1 - Qinisekisa ukuba Uya kuPhathi
Ukujamelana nokuxhalaba malunga namaqela kuqala ngokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ngaba akunakulungele ukuba ube khona.
Yenza iphuzu lokungazibhali. Ukuba sele usuhlelwe into ehleliweyo yosuku lwentlanganiso yokuhlwa, kulungile ukuhlawula esinye isimemo, ngakumbi ukuba ucinga ukuba kungaphezu kokusingatha.
Kuthiwani ngokuthatha isigqibo sokugqibela? Ukuba awufumananga iindlela ezaneleyo zokujamelana nokuxhalabisa okanye uzive ngathi ungaphakathi kwenkathazo, mhlawumbi kungcono ukuhlala ekhaya uze wenze isifungo sokuba ulungele ixesha elizayo.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, fownela umphathi wakho ukuba umenze ukuba azi ukuba kukho into ethile kwaye awuyi kuba khona.
2 - Yilungele iNkundla
Qala ukucinga malunga nendlela oza kuchitha ngayo ixesha lokuphumla ngaphambi kweqela. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, qiniseka ukuba ubuncinane ubuncinane beeyure zokuchitha ixesha ukulungiselela. Zama ukusebenzisa ixesha. Ezinye iingcamango zingabandakanya oku kulandelayo:
- ibhanti ye lavender
- u msebenzi
- incwadi enhle
- umdlalo ozithandayo
Cwangcisa kakuhle kwangaphambili oko uza kugqoka kumcimbi. Ukuba kuyimeko ehlelekile, cela malunga neefayili zokugqoka. Khetha iingubo zombini ezibukeka kakuhle kuwe kwaye zikhululekile.
3 - Khetha okuza kuzisa kwiqela
Nangona akusoloko ufune ukuzisa isipho kwiqela, kukho iimeko apho kuya kulungeleka. Ngokufanayo nokukhetha izambatho zakho, ukuthenga izipho kufuneka kwenziwe kwangoko kwangangoko kunokwenzeka. Oku kuya kukunika ixesha lokucinga ngokukhetha kwakho nokucela abanye ukuba bacebise ukuba awuqinisekanga malunga noko uza kuzisa.
Izipho eziqhelekileyo zomncedisi zingabandakanya:
- ibhotile yewayini (ukuba uyaphuza utywala)
- i dessert
- i-accessory yekhitshini okanye isitya (cinga ngento engavamile, into enokuthi ayithenge yona ngokwakhe)
- iintyatyambo okanye isityalo
4 - Gqiba ixesha lokufika kwiqela
Ukuba unengxaki yokuxhatshazwa kweentlalo, kungcono ukufika kwiqela ngexesha okanye ngokukhawuleza kwangoko, kunokuba uhambe ngokukhawuleza.
Ukufika kwangaphambili kukuvumela ukuba uhlangabezane neendwendwe njengoko zifika, kunokuba ungene kwiqela elikhulu kwaye ukhangele uluhlu olude lwezethulo . Ukuthetha ngeentetho, ungabi nzima ngokwakho ukuba awukwazi ukukhumbula amagama omntu wonke odibana naye kwisimo seqela. Kuhle ukucela okwesihlandlo sesibini-kwaye kunokukunceda ukubonisa umdla wakho wokwenza umhlobo omtsha.
5 - Cinga ngeendlela zokusondela kubantu kwi-Party
Ukuba ufumene kwiqela apho ungayazi khona umntu (udos kuwe ukuya!), Isithintelo sokuqala siya kuba nokufumana umntu onokuthetha naye. Khangela ubuso obunobungane kwisihlwele. Mhlawumbi kukho umntu obonakala ewodwa.
Yenza uluvo olubanzi malunga neendawo ezikuyo
- "Ukutya kubonakala kuhle"
- Imozulu epheleleyo yeqela langaphandle "
Ukuba loo mntu akayifumani kwakhona, zama kwakhona ngomnye umntu.
Indlela engcono yokungena kwiqela kwiphathi kukungeniswa kwamalungu ayo.
Ukuba ubona umntu ehlukana kwiqela, zama ukufikelela kuloo mntu ngomntu omnye. Qaphela ulwazi lomzimba wakho ngaphezu kokuthethayo. Musa ukuwela iingalo zakho uze uqiniseke ukuba uncumo. Ngokuqinisekileyo loo mntu uza kukuzisa kulo lonke iqela.
6 - Cinga ngeNtetho enokuthetha ngayo ngePhathi
Ukuba unamava amancinci uthetha nabanye, kunokuba nzima ukukwazi ukuba uthethe ntoni ngeqela. Kukho ezinye izinto onokuzilungiselela ngaphambili, ezifana namahlaya amahle okanye amabali anomdla. Kungcono ukuthetha ngezihloko eziqhelekileyo. Ezinye imizekelo ziquka ezi zilandelayo:
- midlalo
- umculo
- iziganeko zangoku
- iifilimu ezizithandayo
- zokutya
Buza imibuzo uze uzame ukufumana umdla oqhelekileyo nabanye. Qinisekisa ukuba imibuzo yakho ivulekile kwaye ukhuthaze incoko.
Ngokomzekelo, kungcono ukubuza, "Uthanda ukuthatha ugqirha wezilwanyana?" kunokuthi "Ngoko, ungumlwanyana wezilwanyana?" Qinisekisa ukuphulaphula iimpendulo kunokuba ulinde ukungena kunye namazwana akho. Enye indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba uphulaphule kakuhle kukucwangcisa ukuxelela omnye umntu into oyifunayo kwingxoxo. Oku kuya kukukhuthaza ukuba ubuze imibuzo kwaye uqaphele.
Ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba ngokubanzi, izihloko ezizimeleyo kunye nezopolitiko kunye nenkolo ayilona iqela elungileyo kunye nabaziwayo.
7 - Khetha okutya kunye nokusela kwiqela
Zama ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kotywala xa usesikhathini. Nangona kunokuzama ukusela utywala ukuba uzive ungakhathazeki, ingozi yokusela utywala inkulu kulabo bahluphekileyo.
Ukuba uyaphuza, yenza njalo ngokumodareyitha kwaye udle ukutya ukucima imiphumo yotywala. Ukuba ukutya phambi kwabanye kubangela ukukhathazeka, qiniseka ukuba udle ubuncinci into encane ngaphambi kokuhamba, ukuba ube kwicala elikhuselekileyo.
8 - Fumana Izinto Ozenzayo kwiPhathi
Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo kunye nemisebenzi kunye nabanye banokuvakalelwa ngathi ubeka kwibala. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ubuncinane uzame ukuthatha inxaxheba.
Khumbula, injongo ayiyikuba yinto engcono okanye ukuphumelela umdlalo. Injongo kukukwazi abantu kwiqela kwaye uzive ukhululekile kunye nabo. Ungayifumana emva komdlalo ovusayo we-pictionary okanye enye ibhola ye-bocce oye wahlakulela umtshato kunye nabahlobo bakho abatsha.
9 - Ukujongana nokukhathazeka kwiqela
Zenza izicwangciso zokujamelana nazo xa ufumana ukuxhalabisa. Khangela indawo onokuya kuyo ukuze udibanise, kwaye uye apho ukuba kufuneke.
Zenza ukuphefumula ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye uzisebenzise xa uziva ungaphathi. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, velisa umntu owaziyo malunga nexhala lakho kwaye ngubani oya kukunceda ukuba uphumelele xa kuyimfuneko.
10 - Khetha ixesha lokushiya iqela
Beka umda wexesha ngaphambi kokuba uye kwiqela uze unamathele kwisicwangciso sakho sokuphuma.
Ukwazi ukuba uza kuchitha ixesha elingakanani kusengaphambili kufuneka uncede ukunciphisa uxhalaba. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uyonwabile kwaye ufuna ukuhlala ixesha elide, lukhulu! Ukuba ngakolunye uhlangothi, awucingi ukuba unako ukuhlala ixesha lonke, wazi ukuba kulungile ukuphumula kusasa. Ndivakale ukuba uhlale ixesha elide njengoko wenzayo.
11 - Ilizwi
Amaqela anokusongela okanye avuyisayo-konke kukujonga ngayo. Ewe, ukuba uphakathi kwenkxalabo enzima kwaye ungakhange usebenze isicwangciso sonyango esifanelekileyo, ukuya kwimibutho akunokuba yinto efanelekileyo yeyona nyathelo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba ukhangele indlela yokwenza umngeni wakho kwaye uphuhliso lwezakhono zentlalo, amaqela ayimigodi yegolide.
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