Ngokuqhelekileyo Kumelwe Ube Mbi KangakaPhambi kokuba Uzuze
Kulabo abanesifo sotywala, kubonakala ngathi yinyaniso ephakathi kwento yonke ngaphambi kokuba izinto zibe ngcono, kufuneka zibi kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha, kufuneka babe nzima kakhulu.
Bambiza ngokuthi "ukushaya phantsi." Umzantsi wendawo utywala kufuneka afike ngaphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni ulungele ukuvuma ukuba unenkinga kwaye ufikelela uncedo.
Emva koko, ngenxa yokwexwala kwangempela, akubonakali kuye (okanye yena) ukuba unengxaki.
Ufumana ixesha elihle. Ukuba wonk 'ubani wayeya kumva, yonke into yayiya kulungile. Unesifo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo asibonakali njengento enye yokugqibela eya kwenzeka kuye kukuba ufuna uncedo.
Ngenxa yokuba utywala buyisifo esiqhubekayo, kufike iphuzu apho unxila oluxhomekeke kuninzi luye lwagqiba ekubeni kukho ingxaki.
Utywala aluhlali kwindawo enye. Ayikubetha isigaba esithile uze uhlawule. Iqhubeka ikhula, iyichaphazela ngokwenyama, ngokwengqondo, ngokuziphatha nangokomoya. Kuzo zonke iinqanaba, uqhubeka ekhula ngakumbi ekugqibeleni, uhlahlela phantsi.
Ngoko uphantsi phi? Akukho mntu uyazi.
Kuphi I siphantsi?
Kwabanye, ukufumana i-DUI yokuqala ingaba yindawo apho ukujika kufike khona. Ukuvalelwa, kunye neeyure ezimbalwa, kwaye ukujongana nokuthotywa komntu wosuku lwenkundla kukunye uphawu olufuna ukuba lunenkinga.
Kwabanye, nangona kunjalo, abali-10 abanjelwe ukubanjwa ngokuqhuba ukuqhuba ukuqhuba ukuqhuba ukuqhubela umbane akukho nxaxheba. Ukuqhuba ngaphandle kweelayisenisi kunye nokutyelela rhoqo kwintolongo yasekuhlaleni akuyikuzibeka. Utywala ulahlekelwe iilayisenisi zabaqhubi, imisebenzi, imisebenzi, iintombi, abafazi, iintsapho kunye nabantwana kwaye baqhubeka bekhanyela ukuba baneengxaki zokusela .
Kwakusoloko iphoso lomnye umntu. Umfazi wakhe akazange amqonde. Isizathu esithile esafumana loo DUI kwaba kukuba wayeqhuba imoto ebomvu kunye nama-cops abukele iinqwelo ezibomvu. Ayengayi kuba nazo zonke iingxaki ayenayo ukuba kwakungekho kwala ma-MADD!
Umphathi wakhe wayenentlungu ngokwenene yokunyamezela. Umsebenzi wakhe njengengcali ehamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kokuthanda ukuthengisa iimoto ezisetyenziswayo, ufumana abantu abaninzi.
Ezinye izidakwa ziqhubeka iminyaka emininzi zikhanyela ukuhla kwazo ekuhlaleni, kwezoqoqosho kunye nokuziphatha. Kodwa wonke umntu onxilisayo unalo "ngaphantsi" apho ukuze ahlasele. Indawo apho ngisho nabanqabile kunabo bonke abaxhasi be-hardcore bavuma ukuba ubomi babo bube bunzima .
Ngaba I-Bottom Look Iyaziwayo?
Ukuba oku kuyandivayo, kukho imibuzo embalwa ongayifuna ukuzibuza ngokusetyenziswa kwakho kotywala. Akudingeki ukuba nantoni na ngakumbi phambi kokuba unokufumana uncedo ukubeka ubomi bakho kumzila. Emva kokuba uthathe isinyathelo, izinto ziya kuqala ukukhangela.