Xa usubudlelane ixesha elide, kulula ukuqala ukuziva unqanyuliwe. Izinto eziye zenza uzive uzivuyile kwaye zibalulekile ngoku zibonakala ziqhelekileyo. Amazwi apho iqabane lakho liye lahlekisa ngokukhawuleza ezindlebeni zakho liye laphela. Iimviwo eziqhelekileyo zemihla ngemihla azisezona zizodwa okanye zintsha njengoko zazingaphambili. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba wena kunye nomlingane wakho sele nihlala kunye, kubalulekile ukuzama ukuvuselela umtshato kunye nokunyusa umtshato wakho.
Enye indlela onokukunceda ngayo ulwalamano lwakho lusuka "luxakeke" ukuya "kumnandi" kukuqala ukusebenzisa amagama alula kunye nempawu ezithetha ukuba uncede uhlale udibene nomoya kwiqabane lakho.
1. Sebenzisa iiNicknam
Musa ukwesaba ukusebenzisa izibheno zezilwanyana kunye neqabane lakho. Nangona ungakaze usebenzise igama lomnxeba ngaphambili, ngamanye amaxesha into elula njengokubiza umnqweno wakho "Baby" okanye "Sweetie" kunokumenza azive ekhethekileyo. Ukuba umfazi wakho ukhangeleka ngelinye ilanga, cinga ukumbiza ngokuthi "Hottie" okanye "Sexy." Akukho mfuneko yokuziva uceceke xa usebenzisa amagama eepestile kunye neqabane lakho. Enyanisweni, abaninzi abantu bafumanisa ukuba ii-nicknam zindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu ukuba unokubonisa umdla wakho kunye nomtsalane wakho.
2. Sebenzisa ukuqinisekiswa koMlomo
Enye indlela ebalulekileyo enokubonisa ngayo uthando lwakho kukuzama ukuthetha ngokuqinisekileyo. Kubantu abaninzi, ukufunda indlela yokuthetha into enhle kumlingani inokuba nzima. Ukuba ulwa ulutsha nje, umlingane wakho unokuvakalelwa kukuba ukuncoma kwakho kukhishwe okanye uyamhlekisa.
Qinisekisa ukuba ungokoqobo ekunconyeni kwakho nokuba ithoni yakho iyanjalo, ihlazo, kwaye iyathoba. Umzekelo, ungathi, "Ndiyayithanda loo nto. Enye inketho yayiza kubonisa ukuba, "Ndimthanda ukuphulaphula ufunde ibali kubantwana.
Uyihlo okhulu ngokwenene. "
3. Yenza iKhore okanye Umsebenzi
Ukuba kukho umsebenzi owenzayo umlingane wakho, kutheni ungamangali ngokuzikhathalela ngokwakho? Into elula nje njengokuthabatha udoti, ukuthatha inja yakho ukuhamba, okanye ukucoca iitya zokutya kunokudlulisela uthando lwakho kumlingane wakho . Gcina ukhumbule ukuba xa uzama ukusebenzisa isenzo somusa ukubonisa uthando lwakho, kufuneka ukhuphe ukuza kwesihloko emva koko. Ukuba uya kuba nomusa, yenza njalo ngaphandle kokulindela ukuphindaphinda okanye ukubulela. Nangona iqabane lakho likufanele libulele, ungalokothi wenze into enomdla ukuze uzuze udumo lwakhe.
4. Thumela umyalezo wombhalo nje ngenxa
Thumela itekisi yothando ngelilanga kungekho sizathu esinye ngaphandle kokujonga kwiqabane lakho. Akukho mfuneko yokuthetha malunga nokuba ngubani othabathe abantwana okanye oko kukutya. Ulula nje "hi" kunye nesigidimi ocinga ngabo ngabo kwaye ufuna nje ukujonga.
5. Nika iHog Rand
Nika isikhala ngaphandle kwesizathu kwaye xa kungalindelekanga. Ama-Hugs aqinisekisiwe ukuba ayakhuthaza. Ukunika ingqungquthela ngokukhawuleza kuya kuthumela umyalezo owukhathalelayo nokucinga ngawo. Kwakhona indlela enhle kakhulu yokubonisa uthando.
6. Cwangcisa into entsha ukuyenza kunye
Inveli iyakukunceda uhlale uphila emtshatweni wakho.
Ukwenza amava amatsha kunye kunye ne-hormones ezixhamlayo. Kodwa, hamba phambili kunye nale nto kwaye uthathe inyathelo lokucwangcisela into ebini. Khawukhumbule xa usandulana, oku kwakungeyona nto. Khumbula, usadinga ukutshata nomlingane wakho!
7. Qinisekisa i-Point of View yakho yomfazi
Kufuneka uhlale uzama ukujonga umbono weqabane lakho. Ukuba uyaphikisana, ukuba nexesha elinzima ukuhamba kunye, okanye nje ukuba ungavumelani, qalela ukuzibeka kwiingwele zakhe. Nangona kuqhelekile ukungavumelani, ukubonisa ukuba uyayiqonda into awazama ukuyithetha ngayo unokuhamba ngendlela ende ekuboniseni inhlonipho kunye nothando kumlingane wakho.
Buza imibuzo enomdla kunye nengqiqo ukuze ukwazi ukuvela apho iqabane lakho livela khona. Emva koko, makumazi, "yifumane!"
Ezi ngcebiso zenzelwe ukukunceda udibanise ngakumbi ngosuku nosapho lakho. Uninzi lwala macebiso luncinci, imisebenzi elula ongayenza ngaphandle kwemizamo eninzi. Ukuba ezinye zezi zintsha kwaye azikho ngendlela eqhelekileyo oziphatha ngayo, thatha ithuba, uze uzame. Impendulo (kunye nethemba ngokuphindaphinda) iya kukuvuyisa ukuba wenze njalo. Uya kuthumela umyalezo ocinga ngawo kwaye uyawuxabisa umlingane wakho nomtshato wakho.