Ezinye iinkalo ezibalulekileyo zomntu osebenza ngokupheleleyo
Ngokutsho kukaCarl Rogers, umntu osebenza ngokufanelekileyo ngumntu ochaphazelekayo kunye neemvakalelo kunye neminqweno yakhe. Aba bantu bayaziqonda zabo iimvakalelo kwaye babeka ithemba elide kwiimvelo zabo kwaye banxusa. Ukubheka okungahambisani nendawo kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekubeni ngumntu osebenzayo ngokupheleleyo.
URogers ucebise ukuba abantu banamathenda, okanye imfuneko yokufezekisa amandla abo ngokupheleleyo - umgaqo obizwa ngokuba yi- self-actualization .
URogers wayekholelwa ukuba umntu osebenza ngokugcwele ngumntu osebenza ngokuqhubekayo ukuze abe ngumntu onokuzimela. Lo mntu ufumene ngenyameko engabalulekanga kwabanye, akayi kubeka iimeko ngokwabo, unokukwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo, kwaye uvule ngokupheleleyo kumava amaninzi okuphila.
Ukuchaza umntu osebenza ngokugcwele
Ngoko ke yintoni na umntu osebenzayo ngokupheleleyo? Ziziphi ezinye zazo eziphambili iimpawu?
URogers ucebise ukuba umntu osebenza ngokufanelekileyo nguye owamkele 'ubomi bokuphila.' Ngamanye amazwi, bayakwazi ukuhlala ngokugcwele ngexesha. Bakwazi ukufumana inkululeko engaphakathi kwaye bavumelane nobuchule, umdla kunye nemingeni.
"Umntu onjalo okwenzeka kwangoku, ngokukhawuleza. Unako ukuhlala kwiimvakalelo zakhe kunye nokuphendula kwangoku. kumava okwexeshana.
Uhlala ngokukhululekile, ngokuzithobayo, ekujonganeni okukhoyo kwanexeshana ebomini, "uRogers wabhala kwinqaku le-1962.
Abanye baye bacetyiswa ukuba ukusebenza ngokubanzi abantu banokuguquguquka kwaye bahlala beguqukayo. Iingcamango zabo azizimeli kwaye zihlala zithatha ulwazi olutsha kunye namava.
Akukho kuphela umntu osebenzayo ovulelekileyo kumavulo amasha, naye unokukwazi ukutshintsha ekuphenduleni oko bakufundayo kulawo mava. Laba bantu nabo banxibelelana nemvakalelo yabo kwaye benza umgudu wokuzikhusela njengomntu kwaye bafezekise amandla abo.
Ubume bomntu osebenza ngokupheleleyo
Abantu abasebenza ngokugcwele banamathela kunye neempawu ezithile ezibanceda bahlale bexhamla zabo iimvakalelo baze bavume imfuno yabo yokukhula njengomntu. Ezinye zeempawu eziphambili zomntu osebenzayo ziquka:
- Ukuvula ukuva
- Ukungabi nokukhusela
- Ukukwazi ukutolika amava ngokuchanekileyo
- Ingqondo yokuzichukumisa kunye nokukwazi ukutshintsha ngamava
- Ukukwazi ukuthembela ngamava kunye namafom yefom esekelwe kulawo mava
- Ukuzijonga ngokwabo
- Ukutyekela ukuvula amava amatsha
- Awuveki isidingo sokuphazamisa okanye ukuphika amava
- Vula kwimpendulo kwaye uzimisele ukwenza utshintsho olwenziweyo
- Uphila ngokuvisisana nabanye abantu
URogers uphinde wavelisa uhlobo lweyeza elaziwa njengonyango olujoliswe ngabaxhasi . Kulo ndlela, injongo yomrapisi kukubonelela ngokufanelekileyo ngokungenammiselo malunga nomthengi.
Injongo kukuba umntu uya kukwazi ukukhula emoyeni nangokwengqondo kwaye ekugqibeleni abe ngumntu osebenza ngokugcwele.
Izimpawu zomntu osebenza ngokupheleleyo
Ngoko ke kusebenza ntoni abantu ngokufanelekileyo? Ziziphi iimpawu ezi ziza kubakho abantu?
Abantu abonakalisa lo mkhwa banomfanekiso-mfanekiso ohambelana neqiniso. Baqonda amandla abo, kodwa baqonda kwaye bayavuma ukuba banobuthathaka. Nangona baqhubeka bekwakha amandla abo, bazama ukujongana nemingeni namava avumela ukuba bakhule kwaye bafumane ukuqonda okutsha.
Aba bantu bayaqonda ukuba abafezekanga, kodwa basoloko bevuya kwaye banelisekile ngokwabo. Okuwanelisayo akubonakali ukungabi nento, nangona kunjalo, aba bantu bahlala bezama ukufezekisa okusemandleni abo.
ILizwi
Enye into ebalulekileyo ukuba uqaphele kukuba imbono yomntu osebenza ngokugcwele ibonisa imveliso kunokugqibela umveliso. Akukho malunga nokufikelela kwindawo ethile kwaye emva koko kuyenziwa ngokukhula kwakho njengomntu. Kunoko, umntu osebenza ngokuzeleyo ubonisa uhambo oluqhubekayo ebomini njengoko abantu baqhubeka bezama ukujonga ukuzenza izinto.
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