I-Teraphobia ixhaphake ngakumbi kubantwana kunabantu abadala
I-Teraphobia (uloyiko lwezilwanyana) luqheleke kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka engaphambi kokufunda esikolweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo iyancipha ngexesha leminyaka yokuqala yokuqala kwaye ayiqhelekanga kakhulu ixesha lokuba umntwana afike esikolweni esiphakathi. Kwintsholongwane kunye nabantu abadala, ukwesaba iindlovane kuyinto engabonakaliyo kodwa inokuthi iyancipha ubomi .
I-Teraphobia kwabantwana abaselula
Uloyiko luqhelekileyo, inxalenye enempilo yokuphuhliswa kwabantwana.
Bancedisa abantwana ukuba bafunde ukuqonda ihlabathi elibajikelezile kunye nokuphuhlisa izakhono zokuphilisa ukugcina ixesha lokuphila. Ngenxa yoko, i-phobias ayifumanekanga kwizingane ezineminyaka engaphantsi kwe-18 ngaphandle kokuba zihlala zingaphaya kweenyanga ezintandathu.
Abacebisi
Kubantwana, ukwesaba iindlo ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha iifomu ezingafaniyo. Esikhundleni sokwesaba uFrankenstein, uDracula okanye u-Godzilla, umntwana uyesaba ukuba "i-monster" ihlala phantsi kombhede wakhe okanye kwindawo yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukucela umntwana ukuba athathe umfanekiso we-monster inokunika izikhokelo kwizinto zokusingqongileyo. Ezinye imidwebo zifana nomdlalo we-cartoon, umnxeba obonakala kwiindaba ezihlwaya okanye ummelwane apho abantwana abasemzaneni babhekisela "njengento ephazamisayo." Kule meko, ukunciphisa ukukhutshwa komntwana kunokunceda ukunciphisa ukwesaba.
Unyango kubantwana
- Abanye abazali basebenzisa "i-monster spray" ukuze bancede abantwana babo balwe noloyiko. Cinga ukusebenzisa i-bray ye-spray engenanto, ezele ngokugcwele ngamanzi anombala okanye i-aromatherapy spray - kwisithethe sebusuku. Phalaza i-closet, phantsi kombhede kunye naphi na enye into yokuba umntwana wakho acinga ukuba i-monster ingafihla. Qiniseka ukuba ungasebenzisi nantoni na eyinokuba yingozi kumntwana okanye eyonakalisa izitayela okanye upende.
- Khuthaza ukuvuselela ixesha lokulala ukuze uhlalise umlenze wengane. Ubhavu olufudumeleyo, iglasi lemanzi kunye nebali lokulala likhuthaza ukuphumla kunye nendalo yokulala ephazamisayo. Ukuba umntwana uyika ubumnyama, cinga ukubonelela ebusuku. Ukulala nesilwanyana sentsapho kunokubonelela ngesimo sokukhusela.
- Umvuzo "wokuziphatha". Abanye abantwana bahlala bexhamla kwiinkxalabo zabo zokoyiko, ngoko ke qwalasela ingqalelo. Ukubonelela nge-"monster check" emfutshane (kunye nenkonzo yefrayim, ukuba uyayifunayo) uze ushiye ikamelo. Sebenzisa ama-stickers okanye amanye amanqaku ukulandelela ubusuku obuhlala umntwana embhedeni ubusuku bonke ngaphandle kokukubiza egumbini lakhe. Xa i-weekly's worth of stickers iqokelelwe, vumela umntwana ukuba abathengise ekuthandweni okuthandwayo, njengendlela yokuya epakini okanye ipakethi yekiki.
- Ungalokothi uhlekise ukwesaba komntwana, sebenzisa ukwesaba njengengozi yokunqanda ukuziphatha okubi okanye ukumnciphisa ngenxa yokwesaba. Bonisa intlonelo kunye novelwano kwiimvakalelo zakhe ngelixa umqinisekisa ukuba konke kuya kulungile.
I-Teraphobia kwabaselula kunye nabantu abadala
Kubantwana abadala kunye nabantu abadala, ukwesaba iindlovama ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha ifom ekhethekileyo. Iibhayisikobho ezikrakra zijongene nokutya okwexesha elifutshane, ngakumbi xa ubukele khona ngaphambi kokulala. Ezi nkxalabo zihlala zihlala ngobusuku obuncinane kwaye zihlala zihlanjululwa ngokulala kunye nokuphishekela iziphazamiso ezintle, ezifana nokubukela ukukhanya, ithelevishini. Ukuba uloyiko luhlala ngaphezu kobusuku obuncinane, lube ngumqondiso we-phobia yangempela.
I-monster phobia engapheliyo ingasuswa kwiinkonzo zonqulo okanye inkcubeko.
Uloyiko lunokwenziwa jikelele okanye lube luhlobo oluthile lwesidalwa, njenge-vampires, zombies , okanye izihostlo . Ngesinye isikhathi uloyiko lobugqwirana lunxulumene noyiko lwezilwanyana. Ezi phobias zihlala zixhomekeke kumxube weenkolelo, iimbali zasezidolophini kunye neemfundiso zonqulo.
Kubantu abaninzi, ulwazi lunamandla. Ukufunda iimbali zamandulo nezanamhlanje malunga neentloyiko eziyikayo, ingakumbi inzululwazi emva kweengcamango, zisoloko zanele ukunqanda ukwesaba okukhulu. Ukufumana i-phobias engakumbi, uncedo olungundoqo lungafuneka.
I-monster phobia engaphendulwanga yayingadluka ngexesha. Ukuzihlukanisa kwezentlalo kunokwenzeka, ngakumbi kubaselula, abahlobo babo banokubona uloyiko olunobunzima okanye olungenangqondo.
Abaninzi abaselula bayaphumelela ekuhambeni kweendwendwe, apho baphuma kwiqela ukuze bahlangabezane neengcamango zasezidolophini eziseduze; ii-marathon ze-movie ezibuhlungu ziyi-staple ye-nightlife yobutsha. Abantwana abanoyiko lokuthatha inxaxheba basengozini yokuhlekwa usulu kwaye bavalelwe.
Unyango lwabadala nabaselula
Ngenhlanhla, njengazo zonke i-phobias, i-monster phobia isabela kakuhle kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zonyango. Ngenxa yokuba zihlala zixhomekeke kwezinye ukwesaba, kubalulekile ukugqiba kwiinjongo zakho eziphambili zonyango . Ngaba ukholelwa ukuba unokulimazwa yi-monster? Ngaba ukhathazeke ngezinto ezimbi? Ngaba ufuna nje ukwazi ukunandipha amafilimu angcolileyo kunye neentsuku ze-Halloween kunye nabahlobo bakho? Ngaba ukhathazeke ukuba umntwana wakho angathatha uloyiko lwakho?
Iimpendulo kule mibuzo neminye iya kukunceda ukukhetha lwakho unyango. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uloyiko lwezilwanyana lusekelwe kwiinkolelo zakho zonqulo okanye ezingokwenyaniso, umgqirha wakho unokubonisa ukucetyiswa kokomoya kunye nenkokheli yakho yonqulo kunoko, okanye ngaphezu koko, ubugcisa bendabuko.
Imithombo:
Ukoyika abantwana kunye nexesha lokulala. Foundation National Foundation. http://www.sleepfoundation.org/article/ask-the-expert/dildren-and-bedtime-fears-and-nightmares
Buza uDkt Sears: Ukwesaba i-Mashing Monster. Parenting.com. http://www.parenting.com/article/ask-dr-sears-mashing-monster-fears
Umbutho wezeMpilo waseMerika. (1994). I-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Disabilities (4th Ed.) . Washington, DC: Umbhali.