Umehluko phakathi koBuntu kunye noMbuso weeMood
Xa kuziwa kumntwana wakho, ukuqonda umahluko phakathi kobuqu bomntu kunye neemeko zemoya kunokudideka, ingakumbi ukuba unesifo sengqondo, njengengcinezelo. Uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba kukho ubudlelwane obuphakathi kwezinto zobuntu kunye nokuxinezeleka.
Uhlobo Lomntu?
Ubunjani bomntu ngumgangatho ozinzileyo okanye ongaguqukiyo obonisa ukungafani komntu kubantu.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo sengqondo se-bipolar, unokuba nomoya wobuntu. Olu luphawu lomntu oluchaphazela ukuphendula kwakhe kwiimeko. Umkhwa wokuziphatha awuguquki ixesha elingaphezulu kwexesha okanye phakathi kwe-bipolar (manic kunye noxinzelelo) kunye nezigaba eziqhelekileyo.
Omnye umzekelo umntwana wakho unenkani, unothando, kwaye uzimeleyo. Zizo zonke iimpawu zobuntu abazalelwe nazo. Ngelixa batshintsha utshintsho njengoko ekhula, ekugqibeleni iimpawu ezenza ukuba ngubani.
Yintoni iMood State?
Imoya yesimo sengqondo yindlela yesikhashana yokuba okanye ukuvakalelwa okuchaphazela impilo yethu yonke kunye nempilo yengqondo.
Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho unenkinga enkulu yokudandatheka, unokuziva ehlungu kakhulu kwiiveki ezimbalwa ngexesha. Isimo esibuhlungu sisimo sengqondo sisesigxina kwaye asiyiyo inxalenye yokwenza kwakhe ubuntu. Isimo esibuhlungu sinokuphuculwa ngonyango .
Ubudlelwane boBuntu kuXinzelelo
Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba abantu abaneempawu ezithile zobuntu banokubakho ukuxinezeleka, oku kuthetha ukuba ukujonga ukunyanzeliswa kwabantwana kungaba lula kuba izinto zilula ukuvavanya.
Ucwaningo oluthile, ngokukodwa, olujonge indlela iimpawu zobuntu ezichaphazela ngayo ukudakumba kubonisa ukuba bangathinti njani kuphela ukuphuhliswa kwengcinezelo kodwa nembono. Iimpawu ezikhethekileyo ezidibene nokudakumba ziquka ukukhathazeka / ukungathandeki, okubandakanya ukudabuka, ukuxhalabisa, ukungazinzi, nokuxhalaba; ukukhutshulwa / ukuvakalelwa komoya, ukuzinzululana, ukuthetha, ukuvakalisa nokukhupha; kunye nesazela, yindlela ecinga ngayo kwaye ilungelelanise wena (okanye awukho).
Ngaba Ubuntu Ubungqina Ukuxela Ukuxinezeleka?
Uphononongo lubonise iziphumo ezininzi, enye yazo yimiba efana nezofuzo kunye neendawo zendawo ezichaphazelekayo nazo zinxulumene neempawu zobuntu ezichaphazela ukucindezeleka. Olunye ufumaniso kukuba ukuziphatha okungathandabuzekiyo / ukungathandeki komntu ohamba kunye noxinzelelo obunokubangela ukuba uxinzelelo lwalusakhulayo kwixesha elizayo.
Abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba iimpawu zobungozi bomntu zibonakala zivela ebuntwaneni, oko kuthetha ukuba abantwana abasemngciphekweni bangabonwa kwangaphambili. Olu pho nonongo luye lwabonisa ukuba "impawu zobuntu ziqikelela, kwaye zinokuthi zithintele, ikhondo kunye nokunyangwa kweengxaki zokudakumba" (Klein, et al., 2011).
Uphononongo luphelile ngokuphawula ukuba iimpawu zobuntu ezichaphazela ukuxinezeleka ziyahlukahluka kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lokudangala kwengxaki, kodwa ukuba kubonakala ngathi "badlala indima ebalulekileyo kwimimiselo yokuqala, isifo esingapheliyo, kunye neemeko zokudandatheka" (Klein, et al. , 2011). Uphando olongezelelweyo lufanele lwenziwa, ngokukodwa kwiimbopheleleko zobuntu ezidlala kwezinye iintlungu zokudandatheka, kungekhona nje ukuxinezeleka okukhulu, kunye nendlela oku kuchaphazela ngayo abantwana abancinci.
Ukuba unenkxalabo
Abaphandi kunye neekliniki baye bahlakulela iimvavanyo eziqhelekileyo zokuvavanya iimpawu zobuntu kunye neemeko zengqondo zesikhashana.
Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga neempawu zobuntu bakho okanye imizwelo, khuluma nengcali yakhe yezilwanyana okanye ingcali yezempilo yengqondo.
Imithombo:
Ukudandatheka kunye nokuzibulala kwabantwana nakwi-Adolescents. Ingxelo yezeMpilo yeZizwe eziPhezulu.
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