Kutheni Ufanele Ube Nesondo Ngokugqithiseleyo

Xa kuziwa kwimiba yesondo, i-adage yakudala "yenza nje" isekwe isayensi. Izifundo ezingakumbi zibonisa ukunyuka kwengqondo kunye nokwenyama kwimeko yesondo ekhuselekileyo. Ngaba wayesazi ukuba isondo kunokunciphisa intloko yakho?

Ngokomphengululi, uMichele Weiner-Davis encwadini yakhe, Umtshato Oqhawuleza Ngomtshato: Ukunyusa Umtshato Wakho Libido, Isikhokelo Sababhinqa, "Ekuqaleni, abaninzi banengqiqo ngokucokisekileyo kwindlela yam indlela yokuphila ngocansi; Iingcebiso zazingqinelani nayo yonke into ababeyakholelwa ngayo malunga nesifiso sesondo ...

Ndandidla ngokubona ukukhuphaliswa ebusweni babantu xa befumanisa ukuba ukungabikho kwezocalulo zesondo zobunqabileyo kwakungekho nto ibonisa ingxaki. Akuzange kuthethe ukuba kukho into ephosakeleyo kubo okanye ukuba into elahlekile kwimitshato yabo. Kwakuthetha ukuba babe nomnqweno ohlukileyo. "

Ngaloo nto engqondweni, ziindaba ezilungileyo zokwazi ukuba ubulili akugcini nje ukukwenza uzive kakuhle kwaye uphucule ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye neqabane lakho kodwa, ngokwenene luhle kwimpilo yakho. Le ngcamango ibuye ibe nempembelelo. Ukulala ngesondo ngakumbi kwenza ukuba unqwenele ukulala ngesondo. Zizonke iindaba ezilungileyo! Kodwa ukuba ungenakunqwenela, makhe sibone oko isayensi esinike khona ngoku malunga neenzuzo zesini.

Izinzuzo Zomzwelo Zokuba Nezesondo

Izinzuzo Zokwenyama Zokuba Nesondo

UDkt. Pamela Rogers kwinqaku le-Healthline.com, "Amava kunye nolwaneliseko kunye nolwaneliseko luhambisana ngokubhekiselele kumgangatho wobomi." Ukwandisa umqondo wakho wokuphila kunye nokwaneliseka ngokwabo. , ukuxinezeleka, nokuzibulala. Ukusebenza ngokwesondo kunye ne-orgasm kunciphisa uxinzelelo. Ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo kuhambelana nokuzinza kobudlelwane.

Ukuxhasana ngokwesondo ngokuvisisanayo kwandisa ukudibana phakathi kobudlelwane. Kuye kwaboniswa ukuba amaqabane adibaniseneyo anene ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane xa befeza iiminqweno zesini. "

Kukho uphando lophando lwezenzululwazi oluye lwabonisa ukuba luncedo. Ngokufanelekileyo, iqabane elithembekileyo lezesondo liyinxalenye enkulu yokufumana ezi zinzuzo. Ulwalamano olude olukhuselekileyo (olufana nomtshato, kodwa akunjalo), unokuvuna ezi zinzuzo.

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