Ukuba umntwana wakho wenza intetho malunga nokufisa ukuba angafa okanye xa ufumana ulwazi oluya kukhokelela ukuba ukholelwe ukuba ucinga ngokuzibulala, uthathe kakhulu. Uninzi ulutsha oluthetha ngentetho yokuzibulala ngandlela-thile kumntu ngaphambi kokuba ahambe.
Musa ukucinga ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha ngokuzibulala ngenxa yokuba "ufuna ukunakwa." Ukunyamekela intlungu yakhe okanye ukunciphisa iingxaki zakhe kunokuba nemiphumo emibi.
Kukho uncedo olufumaneka ukuba umntwana wakho obulalayo uzibulale. Khangela unyango olufanelekileyo kwaye ufumane umntwana wakho uncedo oluyidingayo ngokukhawuleza.
Xa Ingozi yokuzibulala isondele
Ukuba umntwana wakho usemngciphekweni wokuzibulala okwangoku, biza isebe lakho lamapolisa lendawo okanye 911 ngokukhawuleza. Ingozi esondeleyo ibandakanya umntwana osemtsha ophethe isikhali, iipilisi okanye ezinye iindlela zokusingqongileyo.
Ukuba kukhuselekile ukwenza njalo, unokuqhubela umntwana wakho ekwisiganeko esiphuthumayo. I-ER iya kuhlola impilo yakho yengqondo kunye nempilo yengane kwaye yenze isicwangciso esicacileyo esiza kukunceda ukhusele umntwana wakho.
Xa Ubungozi Bubukhulu Kodwa Kungekudala
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthi ucinga ngokuzibulala okanye ufumanisa imilayezo yombhalo okanye uqaphele ukuba ubhaliwe ngokufuna ukufa, kubalulekile ukuthatha inyathelo ngokukhawuleza. Unokhetho oluninzi xa kuziwa kukufumana uncedo.
1. Biza umnxeba weengxaki.
Unokuqhagamshelana ne-hotline yokunqanda ukuzibulala ukuze ufunde kabanzi malunga nokukhetha kwakho.
- I-National Prevention Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
- Le ngxaki yongenelelo yecala eliyimfihlo lifumaneka kwiiyure ezingama-24 zemihla ngemihla kwaye zabasebenzi ngabacebisi abaqeqeshwe. Umcebisi uphendula umnxeba unokuthetha nawe, kwaye ngqo ngqo kwintombazana yakho, ukufumanisa izixhobo zempilo yengqondo kwingingqi yakho kwaye uncedise ukuba yiziphi na amanyathelo okuza kuthatha ukugcina umntwana wakho ukhusele.
2. Biza umnini-nkonzo wakho wezempilo.
- Buchaza ubunzulu beemeko kwaye ucele unyulo oluphuthumayo, kwakunye nokuncedwa ngefowuni ukuba kuyimfuneko.
- Le yongxamiseko yonyango. Umnikezeli wakho unokunceda ekuhloleni ubungakanani bengozi kwaye ulwazi lwabo malunga nentsha yakho luya kunceda ekuqaliseni amanyathelo alandelayo. Baya kwenza kwakhona ukuhanjiswa esibhedlele xa kufuneka.
3. Yibiza isibhedlele sengqondo okanye igumbi lesiphumo esibhedlele esiseduze nawe.
- Izibhedlele zenzelwe ukujongana neengxaki zengxamiseko kwaye zinokukucebisa ngendlela yokufumana umntwana wakho uncedo oluyidingayo. Kwezinye iindawo, inyunithi yokuhlola yeselula ingathunyelwa kwisibhedlele seengqondo okanye kwisiko lenkxalabo yoluntu.
3. Biza unobulutsha bakho, ukuba unalo.
- Qhagamshelana nomgqirha ngokukhawuleza uze ucele uncedo.
- Udokotela owaziyo wakho umntwana uya kuba sesikhundleni esihle ekuncedeni ukuba yiyiphi inyathelo ekufuneka uyithathe ukuze uqinisekise ukhuseleko lwabafana bakho kwaye unokuncoma izixhobo ezinzima kwingingqi yakho.