Uninzi lweendlela zokulawula uxinzelelo lokugxininisa kugxininiso kwiintlobo zembono entle . Ukucinga okulungileyo kukuzisa iingenelo ezintle, kwaye isimo sengqondo esinokubangela ukunyamezela ngendlela enandiphayo. Ukugxininiswa rhoqo kwizinto ezimbi kungabonakalisa ezininzi iimvuyo zobomi, kunokunciphisa isimo sengqondo sokubulela , kwaye sinokuzifumana "njengombane wamanzi" kwabanye.
Oko kwathiwa, ukukhalaza kungenziwa kwiindawo ezininzi, ukuba akukho abantu abaninzi. Kukho iinzuzo zokuxininisa ukuxhalabisa, nangona ziyancipha xa zikhalaza iimeko ezinzulu kunye nomsindo . Ukukhungatheka okuvelayo kwiimilinganiselo ezincinci, nangona kunjalo, unendawo yayo njengento yokuxinwa kwengcinezelo. Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba abantu bahlala bekhulelwe ukukhalaza:
Ngamanye amaxesha sidinga "I-Vent"
Njengebhotile yokugungqiswa kobuhle be-carbon, xa sisicindezelekile, ngamanye amaxesha sinokuvakalelwa ukuba "siqhube" kwizikhalazo. Ukuyeka konke ukukhupha ingxaki engaphakathi esiyiva kuyo, kwaye kusinceda sizive silungele ukujamelana nokukhungatheka okulandelayo. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka simele siphume umoya ngokuzibonisa.
Ukuqinisekiswa kweeNdleko ezilungileyo
Ngokuqhelekileyo xa sididekile okanye sizive sisetyenziswe ngandlela-thile, ukuvakalelwa kwemvakalelo evela komnye umntu kufana nesalve yegos.
Ukuva umntu esithi, "Ndiyazi indlela ozivakalelwa ngayo. Ndiya kuphazamiseka!" Unokuvakalelwa njengento yokufudumala. Emva kokufumana ukuqinisekiswa ngokukhawuleza, njengabantwana abaxhambileyo abasandul 'ukumanga kumama, sinesiqiniseko sokubuyela emva kwaye sijamelane neengxaki zethu.
Isisombululo sinokuvakalelwa ngakumbi
Ukusondela kwingxaki njengokuba iqela liyakwazi ukuxhoma amandla abantu abaningana ngokukhawuleza.
Ukucenga abanye ngezinto ezikukhathazayo uvula kuzo, kwaye mhlawumbi ezinye izisombululo ongazicinganga ngazo. Abantu bahlala bekhalaza njengendlela yokucela uncedo.
Singafuna Ngenye I-Perspective
Xa sisondele kakhulu kwimeko, kuqhelekile ukubona kuphela indlela yethu yokujonga kwaye sibone iingxaki esibhekana nazo njengoko ziphakanyisiwe kwaye ngezinye izikhathi ziphazamisekile. Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda ukuxelela umhlobo othembekileyo ukuba sijamelene nani kwaye sibone ukuba kukho into esiyibonayo, okanye ukuba kukho indlela eyahlukileyo yokujonga imeko efanayo. Ukuba sivulekile ukuva igalelo elitsha, kunokuba luncedo ukunyathela ngaphandle kwembono yethu, kwaye ubone oko abanye bacinga ngezikhalazo zethu. Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhangela into ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunokukwazi ukuphelisa umsindo kunye nokukhathazeka, okanye ukuvula izicwangciso ezintsha kunye namathuba okukwazi ukujamelana.
Singafuna UkuKhuthaza
Ngamanye amaxesha siyazi ukuba kufuneka senze utshintsho kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo asilungele ukuthatha ingozi kwaye senze umzamo okwamanje. Sidinga ukwakha iinjongo. Ukugxininisa kwinto enzima malunga nemeko ingaba yindlela yokwakha iinjongo zokwenza utshintsho. Inxalenye yenkqubo yokufika apho.
Ukukhalaza Kufumana Izinto Eyenziweyo
Kanye nje ngokuba "isondo elincinci lifumana ioli," ngamanye amaxesha ukuvakalisa izikhalazo yindlela yokwenza izinto zilungiswe.
Ukuba ukhononda kumntu onesimo sokwenza utshintsho, kwaye ukuba usebenzisa indlela yokubamba idilesi, ukukhalaza ngale ndlela kunokusebenza ngokukhululeka ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kunokuba ungathethi nto, kuba indlela "yokukhalazo" inokufumana iziphumo!
Noko ke, ukunyamezela, kunokunonakalisa ngokunjalo. Xa iiseshoni ezimbalwa ziba ngumkhwa wokuqhubeka, okanye abantu abambalwa abaxhalabisayo bajika baba liqela labakhalazo abahlala behlala kuzo, sifinyelela kwingqungquthela yokunyanzelisa uxinzelelo. Nazi ezinye zeengcingo zokukhalaza kakhulu:
Gxininisa kwiNgxaki, Akunakwenzeka Iisombululo
Nangona ukukhalaza kungaba yindlela yokwakha iinjongo, iqhubeka igxininisa kwingxaki kunokuba isisombululo sinakho.
Ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi ukhononda, unokuzibandakanya kwindawo yokuyeka ukuwamkela, ukuvutha komsindo, okanye ukuziva 'uzinzile,' kunokuthi ufune ukutshintsha.
Outlook Outlook
Uphando lubonisa ukuba kukho ezininzi iinzuzo zokujonga izinto ezithembekileyo kunye neengcungcuthe kwizinto ezingathembekiyo. Isimo sengqondo sinokusebenza njengemikhwa - sifundiswa ukucinga ngendlela ethile, kwaye siqala ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthatha loo mbono. Ukugxininisa kwinto engabonakaliyo kunokubangela ukuba abantu bangathembeki.
Intukuthelo ekhululekileyo
Xa ugxininisa kwizinto abantu abahlala bekhalazo ngazo, unobungozi obungakumbi. Lo msindo ungathatha ubomi bawo, kwaye uqala ukuziva ukhululekile ngezinto ezininzi nangaphezulu. Le ngqumbo inokubangela ulwalamano nemicimbi yezempilo, kwaye akulungile kuwe.
Amaqela angalunganga
Ukunyanzeliswa kunokusasazeka. Yintoni enokuqala njengeqela labantu abanikezela ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nokubambisana ngamanye amaxesha kunokuqala ukufana nesihlwele esikrakra. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba wena kunye nabahlobo bakho bahlala bekhalaza ngezinto ezifanayo kwaye abazive bengcono emva koko, kungenokuba ixesha lokukhangela izihloko ezintsha zokugxila.
Ukutyhila Abanye
Ukuba awunayo inkxaso yeqela, le nto inokulimaza ngokunjalo. Abo bahlala besikhalazo banokufumana amava 'ngamagunya omandla' ngabanye. Qaphela ukuba izikhalazo zakho zingabi zikhulu kangangokuthi ziphazamise umphulaphuli wakho.
Iingxaki esizikhononda ngazo ngokusoloko zifuna isisombululo, kwaye uxinzelelo lwale mingeni kufuneka luncitshiswe kwaye lulawulwe. Kucacile ukuba isikhalazo sinemivuzo kwaye ingaba yindlela yokunciphisa uxinzelelo, kwiindlela ezincinci. Kodwa ukukhalaza ngokugqithiseleyo ngeengxaki, ezinkulu okanye ezincinci, akusisisombululo esiphumeleleyo. Sika isikhalazo, kwaye unako ukubona umhlaba unethemba kunye nokubulela, ndiyakholwa. Kodwa ubani oyeka ukukhalaza? Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokuzama .