Inokutshabalalisa umtshato wakho
Ayenzi nantoni na ukuba umlingane wakho akavuki ngexesha, unomdla owonakalisayo kwiingubo, ukhohliwe ukuqeshwa okanye uthathe iipilisi, ulahlekelwe yimitshini yemoto, okanye ungakhethi izinto. Ukuba ungumzali wakho umlingane, ngokwenene umbonisa ukungabikho kwamkelwa kunye nokungabi nhlonipho.
Ukuba unomntwana omdala okanye ongenakukhathazeka, unokufuna ukuthetha oku kuwe rhoqo: Ndingumfazi wakhe, kungekhona unina.
Ukuba unomfazi omdala okanye ongenakuziphendulela, unokufuna ukuthetha oku kuwe rhoqo: Ndingumyeni wakhe, kungekhona uyise.
Ukuzibeka endima yomzali nokubeka iqabane lakho kwindoda ebantwini kukunyelisa umlingane wakho kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuyaphikisana. Umlingane wakho ekugqibeleni uya kukucasula ngokuthatha le nxaxheba yokulawula, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuwonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho bomtshato. Ukuba le nto iya kuba yindawo yemfazwe emtshatweni wenu, funani ukucebisa njengombhangqwana.
Ukukhulelwa kwabazali okanye abazali
Unokungaqondi ukuba ezi zinto zivakalelwa njani kumlingane wakho, kodwa ezi zizo zonke iimpawu ezifanelekileyo ekusebenzisaneni kwakho nezingane zakho, kungekhona lakho iqabane. Nangona ungangena kumkhwa wokwenza ezinye zezi zinto ukuba unabantwana, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuhluka kobudlelwane bakho nabo kunye neqabane lakho. Ezinye zezi ziphatha zibonakala zicacile okanye zikhohlakele kunabanye, kodwa zonke zibonisa ukungabi nhlonipho kumlingane wakho njengomntu omdala kwaye ulinganayo nomtshato.
- Ukhetha iingubo ozicingayo ukuba iqabane lakho lifanele limbethe.
- Ingxoxo yakho kunye neqabane lakho yintetho yentsana okanye ilizwi lomzali okanye umzali wezwi.
- Awucingi nto yokubeka ukutya kwisitya somlingane wakho, ukusika inyama yomlingane wakho, okanye ukuphazamisa umlingane wakho ukuba adle yonke imifuno kwisitya sakhe.
- Ukukhupha umlingane wakho ekuseni.
- Xa uhamba, upakisha iistimethi yomlingane wakho.
- Uyibeka iinwele zakho.
- Ungumntu okhumbuza ummeli kwintsapho yakho, ingaba kuthatha imithi, uqedqe umsebenzi, okanye ube nexesha ethile.
- Ukholelwa enye yeendima zakho ukulungisa umlingani wakho.
- Udla ngokubambisana nayo yonke imfuno.
- Wena ungaphaya kwamandla.
- Unomisela oogqirha lakho.
- Uthenga iimpahla zomlingane wakho.
- Uzalisa ifomathi okanye iifom zomthetho kwiqabane lakho.
- Uthabatha emva komlingane wakho.
- Ugcina ingqalelo yezinto zakho zomlingane njengezibuko zamagqabi, izixhobo zeemoto, okanye isikhwama.
Indlela Yokuyeka Ukuzali Umzali Wakho
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze kukuba uqaphela ukuba ukukhathazeka nokunyamekela iqabane lakho liqhelekileyo kwaye kulindeleke. Yilapho uwela ngaphantsi komgca waba yinxaxheba yomzali ukuba ukunyuka okuqhelekileyo kuyayeka kwaye umzali uqala.
- Yiba nentetho kunye neqabane lakho malunga nezinto ezinokuba yingxaki, njengokuba iqabane lakho lingayifumani emva kokuzimela.
- Khawukhumbule izenzo zakho kwaye uyeke ukuphatha lakho iqabane njengomntwana.
- Ungalungisi okanye ugxeke indlela umlingane wakho athabatha ngayo udoti okanye agqibe enye imisebenzi ejikeleze indlu.
- Yenza iqabane lakho lenze iimpazamo kwaye kufuneka lijamelane nemiphumo yokulibala okanye ukwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
- Yakha ikhalenda kwintsapho yakho kodwa cacisa ukuba ukugcina okwangoku kukho uxanduva lomntu wonke.
- Yeka ukuthetha ngetoni "yabazali" kunye neqabane lakho.
- Yamkela ukuba iqabane lakho lingathandi ukuphathwa njengebhokhwe.