Ngaba uziva unesizungu? Iziphumo zophando olulodwa zibonisa ukuba zakho iimvakalelo zinokwenza ukuba abantu bakungekho baninzi bodwa.
Ngokutsho kweziphumo zolu cwaningo, ukuzinyameka kunokusasazeka ngokufana nebandayo. Nangona i-bug ye-cold or flu isenokusasazeka ngokusebenzisa ukuxhaphaza, ukunyaniseka kunokusasazeka ngamaqela abantu ngokusebenzisa intsebenziswano engentle yabantu.
Uphando oludlulileyo lufumene ukuba abantu abanesizungu bavame ukwenza izinto ezinamahloni, abanobutsha, abaxhalabileyo kunye noluntu . Baye bathambekele ekutshintsheni ukusebenzisana kwentlalo ngokuhlukileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo bebona ukuziphatha okuthile kwabanye njengendlela yokulahlwa okanye ukuxothwa.
Olu pho nonongo lwabandakanya abantu abangaphezu kwama-5 000 abacelwa ukuba bazalise i-questionnaire yedwa, banike imbali yonyango kwaye bafumane ukuhlolwa kwempilo emibini kwiminyaka emine ukuya kwiminyaka elishumi. Abathathi-nxaxheba babonise ukuba ngubani na abahlobo kunye nezihlobo zabo, yaye abaninzi balaba bantu nabo bathatha inxaxheba kwisifundo. Ngokujonga kwiintanethi zentlalo yabathathi-nxaxheba kunye nenani leentsuku ezingabonwayo ngamnye ngonyaka, abaphandi bakwazi ukubona indlela ukukhushulwa kweentlanga kuzo zonke iindidi.
Uphando lufumene ukuba:
- Abantu bazizwa bekhulile malunga neentsuku ezingama-48 eziphuma kunyaka ngamnye, ngokomyinge.
- Abantu malunga nama-50 epesenti banokufumana uxolo xa umntu edibaniswa ngokuthe ngqo ukuba azive enesizungu.
- Iingxelo zabesetyhini zijongene nesizungu
- Ukuxhalabisa kunokwenzeka ukuba kusasazeka kwiintanethi zoluntu kunabesilisa.
- Ukuxhalabisa kunokwenzeka ukuba kusasazeka kwiinkonzo zabahlobo, kunokuba kwintsapho.
Impembelelo engebiyo yoLuntu
Uphando olwangaphambili luye lwabonisa ukuba uluntu lunokuchaphazela uxinzelelo, impilo yempilo kunye nokukhuseleka.
Kodwa ezi akuzona kuphela iindawo apho uluntu luthatha ixabiso. UJohn Cacioppo, umbhali wencwadi ethi Loneliness, uthi: "Abantu abadala abanomdla badla utywala obuninzi baze bafumane umthamo ongaphantsi kunabo abangenanto." "Ukutya kwabo kunamafutha amaninzi, ubuthongo babo busebenza kangangoko, kwaye baxela ukukhathala komhla. Ukuxiliswa kukuphazamisa ukulawulwa kwezinkqubo zamaselula ngaphakathi komzimba, kusenza senze ukuguga kwangaphambili."
Ukuxhomekeka, ngokweengcali ezininzi, akuthethi ukuba yedwa. Esikhundleni saloo nto, ingcinga yokuhlala yedwa kunye neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, i-freshman yikholeji inokuziva inesizungu nangona ijikelezwe ngabahlali kunye nabanye oontanga. Umhlolokazi unokuziva unelisekile ngeli holide nangona ujikelezwe yintsapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe.
Ukuxhalaba Kuninzi Okuqhelekileyo
Abaphandi bacetyisa ukuba ubunyulu buba nzima kwi-United States. Xa zikhethwe njengengxenye ye-questionnaire ka-1984, abaphenduli bavame ukuvakaliswa ukuba banezikhalazo ezikufutshane. Xa umbuzo wabuzwa kwakhona ngo-2004, impendulo eqhelekileyo yayiyimfihlo.
Lo mkhuba unenhlanhla kuba iingcali zikholelwa ukuba akulona ubungakanani bentsebenziswano yentlalo elwa nokulondeka, kodwa ukuba ngumgangatho . Ukuba nabantwana abathathu okanye abane abahlobo abasondeleyo banelungelo lokukhusela uluntu kunye nokunciphisa imiphumo emibi yempilo ehambelana nale meko yengqondo.
Ngokutsho kukaCacioppo, "Umbutho unokufumana inzuzo ngokubhekiselele ekuhlaseleni ngokubanzi abantu kwiindawo ezihamba phambili ukuze bancede ukulungisa amanxibelelwano abo asekuhlaleni kunye nokwenza umqobo wokukhusela uluntu olungakwazi ukugcina inethiwekhi yonke ingabonakali."
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