Ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo nokukhupha nantoni na engqondweni yengqondo (ingaba kufanelekile okanye akunjalo) yinto ebangela ukuba abazali bakhathazeke. Abantwana abane-ADHD kaninzi banenkathazo yokuvimbela nokulawula iimpendulo zabo. Esikhundleni saloo nto, banokuthi bangabonakalisa okokuqala kuqala engqondweni ngaphandle kokucinga ngendlela amagama abo angayifumana ngayo.
Ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka okuhambelana ne-ADHD kwenza kube nzima ukuma kwaye ucinge - kukho ukungabikho kolawulo lokugwenxa kunye nokuhlunga okungekho kude-ukubeka kwabanye, kwaye kunzima kumntu ongu-ADHD ophelisa ukuvalelwa siphumo.
Abantwana (kunye nabantu abadala) abane-ADHD banakho ukubeka ingxoxo kunye nokuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo, njengoko uchaza. Omnye umzali usandul 'ukubizwa ngokuthi "urhudo lomlomo." Kufana nokunganyaniseki ngamagama.
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Ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo
Into yokuqala yokuyenza kukuthetha nodokotela wengane yakho. Abantwana abane-ADHD kaninzi banenkathazo "ngokuziphatha okukhulu" - ukuthetha kakhulu, ukuxuba, ukuvakala, ukunyakaza, ukuzithengisa, ukuguqulwa, ukungena kwizinto, njl njl. Ukunyamezela nokuqhubeka nomzabalazo wokuzithiba kunokunyamezela umntwana.
Into elandelayo yokwenza uhlala phantsi kunye nonyana wakho xa egxininiswe ngokufanelekileyo kwaye unakho ukulungiswa ukuthetha nokuxazulula iingxaki. Jongana nokuthetha / ukukhupha umba kunye naye uze nesicwangciso sokunciphisa ukuthetha okugqithisileyo. Ingane yakho inokuba nomdla ekusekeni inkqubo yokuvuza ukukunceda ukutshintsha olu tshintsho ekuziphatheni.
Hlangana nendodana yakho, velisa ngesigxina onokumnika ukuba ancede ukwandisa ukuqonda kwakhe ngamaxesha xa uthetha kakhulu - mhlawumbi umqondiso unokubeka isandla sakho ehlombe lakhe njengesikhumbuzo sokuma xa iqhubeka nokuqhubeka.
Isibonakaliso somzimba esifana nokuthinta ihlombe lakhe sihlala sisinamandla kunomqondiso obonakalayo njengomnwe emlonyeni, kodwa unokufuna ukuzama ukusebenzisa zombini imiqondiso.
Unokukunceda ukuba udibanisa uphawu kunye nencoko yokuthetha. Ngamanye amazwi, xa ufaka isandla sakho ehlombe lakhe okanye ngomunwe emlonyeni wakho, unyana wakho uthi mhlawumbi ngezwi okanye esithi, "Ndimele ndiyeke ukuthetha ngoku ngoku" okanye into efanayo.
Oku kuzinokuthi kunokuba luncedo gqitha, ngakumbi kubantwana abane-ADHD abavame ukukhawula ubunzima babo ekusebenziseni ukuthetha ngokwabo ukukhokela zabo iimpawu. Uya kufuneka ukubonelela imodeli eninzi, impendulo kunye nesikhokelo ukuze uncede ekuphuhliseni olu buchule.
Ukukhupha ngaphandle
Ngeemeko apho unyana wakho ekhupha izinto ezingafanelekanga, mfundise indlela yokulibazisa impendulo ngokubala ezintlanu ngaphambi kokwenza izimvo, kwaye usebenzise, usebenzise, usebenzise . Esi sisinye isakhono esitsha esiza kufuna imodeli eninzi kunye noncedo oluvela kuwe.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukunika unyana wakho rhoqo kunye nokuphendula ngokukhawuleza ngokuziphatha kwakhe kwaye umxelele oko akwenzayo kakuhle . Amagama okudumisa ahlanganiswe nezikhuthazo ezinamandla anokuba namandla kakhulu ekukhuthazeni utshintsho ekuphatheni.