Ngelixa abantu basebenzisa iinkolo ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela zokufumana uThixo okanye ukubonakalisa ngokomoya, uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba abo banokholo okanye bokomoya baze basebenzise ngokomoya ukuhlangabezana nokuphila, banamava amaninzi kwimpilo yabo nangentlalo. Kwabaninzi, ezi ndaba zaza kungothusanga; ukomoya kunye nemisebenzi yonqulo kuye kwaba ngumthombo wokhuthuzelo kunye nokukhululeka kokuxinezeleka kubantu abaninzi.
Enyanisweni, ngokwesifundo esivela kwiYunivesithi yaseFlorida eGainesville naseYunivesithi yaseYayne State eDetroit, abantu abadala abadala basebenzisa umthandazo ngaphezu kwanoma yiphi enye imithi yokwelapha; Abathathi-nxaxheba be-96% basebenzisa umthandazo ngokukodwa ukujongana noxinzelelo.
Impembelelo Yomoya Efanelekileyo KwiMpilo
Nangona iimbono ezibonakalayo zokomoya yinto yokholo, uphando luye lwahlola ukuba iingenelo zokomoya kunye nomsebenzi wokomoya ziyanceda. Iziphumo zinokumangalisa umntu ofumene intuthuzelo kwimibono yabo yonqulo okanye yokomoya, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo bayabonakala ukuba babonisa ngendlela yenzululwazi yokuba le mi sebenzi isebenza kubantu abaninzi. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa zezinto ezifumeneyo ezifumanekayo ezinxulumene nengokomoya kunye nempembelelo yayo kwimpilo yengqondo nangokwengqondo:
- Abafundi beekholeji zaseCanada ababandakanyekayo kwiinkonzo zee campus bahanjelwe ugqirha. Baye bazuza phezulu kwiimvavanyo zentlalo yengqondo , kwaye bajamelana nokucinezeleka ngokuthe ngempumelelo.
- Abasetyhini abadala banombulelo ngakumbi kuThixo kunamadoda amadala, kwaye bafumana uxinzelelo olukhulu -ukuphazamiseka kwempilo ngenxa yale mbulelo.
- Abo babenenkqubela yezenkolo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba besini, babonakalisa ukusetyenzwa kancinci kwezinto eziphathekayo ekubhekeleni uxinzelelo kunabo abanokwenkcenkceshela ngokwenkolo. Babesaba kakhulu ukufa kwaye banemvakalelo enkulu yokuphila . (Abo babemele ngokuzinikezela ngokuzinikezela ubomi babo kuThixo okanye 'amandla aphakamileyo,' ngelixa i-extrinsically oriented ones usetyenzisa inkolo yangaphandle iphela njengokuzenza abahlobo okanye ukwandisa ukuhlala koluntu.)
Oku, kunye nolunye uphando, lubonisa ukuba kunokubakho iingeniso ezibonakalayo kunye nezihlala njalo ukugcina ukubandakanyeka kwintlalo yokomoya. Ukubandakanyeka, kunye nokubulela okunokuhambelana nomoya, kunokuba yintlonelo yokuxinzelela uxinzelelo kwaye inxulumene namanqanaba amakhulu empilo. Ekugqibeleni, ukuzinikezela kuThixo okanye "amandla aphakamileyo" aguqulelwe ekusebenziseni uxinzelelo olungapheliyo, iimvakalelo ezinzulu zentlalo-ntle, kwaye ekugqibeleni kwanokubakho ukwesaba ukufa. Oku kuthetha ukuba abantu abaziva bekhululekile baze bathuthuzelwe ngokomoya njengendlela yokwenza uxinzelelo, banokuqiniseka ukuba kukho ubungqina obuninzi bokuba le nto ibalulekileyo kubo.
Umthandazo usebenzela abancinci nabadala. Umthandazo kunye nokomoya kuye kwaxhunyaniswa:
- Impilo engcono
- Ngaphantsi kwegazi
- Ingcinezelo encinci, nangamaxesha anzima
- Imvakalelo engakumbi
- Ukuxinezeleka okungaphantsi
- Inhlalakahle engqondweni yengqondo
- Amandla aphezulu okusingatha uxinzelelo
Iingcamango Zokugqibela
Ingaba olu lwazi lukhokelela ukuba ufumane kwakhona indlela ekhohliweyo yokomoya, uqinisa ukuzibophezela kwakho kwi-already-well-established, okanye unikezela ngokutya okuthakazelisayo, oku kusisampula kubo bonke uphando olukhuthazayo oluye lwenziwa ngesihloko.
Umoya ngowamava, kwaye yonke indlela yokomoya ingabodwa. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iindlela zokuphucula uxinzelelo ngokomoya ziye zabanceda abaninzi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba nokholo. Hlola, kwaye ubone oko kukusebenza.
Imithombo:
Uphando malunga nokuguga, uMqulu. 27, No. 2, 197-220, 2005.
Uphando malunga nokuguga, uMqulu. 27, uNombolo 2, 221-240, 2005.
Uphando malunga nokuguga, uMqulu. 28, No. 2, 163-183, 2006.
ISayensi yemihla ngemihla, iYunivesithi yaseFlorida News (ngo-Ephreli 18, 2006).