Ukuba unayo i-BPD, abantwana bakho banako ukufumana ingxaki yomntu ongapheliyo . Kuyinyaniso ukuba ukuba unayo i-BPD, abantwana bakho basengozini enkulu yokuba nemeko ngokwabo. Kodwa, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba abayi kuba nalo. Kwaye, kukho izinto ongayenza ukuze unciphise umngcipheko.
Ngaba Ingxaki Yomntu Oyingxowankulu?
Kukho uphando olubonisa ukuba ukuphazamiseka komntu ongenamdaka kusebenza kwiintsapho.
Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yezinto ezininzi. Okokuqala, enye inxalenye ye-BPD ingenxa yemfuza ; ukuba ngaba ngaba bakho abantwana be-biological kwaye bazuze idibaniselwano ethile yezinto eziphilayo ezivela kuwe, banokuba besengozini yokuphuhlisa i-BPD.
Okwesibini, iintlobo zemimandla enokubeka abantwana engozini yokuphuhlisa i-BPD iphinda isebenze kwiintsapho. Umzekelo, umntu ophathwa kakubi njengomntwana usengozini enkulu yokuphuhlisa i-BPD. Loo mntu usengozini enkulu yokuba nobunzima bokuba ngumzali. Kunzima ukuba ngumzali ophumelelayo xa unzima neempawu ze-BPD, kwaye akunakunceda ukuba awunayo imodeli emihle yokubeletha wena.
Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto ithetha ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuba ne-BPD. Nangona akukho nto ongayenza malunga nemfuza, ukuba abantwana bakho bahlala kunye nawe, kukho into enokuyenza ngayo malunga nemeko yendalo. Kwaye, kukho ubungqina bokuba imo inefuthe elinamandla kakhulu ukuba ngaba abantu abaneengqungquthela ze-BPD okanye abakwaziyo ukuphucula ingxaki.
Indlela yokunciphisa izibizo
Into yokuqala ongayenza kukuba ufumane unyango . Abantu abafumana unyango olusebenzayo kumngcipheko womntu ophantsi kwemida phantsi kolawulo lweengcali zempilo yengqondo banokuphucula kakhulu. Abanye abantu abasayi kuhlangabezana neendlela zokuxilonga kwi-BPD emva kokugqiba unyango.
Ukuba neempawu ezimbalwa kuthetha ukuba uncedo olongezelelweyo lokuba ngumzali osebenzayo .
Xa usu kunyango, unokubonisa iinkxalabo zakho malunga nabantwana bakho kumboneleli wakho, kwaye ubacele uncedo. Umnikezeli wakho unokukunceda ukuba uhlalutye indawo yakho yasekhaya nokuba ingaba iimpawu zakho zinokuchaphazela izakhono zakho zabazali.
Umgqirha wakho unokukwazi ukukuthumela kwiinkqubo ezancedisa abantu ukuba bakhe izakhono ukuba babe ngabazali abaphumelelayo. Abantu abaneengxaki zomntu ongekho emngceleni bangakwazi ukuphumelela kwaye bakhulise abazali, kodwa ngenxa yokuba iimpawu ze-BPD zinokuba nzima, kuba abantu abaninzi bathatha umsebenzi othile.
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