Ukuba nje unokufunda ingqondo yakhe!
Ngoko uthandana kwaye ukholelwa ukuba ufumene "enye." Ubuhlobo bakho buye budibanisa kakuhle. Kwaye nabazali bakho bayamthanda! Ucinga ukuba ixesha elaneleyo liye. Ukungathethi, iiholide eziliqela. Amaholide anethuba elihle lokufumana izipho. Kodwa, asinako isandi.
Kungaba nzima ukuxelela ukuba ubuhlobo bakho buya kutshata umtshato. Akunakufuna ukugubha isikebhe ngencoko enkulu.
Kodwa ngelo xesha, ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni ukuchitha ixesha lakho.
Tyikitya-I-Tale Signs Ungaba nguYe
1. Ubhekisela kwixesha elizayo, kunye nawe uqulethe kwaye udla rhoqo! Ukuphela kukuba "ifs." Akunjalo ukuba senza oku okanye oko, kuba xa senza oku okanye oko. Ingaba uceba iholide, uthenge ikhaya, okanye uya kumtshato womhlobo ozayo, kuyacaca ukuba usengqondweni yakhe. Akasacingi ngobudoda bakhe kodwa oko kuya kuba ngathi njengeqabane elinesigxina. Uye wazisa emabini amagama kunye neendlela oziphethe ngayo kwikamva.
2. Ucela umbono wakho malunga nezigqibo zobomi ezibalulekileyo. Izinto azibukwa njengento kuphela echaphazela yena yedwa. Ukuba unikwe umsebenzi kwelinye ilizwe okanye akaqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni ngogogo wakhe ogulayo, ufuna igalelo lakho. Iba yingxoxo kwaye ayiyiyo isigqibo esisodwa.
3. Uhlala uyamkelelwa kwiintlanganiso zeentsapho kwaye uya kubakho ininzi yakho.
Intsapho yakhe iyamkela wena nabakho bamkele. Kubonakala ngathi ifanelekile yendalo. Ibhonasi ukuba unina uhlala ebuza ukuba uya kuza kwaye udaniwe ukuba awukho.
4. Uhlala ujikeleze nangona ubenokubetha iindawo ezimbalwa. Mhlawumbi ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi wakho, wafumana isigulo esongezelelekileyo okanye waphula umlenze wakho.
Wayekho apho kunye nenkxaso yemoya. Mhlawumbi ufumane inkxaso yenkxaso yemali (leyo ke, awuzange uyithathe), kodwa yenza ukuba uzive ukhuselekile. Okanye mhlawumbi unesiqhelo esibi kakhulu se-PMS okanye ube nefuthe elikhulu phezu kwento ethile. Ukuba akazange akhange ibhayile, amathuba ayenako.
5. Ubonisa ukuba ukholelwa emtshatweni kwaye akayikwesaba ukwenza into enjalo yokuzinikela . Ingumqondiso othembekileyo ngokwenene ukuba unesimo sengqondo esifanele ekuthandaneni nokuzinikela. Ucinga ngokuphathelele umtshato, akayi kungena okanye ukukhawuleza, kodwa ngelo xesha uzimisele ngakumbi ukuthatha umngcipheko othandweni xa uvakalelwa kakuhle.
6. Uninzi olufanayo, kubandakanywa nezinto ezimbalwa eziqinileyo okanye ezithandekayo. Unokuba nomoya ofanayo okanye umkhwa othile owenzayo. Kubonakala ngathi nonke nisondelana ngokwenene.
7. Abafileyo abaphilileyo: uyamkhathalela ukuba acele umntu ngeadayimane okanye uqale ukuphawula okanye ukuphawula ngamanye amabhinqa athetha ngayo! Ukuba oko kwenzeka, ngokuqinisekileyo ucinga ngokucetyiswa kunye namathuba kungekudala kunokuba emva koko.
Ufuna ukunyamezela. Ukubona konke okanye ezinye zeempawu kufuneka kukuncede ukwazi ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba lo mntu akayi ndawo naphi. Akukho sizathu sokuthatha i-romance ngaphandle kwenkqubo ngokusuka okanye uhlale uqala iingxoxo ngekamva lakho.
Ngaphandle koko, ukuba uye waba nesigulane kwaye ungayiboni le miqondiso okanye yimbi, ayihambisani nokuziphatha kwakhe, kuba lixesha lokuthetha. Uya kufuneka ubeke ingozi malunga nokuveza iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ukhangele kunye naye. Unokuphelisa intliziyo. Nangona kunjalo, awufuni ukutyhala ixesha kunye namandla ukuze ube nolwalamano olungaqhutyelwe umtshato ukuba oko kuyinjongo yakho.