Ukuhlaziya iincwadana kusengumxholo ocelomngeni kubabaninzi ukuthetha ngawo. Nangona kubudlelwane obusondeleyo bokuthandana, kunokubakho ubunzima malunga nalo mbandela. Abafazi abavame ukuhlala bekhona malunga nalokhu bayazi ukuba abayeni babo basagxeke ngaphandle kokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo rhoqo. Amadoda aneenkxalabo ezichaseneyo. Baya kuba bajike kakhulu ngokukwazi (okanye ukubukela) abafazi babo ukuhlambalaza, kodwa abafazi banokuziva bengenakukhathazeka ngaloo nto.
Nangona kunjalo, akuqhelekanga kumadoda, kunye nabasetyhini abambalwa, ukuba bahlaziye ngesondo ngokubhekisele kwizesondo eziqhelekileyo kunye namaqabane abo. Iinkolelo ezininzi zikhoyo kwiinkcubeko zethu ngokubhekiselele kwi-masturbation.
Ziziphi ezinye zeengcali (kunye neenyaniso) malunga ne-masturbation?
Kukho iingcinga ezininzi ngeengcambu. Okokufuneka ukwazi ukuba ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kulungile nje kuphela xa kungaphazamanga nobuhlobo bakho besondo kunye neqabane lakho. Kwakhona, ukugcoba kunye kwaye akuthinteli kuyo nayiphi na ingxaki yomzimba, yengqondo okanye yezokwelapha.
"Ukugcoba, ukucinga ngokugqithisileyo kunye nesifo sezifo ezininzi, kuye kwafakazelwa ngonyango ukuba kungabangeli ukugula kwengqondo, ubuthathaka, okanye nayiphi na isifo okanye ukufa; UDomeena C. Renshaw ku-Eric.ed.gov
Inyaniso Ngokuphathelele Ukugcoba:
- Ukuphonyula akuyi kubangela iintende zentsimbi.
- Ukuhlaziya umzimba akuyi kubeka kakubi amehlo akho okanye kukubangela ukuba ungaboni.
- Ukugunda i-masturbation ayibangeli i-acne.
- Ukuhlaziya umzimba akuyi kubangela ukuba ipenisi ihle.
- Ukuhlaziya umzimba akuyi kukukwenza uhlaziye.
- Ukugunda i-masturbation ayibangeli umhlaza.
- Ukuphonyula akuyi kukukwenza ube ngunyumba.
- Ukugunda i-masturbation akuyi kukuguqula ibe yi-pervert.
- Ukuphonyula akuyi kukunika i-STD.
- Ukuphanga-mbola akusebenzi ukuxhaphaza.
- Ukugcoba umzimba akusiyo ilitye eliya kuphila kwabantu besini.
- Ukugcoba umzimba akusiyo yendalo.
- Ukuphonyula akuyi kukuthintela uphuhliso lwakho lwentlalo noluntu
- Ukugcoba umzimba akukho ukungathembeki.
Ezinye iiLizwi eziqhelekileyo okanye iiNgqungquthela zokuHlombulula:
- ukudlala ngokwakho
- ukukhawuleza okanye ukucima
- ukuzivuselela
- ngokonwaba
Ezinye Iingongoma Nge-Masturbation:
- Abantu baqhubeka behlawula xa bebudlelwane bexesha elide njengomtshato.
- Uninzi lwabantu luhlazo malunga nokuhlambalaza ngenxa yemiphumo emibi kunye nexubekileyo efunyenwe malunga nokwenza oku kuziphatha.
- Wonke umntu uhlawula iirhafu ezahlukeneyo. Ayikho inombolo efanelekileyo okanye engalunganga.
- Ukugunda i-masturbation ingxaki xa iphazamisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla okanye ukuba isetyenziselwa ukutshatyalaliswa okwenene nomnye umntu.
- Ukuhlaziya umzimba kunokukunceda ufunde into oyithandayo kwaye ungayithandi ngesondo kunye nendlela ekufuneka uvuselelwe ngayo (ingakumbi kubafazi).
- Ngamanye amaxesha isisombululo sisetyenziselwa ukunciphisa uxinzelelo.
- Amadoda avame ukusebenzisa iinthombe zoononophala ukuze ahlaziye. Kwakhona, le nto yinkinga kuphela xa iphazamisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye nolwalamano lwakho lwezesondo kunye neqabane lakho.
- Kuyinto kuwe okanye ungaxeleli lakho iqabane okanye iqabane lakho ukuba uhlaziye.
- Unokuba neengxaki nge-masturbating kakhulu ukuba awukwazi ukufeza i-orgasm kunye nomlingane wakho ngokuziphatha okubi (ukunyusa okungekho komzimba).
Ukuba ukholelwa ukuba unokuba neengxaki nge-masturbation esekelwe kwinto osuyifunde yona, unokufuna uncedo lwesifo somzimba wezesondo. Umgqirha unokusebenza nawe wedwa okanye kunye nawe kunye neqabane lakho ukuze unqabise nayiphi na inkxalabo onokuyilwa nayo.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba i-masturbation iyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iphilile nangona imilayezo engafanelekanga oyifumene nayo kwintsapho yakho yemvelaphi. Abantu abanesigxina se-sex "band-ups" sele bevelele imiyalezo embi ephuma kwintsapho yabo okanye kwiziko lezenkolo malunga nokukhwabanisa. Le miyalezo kunzima ukutshintsha, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Kwakulungele ukuzama ukutshintsha imiyalezo engafanelekanga ukuze ube nolonwabo ubomi obunelisayo kunye neqabane lakho.
Ukongezelela, ukuba nje unokugcina ubuhlobo obunempilo kunye nokwanelisayo ngokomzwelo, akufanele ube nexhala nge-masturbating!