Ukuxinezeleka kunokuba ngumthwalo onzima wokuthwala wodwa
Ixesha loxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lwexinzelelo olungalindelekanga kwaye lubethe kanzima. Ngenxa yemiphumo yomzimba kunye nemvakalelo yoxinzelelo , kubalulekile ukuba sibe nezicwangciso zokulawula uxinzelelo olukhoyo xa kukho i-crisis. Ngenxa yokuba iziphumo zengcinezelo zingasasazeka, ukukhulula uxinzelelo akufanele kube ngumthwalo kubo nabani na ukuba bathwale bodwa. Ukuba nomhlobo ngexesha loxinzelelo lobomi kunokukwenza umehluko omkhulu.
Ukunceda Umhlobo Wakho Ukuxinezeleka-Ngeengxaki
Kodwa ukwazi indlela yokunceda umhlobo, nangona kunjalo, kunokukhohlisa. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokunikela inkxaso kumalungu entsapho kunye nabahlobo abanesidingo:
- Khupha ukutya
Kukho isizathu sokuba ukuzisa ukutya kungumzekelo omhle wobuhlobo bommelwane: "Kuyafaneleka ulwalamano olubanzi, ukususela ngokusondeleyo kumntu owaziwayo, kwaye kunceda ngokwenene abantu baziva bebhetele xa bafumana ingxaki. Yenza ukutya kwakho kwaye uyilahle, okanye uncedise ukulungelelanisa imizamo yeqela lakho (ukuze wonke ummelwane awubonakali ngokutya ngobusuku obufanayo), kwaye wenza inkonzo yangempela. - Yenza Isandla
Xa abantu bejamelene neengxaki , bahlala bexakeke. Ukufumana nje olunye usuku ukuya kwesinye kunokuba ngumngeni kunye nokucoca. Ukunikezela ukuboleka naluphi na uhlobo lwesandla abangalufuna lube yindlela efanelekileyo yokuxhasa umhlobo wakho. Ingaba kuthatha udoti kummelwane, ukuthenga ukutya kumhlobo, okanye ukuthatha inja yomama yakho kwi-vet, ukunceda imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla enokuthi ibe yinto eninzi kumntu onzima kwindlela efanelekileyo yokunceda.
- Baphume
Xa ubhekene nesifo okanye inkathazo, okanye xa unomnakekeli, kunokwenzeka ukuba ugqitywe ngxaki enkulu kunzima ukuphuma kwaye wenze izinto ezinokubangela uxinzelelo, njengokusebenzisa okanye ukubona i-movie. Njengomhlobo oxhasayo, ngamanye amaxesha kunceda nje ukuba uthathe othandekayo kwaye uncede uze uhambe ixesha elide. Ukuthatha umntu ekudleni, ukuhamba epakini, okanye ukubona ifilimu ephakamisayo ingaba yindlela ejabulisayo yokuboleka inkxaso.
- Ukubonelela ngeNdlebe
Maxa wambi awukwazi ukufumana isisombululo okanye ukulungisa iingxaki zabantu. Ngamanye amaxesha konke onokukwenza ukuphulaphula. Ngethamsanqa, oko kwanele ukwenza umehluko omkhulu ngexesha elide. (Enyanisweni, ngezinye izihlandlo ezilungileyo, umphulaphuli oncedayo uyathuthuzela ngakumbi kunokuba ngumcebisi ongcono kakhulu!) Ukuboleka indlebe okanye indlebe ekumemezayo kunokuba nzima ngakumbi kunokuba kuvakala (leyo yinxalenye yezizathu zokuthi kungani abagqirha banesidingo) , kodwa ingaguqulela kumhlobo ofuna umphulaphuli omhle. (Jonga eli nqaku ngeengcebiso malunga nokuhlonipha izakhono zakho zokuphulaphula .) - Batshengise Iimithombo
Ukuba usondelelene nomnye umntu, kwaye ubona ukuba banokufuna inkxaso engaphezulu kunokuba unako ukubonelela, unokuba ufuna ukuwabonisa ekukhokelweni kwezinye izibonelelo ngaphezu kokunikezela uncedo olunakho. Ukubanceda bafumane ugqirha okanye iqela lokuxhasa, okanye ezinye izibonelelo ezikhoyo kuluntu, zinokuba luncedo kubantu abaxakeke kakhulu ukuba bajonge zabo, okanye badinga ukujonga ngaphandle xa befuna uncedo olongezelelweyo.
Nokuba imithwalo encinci inokukunceda umhlobo okanye ummelwane ukuba asebenzise ixesha elinzima kakhulu. Ukuba khona kunokubanceda baxinezele kwaye bancede impilo yabo.