Ubuhlobo obusenyongweni bomtshato bubonakala buhlungu xa usapho lwethu luhlala lukhulu. Kukunzima ukufumana ixesha lokuqinisa uthando nomtshato xa sisebenza ngokuxakeka kumakhwenkwezi, ibhola lebhola, izifundo zepiyano kunye neziganeko zentsapho kwaye ziphelile ekupheleni kosuku okanye ngeveki. Nazi imibuzo embalwa enokukunceda wena kunye nomlingane wakho ukhule ngakumbi.
Imibuzo yokwakha ubuhlobo obusondeleyo
Ukuba unokukhetha umntu ehlabathini, ophilayo okanye ofile, ukuba abe nekhaya lethu njengendwendwe yokutya, ngubani oya kukhetha?
Ukuba unokukhetha izinto zokwenza oko kuza kwenza usuku olugqibeleleyo, ungakhetha ntoni?
Ukuba unayo ibhola ye-crystal engakuxelela nantoni na into ebomini bakho ongayakwaziyo, ungathini ukuba kukuxelele?
Yiyiphi imemori oyithandayo yeminyaka yakho yokukhula?
Ziziphi izinto ezilishumi ezibalulekileyo kunoluhlu lwamabhakethi lakho?
Wahlala nini ukukhala ngento ethile kwaye wakhala ngani?
Ukuba unokuvuka ngomso kusasa ngekhono elithile okanye ubuchule obungakanani, ubuchule okanye ubuchule obunqwenela ukuba yiyo?
Yintoni into ongathanda ukuyisebenzisa, kodwa ukuba ukwesaba ukuzama?
Ukuba bonke abahlobo bakho bacelwa ukuba bakuchazele, yintoni inkcazelo yomhlobo eya kuba yinto echanileyo kwaye kutheni?
Yayiyiphi incwadi enayithandayo (okanye i-movie) njengomntwana kwaye kutheni unqwenela kakhulu?
Yintoni enye into onokuthanda ukuyitshintsha?
Yiyiphi ikhefu lakho lephupha?
Yayiyiphi indawo oyithandayo ukuba uhambe njengomntwana kwaye kutheni uyayithanda apho?
Ukuba unokuba nawuphi na umbala kwincwadi, ngubani oya kukhetha ukuba abe?
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza wazi ukuba unayo iiveki ezintandathu zokuhlala, ungathanda ukuyenza ntoni ngexesha lokushiya?
Ziziphi izinto ezintathu ebomini bakho ongazicingela ukwenza ngaphandle?
Cinga ukuba indlu yakho isemlilweni kunye nokuba amalungu akho entsapho kunye nezilwanyana zikhuselekile. Ziziphi izinto onokufuna ukuzisindisa emlilweni kwaye kutheni?
Ukuba umntu ekunike imali eyaneleyo yokuqalisa ishishini - akukho misonto ehlanganisiweyo - luhlobo luni loshishino ofuna uqale ngalo?
Ziziphi izinto ezintlanu ozibulelayo ngoku ngoku?
Ukuba unako ukufumana italente enye yobuciko (ukupenda, ukuvezwa, ukubhala, njl.), Yiyiphi i talente oyayikhethayo?
Yiyiphi enye yezona zinto ezinokuzenzekelayo owake wakwenza?
Ukuba unokuba ubungqina bamehlo kwiphina imbali kwimbali, ngubani oya kukhetha?
Yintoni oyithandayo kakhulu ngokubonakala kwakho?
Kule minyaka emihlanu edlulileyo, ucinga ukuba utshintshile njani?
Ukuba unokuthatha ixesha elide elihlawulelwe isabatha, uza kwenza ntoni?