Ubomi beKholeji buhambisa iingxaki eziyingqayizivele kulabo abane-GAD
Ukuba ulungele ukugqiba isikolo esiphakamileyo ukuya kwiikholeji okokuqala okanye ukubuyela emva kwekhefu lokuphila, ikholeji yokuphila ingenza ukuba imeko yakho yokuxhalabisa i- GAD ibe nzima. Uxinzelelo kunye nokutshintsha ekungeneni kwigumbi lakho lokulala, ukungena kwiiklasi ezintsha ngexesha lokuqala okanye nokuba ushiye ikhaya labazali bakho kunokuxinzelela kwaye kunzima.
Oku kulandelelwaniswa ngcaciso emfutshane yeengxaki eziqhelekileyo zabafundi beekholeji kunye ne-GAD ubuso kunye neengcebiso zokunceda ukulawula iimpawu zakho ngelixa esikolweni.
Ukuxhalabisa
Olunye uhlobo lokuxhalaba oluqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantu kodwa lunokuthi lugqithise ngakumbi kwaye alukhathazi kubantu abaneengxaki zokuxhalabisa ngokuqhelekileyo "ukuxhalabisa okulindelekileyo." Olu hlobo luxhala olwenzekayo olukhokelela kwimeko ethile okanye esenzekayo. Unokufumana uxhalaba olulindelekileyo naliphi na ixesha ulindele izinto, ukusuka kwinto elula njengefowuni kwenye into ebaluleke kakhulu njengosuku lwakho lomtshato. Ikholeji yinto entsha kunye neyona nto inomdla kangangokuthi kuyaqhelekile ukuba nexhala lokuxhalabisa kwiiveki ngaphambi kokuya kwi-campus.
Isiphakamiso esisodwa sokukhathazeka kwangaphambili kukuba nje uzame ukuzonwabisa. Abantu abaninzi bathi bazive "bephila" xa ulinde into kwaye ukuba unako ukutshintsha ingqondo yakho kude nomntu ozama ukuphunyuka okanye ufumane imeko, ungayivuyela le ntlungu kunokuzama ukuyivala.
Ezinye izicwangciso zibone iindlela ezi-5 zokujongana nokukhathazeka " .
Nangona kunjalo, uxhalabhiso olulindelekileyo lunokuba lukhulu ngakumbi xa unayo i-GAD. Kweminye, inokukhubazeka, kukuthintela ukulungiselela isikolo ngokufanelekileyo okanye nokuba wenze ukuba ungacingi ukuba uya esikolweni nhlobo. Ukuba uxhalaba lwakho luye lwaba lubi kangangokuba luphazamisa izicwangciso zakho nobomi bakho, xelela abazali bakho nodokotela wakho malunga nokufumana uncedo ngonyango okanye kumachiza .
Ukuhlukana
Enye indlela ebalulekileyo yokuxhalabisa ezinokudibana nekholejini kukuxhalabisa. Abaselula abasuka ekhaya bangakwazi ukulwa nokuxhalaba kokuba ngabodwa okokuqala. Oku kufuthi kubakho kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala ukuya kwiinyanga zokuya kwiikholeji. Abantu abaninzi baya kuhlangabezana nale nto ngokubiza okanye ukutyelela ekhaya rhoqo kwaye abanye bajamelana nokugula ekhaya. Le yinkqubo yokuphuhliswa kwemvelo enokukuncedwa ngokuba neengxoxo eziqhelekileyo nezifudumele kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo abanokukuxhasa.
Uninzi lwabafundi baya kunqoba oku kanye xa bekwazi ukudibanisa ne-campus kunye nabanye abafundi, kodwa kukho abafundi abathile abangenakuhlala kuluntu okanye ngokwabo ngokomzwelo ukulungelelanisa. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba awukwazi ukuya kude, unyango luyodwa, kodwa ukuya esikolweni kwindawo enye evumelekileyo. Unokufumana imfundo ebalulekileyo kodwa uhlale ekhaya ngelixa unyango lwe-GAD.
Isiko soNcedo
Phantse zonke iikholeji neeyunivesithi zinomnye uhlobo lweziko lokucebisa kwi-campus enokukunceda kuzo zonke le micimbi. Ukuba uvakalelwa ngokukodwa ukhathazeka, ukwenza ukuqesha kunye nomcebisi weekholeji kunokuba luncedo kakhulu. Kubantu abano-GAD, oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kuba loo nkxaso eqhubekayo ingenza umehluko phakathi kwamava amnandi kunye neengxaki zeekholeji.
Funda le nqaku ngezinye iinkcukacha kwiziko lee-advisory yunivesithi kunye nexhala .
Umthombo:
"Abafundi beKholeji". Inkxalabo kunye nokuPhukisa uMbutho weMelika, ngo-2016.