Ukuqaphela Ingozi Yakho Yokufa Ngomlingani Othandana Naye
Ukuba unobundlobongela obunobundlobongela obuphendubileyo, usenokuba yingozi ngakumbi kunokuba uyayiqonda. Ubundlobongela basekhaya bungaphumelela ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo buya kubulawa ngesilumkiso esincinci. Enyanisweni, ngokwemibare evela kumaziko okuLawula nokuLawula (i-CDC), malunga nesiqingatha sokufa kwabantu besifazane e-US ziqhutywa ngumlingani okhoyo okanye owakusondelene naye unyaka ngamnye.
Xa uxhamene nobudlelwane obuhlukumezayo, kunokuba nzima ukubona ingozi okhoyo. Njengoko ixesha lidlulayo, ukusetyenziswa gadalala kungaba yinto yakho evamile, kwaye ukukwazi kwakho ukwenza izigqibo ezicacileyo kunokuthi kube nzima. Yilapho uncedo olungaphandle luyimfuneko.
Isixhobo sokuHlola ingozi
Ngenhlanhla, kukho izixhobo ezinokukunceda. UJacquelyn C. Campbell, Ph.D., umphandi owaziwayo kunye neYunivesithi yaseYunivesithi yaseNyuvesi yase-Johns Hopkins, wavelisa isixhobo soVavanyo lweengozi (DA) ngo-1986 ukunceda amaxhoba okusetyenziswa gadalala xa ebona ubomi babo besengozini evela kumlingane osondeleyo.
Esi sixhobo esinamandla, isiqhelo esilungelelaniso sibandakanya uphando oluninzi lwee-statistic olwenziwa nguCampbell, obhalile okanye obhaliweyo kwiincwadi ezingaphezu kwe-230 kunye neencwadi ezisixhenxe zokunyanzelisa ubundlobongela basekhaya kunye neziphumo zokusetyenziswa kakubi kwekhaya .
Indlela iCandelo loVavanyo loKhuseleko elaphuhliswa ngayo
Uphando lukaCampbell ngobudlelwane obundlobongela luncedisa ukuba iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha, iipateni kunye neentlalo zentlalo zonyuka okanye zinciphisa umngcipheko wokufa kwabantu ebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo.
Ebhekiselwe "njengobungqina bokufa," le miba inokumisela ingozi yengozi kungakhathaliseki ukuba umlingane ohlukumezayo uphinde wavalelwa okanye wahlawulwa ulwaphulo-mthetho.
Isixhobo sikaCampbell sisetyenziselwe ngaphezu kweeminyaka emithathu ngamagosa okuthotyelwa komthetho, abaqeqeshi bezempilo, kunye nabakhuphiswano basekhaya ukuba bachonge kwaye bancedise amaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya abaphezulu kwinqanaba leengozi.
Ingcaciso emfutshane ebizwa ngokuba yi-"Lethality Assessment" (LA) isetyenziselwe ukusetyenziswa ngamagosa amapolisa asabela kwiifowuni zobudlobongela basekhaya. Abasetyhini abasemngciphekweni basetyenziselwa kubameli abasondeleyo abaqeqeshwe ekuhloleni kweengozi.
Indlela Yokuthatha Uvavanyo Lengozi
I-DA ihlukaniswe ngamacandelo amabini: ukuhlolwa kwekhalenda kunye nemibuzo engama-20. Ngamnye usebenza ngenjongo ethile:
- Isixhobo sekhalenda sinceda ukuvavanya ubunzima kunye nokuphindaphinda kokusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzimba kunyaka odlulileyo. Eli bhinqa licelwa ukuba likhangele umhla omalunga nesiganeko kunye nokubeka ubunzima kwizinga elilodwa ukuya kweyesihlanu. Le ngxenye ye-DA yenzelwe ukuphakamisa ingqalelo yowesifazane onokungafuni ukuxhatshazwa.
- Imibuzo engama-20 yinkqubo enzima apho umfazi ebuzwa ukuba aphendule ngokulula "ewe" okanye "akukho" iimpendulo. Ezinye zezinto ezijongene nobungozi zibandakanya izinsongelo zokufa ezidlulileyo, isimo sengqesho somlingani, kunye nokufikelela komlingane kumpu.
Ungayilanda i-DA mahhala okanye uyipapashe ngaphandle kolwimi olukhethile. Kukho iinguqulelo ezifumanekayo kwiintlobano zesini zesini kunye nabasetyhini. I-akhawunti eyimfihlo ingabhaliswa ukuhlaziywa okanye ukuhlaziywa i-DA xa kufuneka.
Oko Uvavanyo Lengozi Lungakuxelela
Nangona isahlulo sekhalenda sisetyenziselwa ukulandelela ukusetyenziswa gadalala okanye ukubonelela ngokucacileyo imbali yembali yokusetyenziswa kakubi, isabelo se-quiz senzelwe ukucacisa ingozi yakho apha kwaye ngoku.
Ngokusekelwe kwimiphumo yemibuzo, inqanaba lakho lomngcipheko liya kusekwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
- Unobungozi obukhulu xa uphendule "yebo" kwiimbuzo ezili-18 okanye ngaphezulu.
- Unobungozi obukhulu uphendulwa nguwe "ewe" kwimibuzo eyi-14 ukuya kwezi-17.
- Unobungozi obungakumbi xa uphendule "yee" ukuya kwiimbuzo ezisibhozo ukuya ku-13.
Ngokusekelwe kwiziphumo, unokukhetha ukunxibelelana nommeli okanye umcebisi ukuba afune iindlela zokunciphisa umngcipheko okanye ukufuna inkxaso okanye indawo yokukhusela ngokuqhagamshelana ne-National Domestic Violence Hotline (800) 799-7233 okanye i-TTY (800) 787-3224.
> Imithombo:
> Campbell J, Webster D, Glass M. Uvavanyo lweengozi: Ukuqinisekiswa kwe-Lethality Assessment Risk Instrument ye-Partner Femicide. Umbhalo woBundlobongela obuPhakathi . 2009; 24 (4): 653-74. i-doi: 10.1177 / 0886260508317180.
> Petrosky E, Blair J, uBetz C, et al. Ukwahlukana kobuhlanga kunye nobuhlanga kwiindawo zokuzibandakanya kwabasetyhini abadala kunye nomsebenzi wobudlova obusondelene nabo base-United States, ngo-2003-2014. MMWR. 2017; 66 (28); 741-6. i-doi: 10.15585 / mmwr.mm6628a1.