Yenza isigqibo, fumana inkxaso
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukusela kotywala kukude kangakanani, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukubi kangakanani, unokuyeka ukusela. Kuthatha ukuba wenze isigqibo ofuna ukuyeka kwaye ufumane uhlobo oluthile lwenkxaso.
Awunayo ukulinda kude kube yinto embi njengoko yenzayo kuJeffrey, kodwa nangona kunjalo, usenokufumana indlela yakho yokubuya, njengoko ichaza:
Ibali likaJeffrey's Recovery Story
NgoNovemba 7 2009 ndagqiba ekubeni ndifuna ukufa.
Ndanditshatyalaliswe kum umfazi (esele ndikhona) ngenxa yokufutheka kokuzibulala ndibe ngeveki ngaphambi kokuphuza ngokweqile. Ndisela yonke iveki kwaye ngesizathu esithile ndagqiba ekubeni i-Novemba 7 yayiba ngumhla wam wokugqibela emhlabeni.
Ndathenge iipakethi ezingama-30 zebhiya kunye nesihlanu se-bourbon. Ndiphantse ndisela yonke into. Ndabiza umfazi wam enkongqeni, ngaba neengxabano andinakukukhumbula kwaye nditshitshisa i-cellphone yam. Ndamshayela (mbulela uThixo akukho mntu wabulawa) kwisitoreji esilungileyo sokufumana ifowuni yokuhlawula ukuqhubela phambili ingxabano.
Babengafuni Ukundithululela
Ngaphakathi kwesitoreji esinobuchule ndandinomzuzwana "wokucaca." Ndagqiba isigqibo sokuba ngaba ndifumene amapolisa ukuba ndibe ne "kubonakala" kwaye badibethe ndifile. Ndawa phantsi waza ndaxelela unobhala ukuba ndidubule ukuba wayenompu. Ewe, wabiza amapolisa.
Xa befikile, ndawacela ukuba ndidubule ndifile. Xa bekungathobeli, ndalwa nabo, benethemba lokuba baya kusebenzisa amandla abulalayo.
Kwaye nasezintombeni ndaphula intloko yam malunga negalazi emva kwelo lide ndide ndingenanto.
Abazange bangandibhiduli. Ndichitha iintsuku ezintathu kwisibonelelo sengqondo ukuze ndikhuphe ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndikhutshwe kumgqirha wam omtsha.
AwuyiNxila Kususela
Andinakusela ukususela ngaloo mini. Ndanxila iminyaka engama-20 ngaphambi kokuba.
Ndingunxila kwaye andinakuyisela kwakhona. Ndadlula kwiinqanaba zokusela utywala, kwaye ndikulwela ukuguqula iziphumo. Ingqondo yam ayizange isebenze bhetele kunokuba iyenzi ngoku.
Ndiva intlungu yomonakalo endiyenzile kumfazi nabantwana kwaye ndisebenza kanzima ukuzama ukuzakhela ngokwabo kunye nolwalamano lwam. Ndivakalelwa kukuba andikaze ndibe neyona nto, ilungile kwaye imbi. Ndinomnqweno wekamva elingcono, engazange ndibe nalo.
Yeka Ukusela
Ndinecebo, ngenxa yenkxaso eninzi, ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubomi bam buhle kunokuba bubekho. Andikho apho ndifuna ukuba khona, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ndiya kufika khona.
Ukuba unzima notywala, vela ukusela. Musa ukuhlalutya "ngubani, yintoni na, kutheni, kuphi, njl", vala. Awukwazi ukubona nantoni na de uze ume. Kuthatha ukuthobeka okukhulu ukuvuma ukuba unengxaki yangempela, kodwa unokuyeka ukusela.
Fumana ezinye iNkxaso
Fumana inkxaso. Eli thuba lilondoloze ubomi bam nangona emva kokuyeka ukusela. Abantu abakwi-forum bayinyani, kwaye, nokuba bangazi, iingcebiso kunye nezimvo zabo, ubuncinci, zandenza ndifune ukuhlala olunye usuku ukuze ndive oko bakuxelele.
Andikho nxamnye nomlutha wam; Ndimele ndilwe yonke imihla. Ukulwa kulula kwaye kulula.
Andikwazi ukuthetha ngokwaneleyo malunga nabantu abakwi-forum; ngaphandle kwabo andicinga ukuba ndiza kuhlala apha.
- Jeffrey
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuyeka ukusela, kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeenkxaso ezikhoyo kuwe. Kukho unyango kunye nezixhobo zokuhlala, izibonelelo zonyango , amaqela enkxaso kunye neentlanganiso ze-intanethi kunye namaForam e-intanethi.
Fumana into esebenza kuyo, kwaye xa eyeka ukusebenza, zama enye into.