Izakhono zokuphulaphula ezilungileyo zibalulekile ekusebenzisaneni olufanelekileyo. Ingaba uqinisa ubudlelwane, ulungelelanisa ukungquzulana , okanye unika inkxaso ekujonganeni neengxaki , ukuzithobela kakuhle izakhono zingabakho uxolo. Funda indlela yokuba ngumphulaphuli oncedisayo ngokwenene, kwaye ungazifumana ujikelezwe ngabanye abakwazi ukwenza okufanayo. Nazi ezinye iindlela ezibalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni izakhono zokuphulaphula kakuhle:
Nantsi indlela
- Mamela, mamela, mamela. Buza umhlobo wakho oko kukuphosakeleyo, kwaye uphulaphule impendulo. Vumela ukuba baveze ukwesaba, ukukhungatheka, kunye nezinye iimvakalelo ezibalulekileyo, ukugcina amehlo kunye nokubonisa ukuba unomdla kwizinto abazithethayo. Melana nomnqweno wokunika iingcebiso ezingaceliweyo, uze uzivumele ukuba ziphume.
- Hlaziya kwakhona into oyivayo. Qinisekisa kwaye uphinde ubuyeke ukuqonda kwakho oko bathethayo ngoko bayazi ukuba uziva, kwaye ugxininise kwiimvakalelo abanokuba bazive ngayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umhlobo wakho uthetha ngeengxaki zeentsapho, unokuzifumana uthi, "Kubonakala ngathi izinto zibuhlungu. Uvakala ngathi uvakalelwa. "
- Buza Ngeemvakalelo. Buza ukuba bandise kwinto abavakalelwa ngayo kwaye kutheni. Ukubuza malunga neemvakalelo zabo kunika ukukhululwa komoya kwaye kunokuba luncedo ngaphezu kokugxininisa kwiimeko zabo.
- Gcina Ugxile kubo. Kunokuba uhlolisise ibali lakho elidibeneyo, gcina ugxininise kubo baze bazive bebhetele. Ungabhekisela into eyenzekayo kuwe ukuba ubuye ugxila kubo ngokukhawuleza. Baya kuqonda ingqwalasela, kwaye oku kuya kubanceda bazive benenyameko kwaye baqondwe.
- Ncedisa iBrainstorm. Esikhundleni sokunika iingcebiso ekuqaleni, oko kunciphisa ukuphononongwa kweemvakalelo kunye nolunye uqhagamshelwano, lindela de bafumane iimvakalelo zabo, kwaye bancede baqikelele izixazululo. Ukuba ubancedisa ukuba bafike ngeengcamango baze bajonge iingxaki kunye nokuxhamla kwabo ngabanye, banokufumana isisombululo abazivelayo. Okanye baziva bephuculwe emva kokukwazi ukuthetha nokuvakalelwa.
Iingcebiso
- Hlala Ukhona. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bajonga ukuphulaphula, kodwa bajonge nje umhlobo wabo ukuba bayeke ukuthetha ukuze bathethe nantoni na abaye bayilungisa ngengqondo xa bezama ukuziphulaphula. Abantu banokukwazi ukuqonda oku, kwaye akunakuziva. Kwakhona, bajwayele ukuphosakela oko kuchazwayo ngenxa yokuba bengagxilwanga.
- Musa ukunika iingcebiso. Ndikhankanyile ezi zihlandlo ezimbalwa sele zikhona, kodwa kubalulekile kuba iingcebiso ezingaceliyo zingabangela ukunyamezela . Kuqhelekile ukuba ufuna ukukhawuleza ukunika iingcebiso kunye nokulungisa 'ingxaki yomhlobo wakho. Ngaphandle kokuba kucelwe ngokuthe ngqo, musa. Ngelixa uzama ukunceda, yintoni eya kusebenza kuyo ingenakusebenza kumhlobo wakho; Kwakhona, iingcebiso zinokuzihlaziya. Ngaphandle kokuba bacele ngqo iingcebiso, umhlobo wakho mhlawumbi ufuna ukuziva evezwe kwaye aqonde, kwaye unokufumana izigqibo zakhe.
- Ithemba Le nkqubo. Kungathi uzive ukhathazeka ukuphulaphula iimvakalelo ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwisisombululo, kwaye ukuva umhlobo wakho uthetha ngeemvakalelo ezinokudakalisa kunokukwenza wenze uzive ungancedi. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ukunikela indlebe exhasayo kwaye uhleli nomhlobo wakho kwindawo engaxhatshazelwanga yinto enokuyilungayo ongayenza, kwaye emva kokuba iimvakalelo zikhutshwe, izisombululo zingaqala ukuza.
- Vumela Izinto Ngaphandle Kwexesha. Konke oku kugxininiso kwiingxaki zomhlobo wakho, kunokuba nzima ukuba ungagxininisi ixesha elilinganayo ngokwakho. Hlaziya ngolwazi ukuba, xa ufuna umhlobo, wakho umhlobo uya kuba ngumphulaphuli ongcono kuwe. Ukuba uhlala wenza konke okunikezelayo, unokuphinda uhlolisise i-dynamics yobudlelwane. Kodwa ukuba ngumphulaphuli onokumnceda kunokukwenza ube namandla, onenkathalo yomntu kwaye ulethe i-angle engaphezulu ekuxhaseni ubudlelwane bakho.