Ngaba umtshato wakho uthinte isiqwenga esibi? AWUKHO wedwa. Akukho sizathu sokwesaba. Imitshato emininzi yenza amaxesha athathekayo ngexesha elithile. Unokufuna ezinye iingcamango zokunceda ukugqithisa le patch. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokugcina engqondweni ukuba unjalo kwimeko.
Qaphela Ukuzibophezela Kwakho Kwezinye
Ukuzinikela komnye nomnye kubalulekile ukuze ube nomtshato omhle.
Oko kuthetha ukunyamezelana ngamaxesha amahle nokubi. Kodwa ukuzibophezela akufanele kube sisizathu sokuba abantu bangahloneli okanye bahoxisane. Ukuzibophezela akuthethi ukuba u-handcuffs. Ukuzibophezela emtshatweni kuyisibambiso sokuthandana kunye nokuhlala uxhaswa kumaxesha amahle nakwizinto ezimbi. Esi sithembiso sithetha ukuba ngalinye iqela liza kuhlala lithembekile kwizibhambathiso zabo zokubambisana nothando kunye nehlonipho . Kuthetha ukuba ukhetho olwenzayo luya kuthandana nomdla omnye nomnye.
Yiba nombono ohlanganyelweyo
Amaqabane omtshato liqela elisebenza kumbono ofanayo. Akufanele kube malunga nomlingani omnye owenza ngaphandle kokuqwalasela iimvakalelo okanye iimfuno zomnye. Akukhona ngokufumana umvuzo kunye nokuwuxhaphaza. Akukhona malunga neqabane elinye elilawulayo. Akunjalo ngomlingane omnye elindele ukuba omnye uya kubavuyisa aze ahlangabezane nazo zonke iimfuno zabo. Ukuba ukholelwa umntu oyedwa unokukwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zakho, ungenangqiqo kwaye uyaqiniseka ukuba uya kudana.
Gxininisa kwiSithombe esikhulu
Xa wena okanye umlingane wakho uxhaphazela okanye utyumkile, kwaye amanzi omtshato ubonakala engalunganga, kunokulula ukuzimelela kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba umtshato awufanelekanga umzamo. Ukunyamekela kakhulu into ongayenza malunga nokuba yintoni na imeko. Kodwa ukugxininisa kakhulu kwizinto eziphosakeleyo kwaye into elahlekileyo iya kuguba kwaye mhlawumbi ingonakalisa ulwalamano lwakho.
Ukuxhomekeka kweMpilo
Ukuba unengqiqo yokwenene, oko kuthetha ukujonga umfanekiso omkhulu ongabandakanya ukubuza ukuba yeyiphi imfuneko engayifumanayo ebomini bakho okanye ebomini bakho. Xa sele zichongiwe, kukho into yokulungisa, usebenze, kwaye ufuna ukulungisa. Kukulungele ukucela iimfuno zakho zemvakalelo ukuba zidibane neqabane lakho. Yilungiselele ukunikela ngokufanayo ngokubuyisela. Bobabili nimele nizame ukuxhomekeka komnye nomnye kwaye ningakhanyeli iimfuno zenu ezisisiseko zokuxhamla ngokomzwelo. Ngelo xesha, yazi ukuba awukwazi ukuxanduva lomntu oyedwa ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zakho.
Ngaba Ingxaki?
Akukho nanye kuni ingxaki. Imingeni ebomini yobomi inendlela yokwenza ubudlelwane. Xa elinye iqabane ligxininise kakhulu, liphazamisekile, liziva lidutshulwa emsebenzini, livakalelwa ngathi lingaphumeleli kwindawo ethile, kuya kuba nzima ukuhlala nayo. Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa isizathu esona sikhathazo. Akunakukwazi ukuyenza nomtshato nonke. Ukuba ingqalelo ingxaki okanye imfuno, ngoko unako ukudala ukuzama ukulungisa iingxaki kunye.
Akukho nanye intshaba. Akukho mfuneko yokuthatha into eyathethwa okanye eyenziwe ngokwayo.
Zama ukufikelela omnye nomnye ngothando nothando. Ukuba imithwalo evela kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo liqhubeka likhula, yenza umgudu wokusebenza kuyo ukuba lichaphazela indlela osebenzisana ngayo namhlanje.
Gcina amathebhu kwi-Akhawunti Yakho yeBhanki yeNgxowa-mali
Kufuneka ufumane ngokwaneleyo "ukonga" kwi-akhawunti yakho yebhanki yeemvakalelo ukuze ufumane umgaqo wokutshatyalaliswa komtshato ongekho nto. Oku kuthetha ukuba uye wakhuthaza umtshato wakho ubomi bakho ndawonye. Emva kokuba iqhosha elibi lenziwe, ungadinga ukugxila ekwenzeni ezinye iifomethi ezimbalwa! Nika iqabane lakho ingqwalasela, ukuqinisekiswa, kunye nehlombe njengoko unako xa unayo ukunika.
Yaye xa uyifunayo wena, cela.
Ezi ngcebiso eziwusizo zifanele zikhokelele kwixesha "eliqhelekileyo" kulo naluphi na ubuhlobo besikhathi eside njengomtshato. Ukuba nokuzibophelela kumlingane wakho kukubalulekileyo, kodwa ukuzinikela kufuneka kusebenze ngeengxaki ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona kuthetha ukuba nonke nenza izigqibo zononophelo ndawonye ukuze nifumane indlela yenu kule xesha.