Unyulo lwezopolitiko kule mihla luye lwaba lukhulu kakhulu - sinomdla ochaphazelekayo kumacala omabini, kwaye sinomdla kakhulu kumacala omabini, kwicala lomviwa ongazange alincede ngokungathandabuzekiyo uzive edidekile kunye noxinzelelo ekubeni nezinto zihambe ngenye indlela. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlanga luhlangane kwaye luqhube phambili emva komkhankaso olwabalaseleyo, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba abavoti bazive bebhetele kwaye bangaphantsi koxinzelelo malunga neziphumo ukuba iziphumo azizange zithembeke.
Nazi ezinye iindlela zokunciphisa uxinzelelo malunga nokhetho.
Setha imida
Abantu abaninzi baye baqhelanisa ukujonga iiyure zeendaba zeeyure ezingama-24 kunye newebhusayithi kwaye bahlale behamba phambili kwiiprojekthi kwiinyanga eziliqela ezidlulileyo. Ngoku ukuba ukhetho lwenzekile, unokuqala ukuqaphela ukuba kwakunzima kakhulu. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile, zama ukukhawulela iindaba zakho, okanye uhambe "kwiindaba ezikhawulezayo" kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, ukuzithoba.
Nangona uthabathe ikhefu kwiindaba, unokufuna ukuzityhila kwiindawo eziza kutshabalalisa ukunyamezela: Thatha ukuhamba kunye nosapho lwakho ngokuhlwa, ukuya kwiklasi yokuzivocavoca ( ukuzivocavoca kukuxininisa kakhulu), okanye uzame ukukhokelwa umzobo wokutshintsha "ngokukhawuleza" kweendawo. Uya kuvuya xa wenza.
Yenza into
Abantu sele bevolontiya kunye nokubandakanyeka kumaphulo ezopolitiko manani aphezulu. Ngoku ukuba iiphulophu zidlulileyo, unokuzonwabisa ngokuzithandela ngenxa yezizathu ezifanelekileyo ezibalulekile kuwe.
Ukwenza okuthile ngoxinzelelo lwakho kunokukunceda ukujamelana nokuxhalaba kwakho , kukunike umqondo wokulawula (funda apha malunga neenzuzo zokufumana indawo yangaphakathi yokulawula ), kwaye ugcine ingqondo yakho ekugxininiselweni komviwa wakho ongayiphumeli.
Shintsha U mgxininiso
Ukuba umviwa wakho angaphumeleli ungadumala kakhulu.
Nje ngezinye iimeko apho unenkxalabo kodwa unganamandla okutshintsha ngqo imeko zakho, enye into ongayenza ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kukutshintsha indlela esijonga ngayo. Nangona akudingeki ube nomdla ngomnye umqhubi, unokunciphisa uxhalaba ovakalelwa ngalo ngolu hlobo ngokutshintsha oko ujolise kuyo. Usuvele uyayazi into ongayithandiyo ngomnye umviwa, kodwa unokuba uzive ungcono xa ukhangele iimpawu okanye izinto ezinokuthi uzive kakuhle - akekho ovuma okanye ongavumelaniyo ne-100% yemibono yomntu kunye nemigaqo-nkqubo yomntu, ngoko ke amathuba okulungileyo ukuba kukho iimeko ezintle kuwe kule meko. Ukuba ukhangeleka kwaye awukwazi ukufumana nantoni na malunga nale miphumo engavekiyo kuwe, kunokukunceda uzive ungcono ukugxila kwezinye izinto ebomini ezikuvuyisa ulonwabo, njengabahlobo kunye nosapho. (Jonga eli nqaku ngezinye iinkcukacha ekutshintsheni imbono yakho ngokuhlengahlengiswa kwengqondo .)
Thetha nomnye
Kungaba yinkathartic ukuthetha nabangani kunye nosapho abavumelana nemibono yakho yezopolitiko. Hlangana kunye nokuthetha ngokudumala kwakho, kwaye unokuziva ulungele ukufumana iimvakalelo zakho; uya kuziva uxhaswa kwaye uqondwa.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthetha nje ngeemvakalelo zakho nge- journaling kukunceda ukuba uhambe. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba iimvakalelo zakho zinzulu kangangokuthi ziphazamisa ukusebenza kwakho rhoqo, usenokufuna ukuthetha nochwepheshe.
UkuPhathwa kwengcinezelo rhoqo
Ukuxinezeleka kwengcinezelo. Ingaba uxinzelelo lwakho luvela kukwesaba ukhetho okanye enye into, kubalulekile ukuba uxinzelelo olusisigxina lube nesiphakamiso sakho sokugcina uxinzelelo lwakho lwangoku ukuxilwa kukunyamezela okungapheliyo, apho ukuphendula kwakho kwengcinezelo kubangelwa kwaye akuze kuphephe. Ezinye zam intandokazi zizinto zokuphefumula, ukuzivocavoca rhoqo, ukucamngca , ukuxhaswa kwezenhlalakahle kunye nokubhala.