Esidlulileyo, umtshato kwakukho, inxalenye enkulu, ilungiselelo loqoqosho. Oku kwandula kwaba yindlela yokuba abantu babonise uthando lwabo nokuzimisela komnye nomnye. Umtshato unokutshintsha kwakhona njengeMillennials (abo bazalwa ngawo-1980 nakwama-1990) abangazange batshatile okanye batshata kakhulu kamva.
Ngeli xesha ngelixesha, ubudala bomtshato kumtshato wokuqala ngowama-27 kubafazi kunye ne-29 ngamadoda.
Oku kunyuka malunga neminyaka engama-7 ukususela ngee-1960 kwaye kunokunyuka ngokukhawuleza. Ngokombiko wamuva nje kwi- Urban Institute , inani elingalinganiyo leeminyaka eziwaka-mali liya kuhlala lingatshatanga kwiminyaka engama-40. Ngaphezu koko, izinga lomtshato liqikelelwe ukuba lihlahlele kuma-70 ekhulwini. Oku ku-10 ukuya kwe-20 kweepesenti ngaphantsi kwezizukulwana ezintathu zokugqibela. Enyanisweni, iphepha le-2014 eliphuma kwi-Pew Research Centre libika ngolu lukhulu kakhulu kumlinganiselo womtshato kwimbali. A
Ngaba Sifanele Sikhathazeke Ngalo Mkhangeli?
Umtshato unikeza iingenelo ezininzi: iifestile ezinxulumene nentlawulo, ukunciphisa ubuncipheko bentlupheko, ukhuseleko lwezoqoqosho, kunye nabantwana benza ngcono xa bephakanyiswa kwimindeni enomzali onomibini. Kukho uphando oluninzi olubonisa ukuba amadoda azuze ngakumbi nakwezinye iindlela.
Kutheni oku kwenzekayo
Esinye sezizathu eziphambili zezi migaqo kukuba iwaka leminyaka ijongene nemingeni emininzi xa kufikelelwe ekubeni nesiseko soqoqosho oluqinile.
Ngokuqhelekileyo bajonga umtshato njenge "itystone" kunokuthi "ilitye lembombo" lobomi bomntu omdala. Nangona kunjalo, uphando lubonisa ukuba indlela yokubethelwa kwelitye, ingalindelekanga, ibangela ukulungelelana komtshato, okubangele ukwaneliseka okungaphantsi komtshato.
Isizathu sesibini sizathu sokuqhawula umtshato ophezulu.
Le yinto ebenokuthi yathintela ubomi babo ngendlela ecacileyo. Bafunda ngayo nge-intanethi, ziyimveliso yomtshato wabo womzali kwaye banamalungu amaninzi nabazali abahlukanisile.
Ngaba i-Millennials ifuna ukutshata?
Uvavanyo lwe-Gallup ka-2013 lubonakalise ukuba abatsha abangaphantsi bafuna ukutshata kunokuba kungenjalo, nangona ukuhla kwezinga lomtshato. Iziphathamandla zeProjekthi Yomtshato kaZwelonke kwiYunivesithi yaseVirginia ziyavuma ukuba le ngqinisiso icacile. Kubonakala ukuba ngubani otshatayo kwaye ohlala esatshatileyo utshintsha kakhulu. Kodwa, umnqweno wokutshata kwaye ngokwawo awutshintshi kakhulu. Mhlawumbi oku kuthetha ukuba inselele kukuphelisa iibhloko zangempela kunye ezibonakalayo kwilizwe lethu ukufezekisa loo njongo.
Ngaba Umtshato Unenkinga Yomfanekiso?
Ngaba umtshato njengesikhungo esilahlekelwe isikhalazo sawo samanje? Mhlawumbi umtshato , njengoko uchazwe ngokwesiko, awuvumelekanga? Sifake kwakhona ukuba ngubani onokutshata njengoko engekho kuphela phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Singaba nokuqhubeka ngakumbi ukuphucula oko kunokubhekwa njengengxaki "yesimo" emehlweni esizukulwana seMillennial.
Abanye abaneengcamango ezinzulu malunga nesihloko somtshato kufuneka bakholwe kwakhona. Ngokomzekelo, kufuneka kubekho ezinye iindlela ezikhethwa ngazo uluntu.
Akukho mntu uye wakhupha naziphi na iingcamango ezinokwenzeka njengokuba kunjalo. Yintoni eyenzeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo kukuba iwaka leminyaka idibanisa kwaye inokubambisana kunye namaqela amaninzi (i-serial cohabitating). Kukho ubungqina obuninzi bokuthi ukuhlalisana akuvelisi iziphumo zomtshato ezilungileyo. Abanye balabo abangahlali kunye neqabane bahlala behlala nabazali babo, kwakhona ngenxa yobunzima bezemali.
Izizathu Zamawaka Eminyaka Ukuyeka Ukutshata
IiMillennials zinokuba nezizathu ezingakumbi zokuzibambezela umtshato. Kukho i-mindset phakathi kweli qela le minyaka ukuba awudingi ukuba iqabane livuyiswe. Kwakunzima ukuba nobudlelwane kunye neqela labantu abaye bazibonela ngokuzikhethela njengokuba bazibandakanya.
Kukho ukhetho olungaphezulu kunamhlanje. Ngokusebenzisa iteknoloji, i-Millennials inokujonga izinto ezininzi ezingabonakaliyo kwi-intanethi ngokulula. Kukhona ingqondo umntu okwazi ukuyibeka endaweni ngokulula. Le ngongoma yokukhetha ingakhokelela ekubeni inertia.
Ekugqibeleni, eli qela lihamba ngendlela ehamba phambili ekuzibopheleleni ngokupheleleyo. Zithatha ixesha labo zokulala ngesondo kunye namaqabane amaninzi (nokuba ngabahlobo abambalwa abaneenzuzo) okanye ubone ukuba bayakwazi ukunyamezela ukuhlala nomntu. Oku kungabonwa njengokuziphatha okungenangqondo. Yindlela yokuvavanya i-drive "iqabane layo ngaphambi kokuya" ukuthenga. "
IiMillennials zinokuthi zilungele. Basenokufunda kwimpazamo yezizukulwana ezidlulileyo. Kukho ukhetho oluninzi oluntu olwamkelekileyo ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane namhlanje. Kodwa, kuthekani ukuba i-pendulum iqhube kakhulu? Mhlawumbi asiyi kuze kube yilapho i-Generation Z i-Generation Z isithuba se-20 okanye mhlawumbi isizukulwana emva kwayo.