Abazali abangenakunyameko nabangayihoyiyo banemiphumo emibi kubantwana
Ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kunye nokunyanzeliswa kunemiphumo emibi kubantwana abanokuhlala ixesha lokuphila. Ukusetyenziswa kakubi nokunyanzeliswa kunokwandisa amathuba omntwana onokulibaziseka kokuphuhliswa kunye nokukhubazeka kwexesha elide. La bantwana banomngcipheko ophezulu wokubandakanyeka kwizidakamizwa, ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesini, nokukhubazeka kokuziphatha. Ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kungasemzimbeni, ngokwesondo okanye ngokomzwelo.
Izibonakaliso zokuShatshazwa kwabantwana
Abantwana abajongene nokuxhaphazwa okanye ukunganakwa bangabonisa iimpawu ezibonakalayo. Basenokungabikho esikolweni ngaphandle kweengubo ezifanelekileyo zexesha, bekhohlo ngaphandle kokuvavanya kusesikolweni okanye bangathathi kakuhle emva kweeyure. Basenokuba neengxaki zokuziphatha ezifana nokubamba okanye ukufumana ukuhanjiswa kweendlela ezininzi. Baya kubonisa ukuziphatha okugqithisileyo nokuzikhukhumeza ngokomzimba, njengokukhala ngokulula, ukuzigcina ngokwabo okanye ubunzima beentanga nabadala. Baye basengozini yokusebenza esikolweni.
Abazali okanye abanye abanomdla abasebenzisa kakubi abantwana babo bahlala bephantsi koxinzelelo olukhulu kwaye banokubangela uxinzelelo lwabo kubantwana. Bangavakalelwa ngathi akukho nxaki ngeendlela zabo zokuziphatha kumntwana. Kwimizi enjalo, uqeqesho luba nzima, kwaye isijeziso somzimba siqhelekileyo. Abazali bangabaxhaphaza ngokwemvakalelo, besetyenziswe ngolwimi olubuhlungu, bahlazise, bahlekise abantwana babo.
Ukuchonga ukunyaniseka kwabantwana
Ukunyaniseka komntwana kubandakanya ukukhanyela umntwana oko akufunayo ukuze uphile ngokusisiseko. Izambatho ezinganeleyo, ukutya okunomsoco, inkxaso yezemfundo kunye neemeko zemizekelo. Ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana ezifana nezindlu ezaneleyo, ukunakekelwa kwezonyango okanye ukunyamekela okuqhelekileyo zihlala ziyingxaki kwimindeni enganakiyo.
Abantwana abanganakwabo bahlala bekulungele ukulungiselela isikolo kwaye bangaphuthelwa esikolweni kakhulu. Aba bantwana bangase bathathe abanye kwizame zokufumana izinto abayidingayo. Zingabonakala zingatshintshi kwaye zingabonakali. Basenokugula ngokuphindaphindiweyo ixesha elide. Kwezinye iimeko, abantwana abangakhange bahlolwe ngokwaneleyo baya kubandakanywa kwiziyobisi okanye utywala, kwaye abazali abanokungazi okanye abanandaba.
Ku xhatshazwa
Ukuxhatshazwa komzimba kwenzeka xa umntu omdala ebona umntwana ebangela ukulimala. Ukulimala ngokwenyama kunokubangelwa ukubetha, ukugqithisa ngokweqile, ukutshisa i-cigarettes (okanye ezinye iintlobo zokutshisa okanye iinwele), ukugubha, ukukhaba okanye ezinye iintlobo zobundlobongela. Iziqhumane, ukutshisa kunye nokucima kwiindawo ezingaqhelekanga zibonakaliso zokusetyenziswa kakubi. Ukuqhaqhazela ngamadolo kunye nokukhangela izibonda, nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukulimala abantwana kubakho ngexesha lokudlala. Xa abazali nabantwana banika iingcaciso ezahlukeneyo ngenxa yengozi, ukusetyenziswa gadalala kunokubangela.
Ukuphathwa kakubi ngokomzwelo
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokomzwelo kushiya izikrakra kubantwana abangenakuze babonwa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzwelo kuchaphazela kakubi ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye nomoya kunye nokuba nefuthe elide kwixesha lokukhula kwengqondo. Ukuxhaphazwa kakhulu kwintlungu kukuthetha. Kule meko, abazali okanye abanakekeli baqhubeka bebeka umntwana, bamgxeka ngeengxaki ezingenakubangela, bambize ngamagama okanye basebenzise iindlela ezifanayo zokuxhaphazwa ngamagama.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokomzwelo kunokubandakanya isijeziso esingekho somzimba esenzelwe ukuhlazisa, ukuhlazeka okanye ukuthusa umntwana.
Ku xhatshazwa ngo kwesondo
Ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokwesondo xa kwenzeka umntu omdala engabandakanyekanga ngokwesini kunye nomntwana. Ingabandakanya ukuthetha ngesondo okanye ukuthumela i-texting okanye nayiphi na inxibelelwano yomzimba njengokwabelana ngesondo, i-sodomy okanye ichukumisa. Nje ngezinye iindlela zokusetyenziswa gadalala, ukusetyenziswa gadalala ngokwesondo kunokusasazeka kwixesha elide kwi-psychological and developmental child.
Ukuqhawula phezulu
Abasebenzi beSikolo bafunwa ngumthetho ukubika iziganeko zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana. Ukuba unomdla wokuba umntwana usenokuxhatshazwa kakubi, kubalulekile ukuqhagamshelana namapolisa ukwenza ingxelo.
Ukuxhatshazwa kakubi kuyisinyathelo esibalulekileyo sokuqala ukukhusela umntwana kunye nokwenza intsapho incede unqande umjikelezo wokuxhaphazwa nokungahoywa.