Kukho izixhobo ezincinci kulabo abasebenzisana nabo abathandayo
Kubahlobo kunye namalungu omndeni abathandekayo abahamba kwimigangatho yokugqibela kotywala, amava anokukhathazeka kwaye anesizungu. Isiva sokungabi namandla sinokukuphazamisa njengoko ubona umntu okhathalelayo ngokufa ngokukhawuleza xa engafuni ukuvuma ukusela kwakhe nokuba yingxaki.
Futhi musa ukwenza iphutha ngalo, bafa. Ukhohlo olungaphendulwanga, utywala ngumzimba obulalayo.
Ubunxila obunobomi bukaLinda ngenye yezo ziganeko zokugqibela. Kwaye kwaxelwa amaxesha asibhozo ukuba akayi kuhlala ezinye iinyanga ezintandathu. Izihlandlo ezintathu uye wahlala emnyango wokufa, kunye ne-hospice echaphazelekayo kwiintsuku zakhe zokugqibela. Kodwa uyaqhubeka ebuyela, ehamba nge-detox kwaye elula.
Akayi Kukwenza
"Ndiyilindele kwaye ndicwangcise ukuphela okuthi, ngelanga, uhlala evakalelwa ngathi kuya kuba yintsikelelo," uLinda ubhala kwiblogi yakhe. "Siye ngapha nangapha 'akayi kuyenza' kukukhathaza amaninzi, amaxesha amaninzi."
Kodwa uqhubeka ewenza. Ngoko ke isihloko sesibhulogi esithi, "I-Immortal Alcoholic."
Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa ibhulogi enxulumene nokubuyisela entsha ifika kwideskiti yam, ndiyifakisha ngokufutshane iblogi, sifunde izithuba ezimbalwa, qinisekisa ukuba zihlaziywa rhoqo, ziyihloko kwaye zibhalwe kakuhle, phambi kokuncoma kwabanye abafundi.
Kodwa kwi-Immortal Alcoholic, ndahlala. Ndahlala iiyure, ndafunda yonke into kwisayithi malunga nezilingo, iimbandezelo, kunye nowe, kunye nokuhleka kwezinto ezibandakanyekayo ekunyamekeleni utywala oludlulileyo.
Ukuxiliswa koMnxilaba yiNtsholongwane
Njengoko uqala ukufunda ibali likaLinda, ufuna ukuza kumfumana kwaye umnike ingqungquthela enkulu, nangona ndicinga ukuba uya kukhetha ukuba uvele ushiye amazwana. Kodwa abo bethu abaye babona okanye bebukele abathandekayo bazibulala ngenxa yobutywala, ibali lakhe liye laphulwa yintliziyo kunye nokwakha.
Umfazi we-Navy, uLinda wanyathelisa umyeni wakhe ekudakwa utywala iminyaka engama-20 xa ekhulisa intsapho , kodwa wamshiya emva kokuba intombi yakhe ikhule. Kwiminyaka eyi-15 bahlukana (kodwa bengazange baqhawule) utywala lwakhe lwaluqhubekela phambili kangangokuba lwaluchaphazela ingqondo yakhe kunye nezitho zangaphakathi.
Ukukhusela iNdodakazi yakhe
Xa intombi yakhe yenza isigqibo sokuba athathe uyise ogulayo ekhayeni lakhe ukuze amnakekele, uLinda wangena ekukhuseleni intombi yakhe kwi-insanity.
"Intombi yam yayifuna ukuba eze kunye nentsapho yakhe." Ndathi, "Hayi," uLinda ubhala. "Ndandihlala ndatshata naye ukuze ndibe nomsebenzi wam wempi." Wayengumsebenzi wam, kwakuyimfuneko yokuhlawula. "Andizange ndifune ukuba intombi yam ibomi ibe yindawo ebunxilisayo. kunye nokwenza oko kwakufuneka kwenziwe. "
Umncedisi, iPolisa kunye noMgcini weeWarden
Ngandlela-thile uLinda uye wakwazi ukuzithintela ngokwasetyeni ngelixa elifanayo ngokuqinisekileyo ekhonza njengomgcini wakhe, ipolisa kunye nomphathi. Uhlala naye kwisezantsi-mpuma eUnited States kwikhaya lakhe elisemaphandleni ukusuka kwivenkile esondeza kuyo.
Kwi-Immortal Alcoholic, i-Linda izithuba zeblogs eziqhelekileyo malunga nobomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla zijongene nesiphumo sokudakwa, ekubhaliwe kule ncwadi kubomile ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu, kodwa kubonisa ngokucacileyo imihla ngemihla ngelinye ilanga uya kuphinda aphuze.
Kunzima Ukufumana Ulwazi
Ibhulogi yakhe isebenzelana nobunzima bokuhlala nomntu onengqondo kunye nempilo eye yachitheka kakubi nokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala, kodwa naye unamaphepha ezincedo kwabanye abangenalo utywala njengabo, abanokuthi bangene kwiimeko ezifanayo.
Njengoko wacacisa nge-imeyile, "Ndineengxaki ekufumaneni abantu abaqonda" ukuphela kwesiteji "kunye nazo zonke izinto ezihamba nayo.Kodwa oogqirha abazi ngokwenene ukuba benze ntoni ..."
I-Information-Alcoholism Information Information
Ngoko ke, i-website yakhe ineenkcukacha edibeneyo xa ejongene nokusetyenziswa kotywala kokugqibela, kuquka:
- Amanqanaba obomi bokuNxila
ULinda ubonisa ukuqhubela phambili kotywala ovela "kwiibhiya ezimbalwa" ukuya kuthi "akayi kukwenza" isigaba kunye naphakathi naphakathi.
- Inyaniso NgoDetox
Oko bangakuxeleli malunga nenkqubo yokuxutywa kwe-detoxification kude kube isigulane esele sekho kwiprogram. - I-Dilemma yezoNyango
Uninzi lwabagqirha beentsapho aluqeqeshelwa ukujongana noxinzelelo lokugqibela kotywala okanye abafuni ukunyaniseka kwabo batywala okanye zabo iintsapho. - Utywala kunye neBiology
Xa isibindi singasakwazi ukuxilisa utywala ngokukhawuleza kwaye siyithumele kwigazi ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kubangele zonke iintlobo zeengxaki emzimbeni.
Ukuba wena okanye umntu owaziyo ujongene notywala, unokufumana iblogi yeLinda ukuba ufumane into ekugqibeleni, kuya kuba ngumthombo wokukhuthaza nokukhanyisa, okanye ubungqina bokuthi awodwa.