Njengoko Uphuzo loTywala luqhubela phambili, kunjalo-ke
Enye yezona zinto ziphazamisayo ekujonganeni notywala, njengesihlobo, umhlobo okanye uchwepheshe, phantse ihlala ihamba kunye nesimo esibizwa ngokuba "ukuphika."
Kwindlela emide utywala uthabathela ekuhlaleni kwengqondo, ngokomzimba nokuziphatha, ngokuqhelekileyo, into yokuqala yokuhamba kukunyaniseka. Uqamba amanga ngokusela kwakhe. Ukuqamba amanga ekuqaleni.
Ndinezinto ezimbini kuphela ... andizange ndiphuze ngeveki ... andisayi kusela kakhulu njengoko akwenzayo ...
Njengoko utywala uqala ukusela ngaphezulu, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo, uqala ukufihla le nyaniso kubantu abakujikelezile. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko zakhe angase aphuze ngokusobala, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, uya kuzifihla umlinganiselo atywalayo, ngokungabinakuzondla abo basondelene naye.
Ukuba umntu uzama ukuxoxa naye ngokusela naye, umane nje wenqaba ukuthetha ngawo, okanye uyichitha njengengxaki eyinyani. Emva koko, uyinkwenkwe enkulu ngoku kwaye uyayiphuza ukuba uyayifuna, akuyiyo into yomnye umntu.
Iimpawu kwiNgxaki ejulile
Kodwa ezi zenzo ezilula zokukhanyela, ukuxoka ngokusela okanye ukungazixubusha, ziyimpawu zokuba utywala ngokwakhe ngaphakathi uyazi ukuba unengxaki. Ukuba ayinayo ingxaki, kutheni ukulala ngamanye umntu? Ukuzikhusela?
Kodwa utywala owenene, umntu onesi sifo, ufihla kwaye uyaphika ukusela kwakhe ngaphandle kwemvakalelo yakhe yokuba kukho into eyahlukileyo okanye "engalunganga" ngayo.
Ngaphakathi ngaphakathi uyaqonda ukuba ukusela kwakhe kuthetha ngakumbi kuye ukuba uyavuma ukuvuma.
Indlela yoKhuselo?
Njengoko eso sifo siyaqhubeka kwaye ukusela kwakhe kuqala ukubangela iingxaki zangempela ebomini bakhe, ngokukhawuleza ukukhanyela kuye kwanda. Nangona ama-spree akhe amfumene kwiinkxalabo zangempela, uyayiphika into enokuyenza ngokusela kwakhe.
Abanye bathi le nto iyindlela yokukhusela.
Kwenzeka njani oku? Ngokuqhelekileyo ngexesha ixesha lesi sifo liye lafikelela kwingongoma yenkxalabo, uye wavelisa inkqubo yenkxaso yentsapho kunye nabahlobo abangenakuqonda ukuba baqhubeke bekhanyela.
"Ukukhusela utywala
Ngenxa yokuba bayamthanda abachaphazelekayo, abaqili nabangcolileyo, banokumkhusela ngokumfakela, benze umsebenzi angenziwanga, ukuhlawula iindleko azithethileyo, ukumhlangula kwiintlobo zakhe zomthetho , kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ethatha uxanduva oluye lwashiya.
Akakwazi ukuza ukusebenza namhlanje, unayo, i-er, intsholongwane ... Simele sikhuphe ejele, uya kulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi wakhe! Emva koko siza kwenza ntoni ... Kwingxaki yam, igosa, ndathi ezinye izinto endingafanele ndithe ...
Uhlangulwe kwiZiphumo
Ngokwenza ezi zinto, zikhusela utywala ngenxa yezenzo zakhe. Akaze afune ukuziva intlungu ngokwenene ebangelwa ukusela. Bazama ukubeka "imithwalo" phantsi kwakhe ukuze akwazi ukuzilimaza ekwindla. Ngenxa yoko, umntu onxilisayo akafumani ukuba uvakalelwa njani ukuwa.
Nangona ukusela kuye kwambeka kwindawo engenakunceda kunye noxhomekeke kuyo, utywala unokuqhubeka ekholelwa ukuba usezimele ngenxa yokuba uye wasindiswa kwiinkathazo zakhe ngentsapho yakhe enentsingiselo, abahlobo, abasebenzisana nabo, abaqeshi kunye namaxesha athile abefundisi nabacebisi.
Ukuthintela Ukubetha Ngezantsi
Iindima ezi nxaxheba zidlala "ukunceda" umntu onxilisayo unokuba nje unobungozi kwaye unobungozi njengokusela kotywala, okuphindwa ngamaxesha amaninzi ekuthandeni abantu abathandwayo.
Ngaloo mafayili akwaziyo ukusetyenziswa, umntu onxilisayo ukhululekile ukuqhubeka nokuqhubela isifo sakhe, ngokunyanyeka kwakhe, kuze kube yilapho efikela kwindawo yokubetha ezantsi , ngexesha apho kunye nomnxila ozinikezele kakhulu kufuneka ekugqibeleni avume ukuba kukho ingxaki . Kodwa akukho ndlela yokuba ahlale ewa phantsi xa ihlala ihlanganiswe ngemithwalo. Ngaba ungaqinisekanga ukuba unika utywala ebomini bakho?
Le mibuzo ingaba nakho ukunceda.