Abantu abanombulelo banabantu abonwabileyo-oku kubonakala ngathi ubulumko onokuyifumana kwisitampu se-bumper ngenxa yenyaniso yayo ecacileyo kunye nevakalelo ezilungileyo, kodwa uphando lokubulela luphinde lusekele le nkcazo. Xa unomzuzwana xa umntu esenza okuthile kuwe egcwalisa intliziyo yakho ngeemvakalelo ezinombulelo zokufudumala, unokuziva uzivelele. Kodwa akudingeki ulinde iimeko ukuzisa le ntliziyo kuwe-kukho izinto onokuzenza ebomini bakho ukuze wenze iimvakalelo zokuzibulela kuwe ngamava osukho ebomini bakho, kwaye wenze amava amatsha aya ukuzisa iimvakalelo ezininzi kubomi bakho nakubomi balabo abakujikelezile.
Yaye kunye nokubulela kuza iinzuzo ezininzi, phakathi kwazo ukunyamezela kokunyamezela uxinzelelo!
Ezi zilandelayo ziqulunqwe izicwangciso zokuzisa ukubonga ngakumbi ebomini bakho nobudlelwane bakho. Ezinye zazo zizenzo ezilula ukuba uzame ngokwakho ukuzisa ixesha elilodwa lokuzonwabisa; Ezinye zazo ziyimisebenzi enokuthi iqhutywe rhoqo ukuze ungeze umqondo ophakamileyo wenhlalakahle kwimvakalelo yakho. Enye okanye ezimbini zazo zizandla ezinkulu oza kuzikhumbula iminyaka ezayo. Nantoni na okhangelayo, qwalasela oku kulandelayo, ubone indlela onokuphucula ngayo ubomi bakho ngokubulela.
Smile!
Izifundo zibonisa ukuba isenzo esilula sokumomotheka sinokutshintsha indlela oziva ngayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kutheni uncumo. Yongeza kule nto into yokuba abantu abaninzi bayamomotheka xa bebona ukuncumo lokwenene kumntu womnye umntu, kwaye ufumana iimbali eziphindwe kabini-uzive ulunge ngokwakho, kwaye ujikelezwe lizwe labantu abancumo, abonwabileyo.
Ukumomotheka kunokunciphisa uxhulumano olunzima lwentlalo kwimiba emibini, ukunciphisa ubuninzi bexinzelelo ongayivakalelwa ngenye imeko yentlalo.
Gcina iNcwadi Yokubulela
Kukho iinzuzo ezininzi eziqinisekisiweyo eziza ngokupapashwa , kuquka ukuphucula impilo kunye nokuqina okukhulu. Ukugcinwa kwephepha lokubonga, nangona kunjalo, luzisa uncedo olungaphezulu.
Ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye (okanye xa ufuna ukuphakama ngokomzwelo), bhala phantsi izinto ezintathu ozoyixabisa ngazo, kwaye uzonwabile ngokwenene iimvakalelo ezilungileyo xa ucinga ngazo. Oku kuye kwaboniswa ukuphakamisa iimvakalelo ezixinezelekileyo kunye nokunceda uxinzelele uxinzelelo.
Qalisa Ukucamngca Ngothando
Ukucamngca inceba yinto esetyenziswa ngokubanzi kwaye ivelise zombini inzuzo yokucamngca kunye neentlungu ezinkulu kunye nokuxhamla kwabanye. Iqala ngokugxila kwiimvakalelo ezintle, zothando ngothando, kunye namasebe avela khona. Olu hlobo lokucamngca lunokukunceda uvelise ngemvakalelo yokubonga onayo kubo bonke abantu abalulekileyo ebomini bakho, kwaye uhlakulele iimvakalelo ezinzulu zokubongela abo unobandezeleka nabo.
Qaphela Ngeentlekiso Zakho
Cishe wonke umntu unokuba ngumdla wokuba nomona-umntu ufumana ukukhushulwa esikuvelele ukuba sinawo, unxulumane "olugqibeleleyo" okanye abantwana abaziphatha kakuhle abahlala besenza kakuhle ukuba sasinakho, okanye kubonakala ngathi Sisebenza nzima ukuze (kwaye singafumani) ebomini bethu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abo banomona wokuba nomona badla ukuthelekisa okubaluleke kakhulu kubomi babo kubomi obuhle kunomnye umntu-ngokungafaniyo sifuna ukurhweba ubomi bonke kunye nomnye umntu, kodwa kunokuba sifuna ukuba sinalo nto into abaya kuba nayo ukwenza ubomi bethu bube ngcono.
Okanye sithelekisa umhla wabo olungcono, umgangatho, okanye imeko yethu embi kakhulu.
Ukuba ufumana ukulwa ne-monster enamehlo aluhlaza, unokuzibhinqa kwi-brawl ngokuguqula ukuthelekisa kwakho kwaye ungeze ukubonga ngakumbi kumxube. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ufuna ukuba nento into enomnye umntu, khumbuza ukuba ubone oko unako-kungekho ngendlela ekhuphisanayo, kodwa ngo, "Ewe, ndinenhlanhla,"! Kwakhona, ukuba uziva uziva ungathandeki ngenxa yokuba umhlobo wenza into engcono kunoko, qaphela zonke iinkalo ebomini bakho apho uphelele khona, uze ubabonge.
Ufumana imbono-ukulwa nomona ngekratshi kwizinto ozilungeleyo, kunye nokubulela into onayo. Kungekudala, oku kuya kuba ngumkhwa wokuziphatha, kwaye ukunyuka kwakho komona kuya kuba yincinci kwaye ibe kude.
Nika iHug kunye "Ndiyabonga
Ukubonga nje ngokukhawuleza ngelizwi okanye ukumkela kungakunceda ukuba uzive uxhomekeke ngakumbi kwabanye , kwaye uncede baziva bexhumeke ngakumbi kuwe. Amava okukhawuleza anokuguqulela kwimvakalelo emihle kumacala omabini, kunye nolwalamano olomeleleyo kunye nazo zonke iintlawulo eziza nazo.
Cwangcisa Uhambo lokubulela
Bangaphi abantu abakubonise inceba ebubele bakho bobubele obuye batshintsha iimeko zakho, wanikezela into ebalulekileyo xa uyifunayo, okanye unokukunceda ngandlela-thile? Ngakuphi ixesha lokugqibela uxelele omnye wala bantu bantu ukuba wawaxabisa kangakanani na kwaye bakwenzele ntoni, kwaye kukunceda njani ebomini bakho? Ukubhala ileta yokubulela nokuyihambisa -iziphi iingqondo ezibonakalayo ezibhekisela kwi "incwadi yokubulela" kunye "noxabiso lokutyelela" -nokuvelisa iimvakalelo ezintle kubantu obaxabisayo, kunye nemvakalelo enempilo kuwe! Yisenzo esikhulu esibangela iinzuzo ezinkulu.