba iinjongo zokubambisana kunye nabanye kunye nokwamkelwa koluntu. Le mfuno idlala indima kwinani lezenzo zentlalo ezifana nokuzimela kunye nokuthelekiswa kwentlalo. Le mfuneko yokuba iqela lingakhokelela ekutshintsheni kwindlela yokuziphatha, iinkolelo kunye nezimo zengqondo njengoko abantu bazama ukuhambelana nemigangatho nemigangatho yeqela.

Ngokomzekelo, abantu bahlala bezethula ngendlela ethile ukuze bahlale kwiqela elithile lentlalo. Ngokomzekelo, ilungu elitsha leqela lebhola lebhola eliphezulu lingafumana isambatho kunye nemigangatho yamanye amalungu eqela ukwenzela ukuba lihlangane nalo lonke iqela. Abantu baya kuchitha ixesha elide baqhathanisa namanye amalungu eqela ukuze baqaphele ukuba bafanelekile kangakanani.

Lo mzekeliso wezenhlalo ungakhokelela umntu ukuba athathe ezinye iimpawu ezifanayo kunye nesimo sengqondo samalungu ahloniphekileyo eqela ukuze ahambisane kwaye afumaneke ngakumbi.

Ngoko ke yini ekhuthaza abantu ukuba bafune amaqela athile? Kwiimeko ezininzi, imfuneko yokuba ngamaqela athile asekuhlaleni kubangelwa ukwabelana ngento ethile yesiqhelo.

Ngokomzekelo, abatsha ababelana ngesantya esifanayo kwisambatho, umculo kunye nezinye izinto abanokuzifunela ngaphandle ukuze benze ubungane. Kwamanye amaxesha, izinto ezinjengeenjongo ezabelwana ngazo, imeko yezoqoqosho, iinkolelo zonqulo, iinkolelo zezopolitiko kunye nemigangatho yenkcubeko yemidlalo ingakhokelela abantu ukuba bafune amaqela abelana ngale mibalelo.

Kutheni Iimfuneko Zokuba Zizinto Ezibalulekileyo

Imfuno yethu yokuba ngumnini yinto esishukumisela ukuba sifune ubudlelwane obuzinzile, obuhlala ixesha elide nabanye abantu. Kwakhona kusishukumisela ukuba sithathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yoluntu njengamakilabhu, amaqela ezemidlalo, amaqela enkolo kunye nemibutho yoluntu.

Ngokwamaqela, sivakalelwa ngathi siyinxalenye yento ebalulekileyo kwaye ibaluleke ngakumbi kunathi.

Ku-Abraham Maslow ulawulo lweemfuno , ubuncwane buyingxenye yesinye sezidingo zakhe ezibalulekileyo ezikhuthaza ukuziphatha kwabantu. Ulawulo lolawulo luvame ukubonakaliswa njengepiramidi, kunye neemfuno ezingundoqo ezisisiseko kunye nezidingo ezixakeke ngakumbi kwiphondo. Isidingo sothando kunye nobuxoki phakathi kwipiramidi njengenxalenye yeemfuno zoluntu. Ngethuba uMaslow ephakamisa ukuba ezi zidingo zingabalulekanga kunokuba zifuna iimpilo kunye nezokhuseleko, wayekholelwa ukuba imfuneko yokuba ngumntu uncedise abantu ukuba bafumane ubudlelwane kunye nokwamkelwa ngentsapho, abahlobo kunye nabanye ubudlelwane.