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Ukuba ungumntu ofumanisa ukwenza oku, okanye ukuba udidekile kukuba kutheni ndiyakonwabela le nto, ndineendaba ezithandekayo kuwe. Kucacisa ukuba uphando lubonisa ukuba kutheni abantu bebanjwe kulo hlobo lokuphucula uxinzelelo, kwaye kunengqiqo. Kubonakala ukuba konke kukuzalisekisa amandla ethu okugcina amandla ngokuncinci koxinzelelo oluphantsi, oluthuthuzelayo "loluntu" ixesha.
Izifundo ezimbini ezipapashwe kwiphephancwadi yeNtlalo yePhysical Psychological and Personality Science zahlalutya ulwalamano phakathi kwemikhwa yethelevishini nokuzaliswa komsebenzi, kwaye iziphumo zibonisa inkcazo yokuba kutheni lo mkhuba usebenza kum. Kwisifundo sokuqala, umphandi uJayne Derrick, PhD. ihlola amaqela amabini. Elinye iqela eligqiba umsebenzi olukhuni, ohleliweyo, kunye neqela lesibini eligqiba umsebenzi ongathathi hlangothi. Amaqela aphinde ahlulwe aphindwe kabini, kunye neqela elinye lichaza umboniso wabo oonomabonwakude kunye nolunye uluhlu lwamaqela uluhlu kwigumbi (omnye umsebenzi "ongathathi hlangothi").
Abo babhala malunga nomdlalo wabo ozithandayo (kunokuba babhale izinto zabo kwigumbi) babhala ixesha elide xa beyenzile umsebenzi ohleliweyo kunokuba babenzile umsebenzi ongaphantsi. Oko kuthetha ntoni, uDerrick uthi, ngaba aba bathathi-nxaxheba bafuna iimpawu zabo zeTV ezizithandayo kwaye bafuna ukuchitha ixesha elide becinga ngazo.
UDerrick uqinisekisa ukuba ukubhala malunga nomdlalo wabo we-TV ozithandayo kubuyiselwe amandla abo kwaye bawavumela ukuba benze ngcono kwiipuzzles ezinzima abacelwa ukuba bazalise .
Kwiseshoni yesibini, abathathi-nxaxheba bahlala begosa kwimihla ngemihla abaye bayichaza ngemisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla efuna imzamo, ukusetyenziswa kwabo kwimidiya kunye namanqanaba abo emini ngosuku. Ukuba babenokwenza imisebenzi edla amandla, bekunokwenzeka ukuba bafune ukuphinda baqhube umboniso wabo we-TV, ukubukela kwakhona ifilimu oyintandokazi okanye ukufunda kwakhona incwadi eyintandokazi. Ukwenza njalo, emva koko ubuyisele amanqanaba emandla abo .
"Ngamanye amazwi, kwakukho umlinganiselo wokubuyisela olinganiselayo kwilizwe eliqhelekileyo eliqhelanisiweyo," uDerrick uthi ngekhredithi yokushicilelwa.
Ukufumana okubalulekileyo apha kukuba abantu bafumene ukuba ukubukela ukuphinda kuqhutywe kwemiboniso eyintandokazi kubuyisele amanqanaba abo wamandla, okuvumela ukuba benze okungakumbi emva koko. Enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo ukuba uqaphele kukuba yayiqhutyelwa kwakhona, kungekhona nje ukubukeka okuthakazelisayo, okwakusenza ukubahluko.
Impumelelo yokubuyisela ndiyifumene ukubukela kwakhona imiboniso yamabonwakude ayithandayo (okanye ukubukela kwakhona ii-movie ezizithandayo okanye ukufunda kwakhona iincwadi ezizithandayo), "kusho uDerrick. "Ukujonga nje nantoni na kumabonwakude akunikezeli inzuzo efanayo.
Yaye mhlawumbi ngokumangalisayo, ukubukela isiqalo esitsha somboniso owenziwe kumabonwakude ngokokuqala ngethuba akunikezeli inzuzo efanayo. "
Uthi kukho into ephathelele "ukuxhaswa kweentlalo" zokubukela abalinganiswa abathandayo, kwaye kukho into ephumayo ukuba sele uyakwazi oko kuza kwenzeka. Ngaloo ndlela, ukubukela kwakhona umboniso owenziwe ngumabonwakude ungabangela ukuhlangana okuxinzelelekileyo kunokubambisana kweentlalo-zentlalo ezingabandakanya ukungqubuzana okanye ezinye iingazi zamanzi ezingaziwa.
"Nangona kukho iziphumo ezintle ekusebenzisaneni kwezentlalo ezinjengomvakalelo wokuvalelwa amandla," kutsho uDerrick, "ukutshintshisana kwabantu kunokuvelisa umvo wokugatywa, ukukhutshwa kunye nokwehliswa, okuya kunciphisa amandla."
Ezi ziphumo zidibanisa kwingxoxo eqhubekayo malunga nokuba umabonwakude ungumthwalo wokuxininisa, ukubangela uxinzelelo, okanye umsebenzi ongathathi hlangothi , kwaye usinika izikhokelo zendlela umabonwakude angasetyenziselwa ukuxhaswa kwengcinezelo kwiimeko ezifanelekileyo kunye neenjongo, ngaphandle kokuba yinto ixesha lokucoca. Kwakhona kuchaza ukuba kutheni abaninzi bethu ngezinye iinkhathi bathanda i-movie eyintandokazi yamandulo okanye i-tv iphinda iqhubekele kwii-episodes zakutsha okanye i-blockbusters.
"Ngokusekelwe kuphando lwam, ndiza kuthetha ukuba ukubukela umabonwakude akuko konke okubi. Nangona kukho uphando oluninzi olubonisa ukuba uonomabonwakude unokwandisa ukwanda, kwaye ukubukela umabonwakude kunokubangela ukuba kuqhube umkhuhlane wezilwanyana, ukubukela umboniso owenziwe ngumabonwakude inokubonelela ngeentlobo ezininzi zeenzuzo, ezinokuphucula impilo yonke, "utsho.
Kananjalo unezinye iziphumo ezivela kuphando lwakhe. "Ndifumene, umzekelo, ukuba imiboniso yamabonwakude ayithandayo inokunyusa ukwanda kwabantu ngokuziphatha kwezenhlalakahle. Ngokukodwa, emva kokucinga malunga nomboniso owenziwe ngumabonwakude, abantu bazimisele ukuxolela abanye, bazimisele kakhulu ukunceda umntu ongowokungazi kwaye bazimisele ukuba ahlasele umlingane wabo omthandayo, "utsho.
Ngoko ngamanye amaxesha xa siziva sisinxinzelelo kwixinzelelo olunzulu okanye indlela yokuphila exakeke kakhulu, sifanele sizenzele umntwana kwaye sizenzele ezo nwabisa ezilula ezifana ne-tv kwakhona. Ngaba kukho uxinzelelo olunzulu loxinzelelo ngaphandle? Kuqiniseke. (Ukuzivocavoca nokucamngca zombili ziza engqondweni, njengoko zakha ukuzinza nokuphucula impilo yonke.) Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uzifumana unamahloni ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo oludinga umgangatho omkhulu wenzame okanye ukuziqhelanisa, kukulungele ukuzithobela izinto ezinjengezi , ngakumbi xa isetyenziselwa ukumodareyitha. Ngezantsi ezinye zezinto ezilula zokuxinezeleka ezingakwazi ukubuyisela amandla xa uziva utyhafile, ukhuphe uxinzelelo ngendlela elula, okanye ubeke umomotheka ebusweni bakho xa ufuna.
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Umthombo: Derrick, Jaye, Ph.D. (2012). Ukuxhotyiswa ngeThelevishini: Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zeeNkcazo zokuBuyisa ukuLawula. I-Psychological and Social Science , 4; 3; p299-p307.