Izilwanyana ezingenalutho zilahlekelwa abantwana bazo ngexesha elikhulu kunye nelifutshane.
1 - KwiThebhile yokutya
Ukuthetha ngesidlo ngenye yeendlela ezihambelanayo kunye neendlela zonke zeentsapho zokudibanisa. Iinyanga ezingaphezu kwesiqingatha seentsapho zelizwe zidla ngokutya kunye ngaphandle kweTV, ukwabelana ngeentsuku zabo nokuthetha ngeziganeko zangoku kunye nezicwangciso ezizayo, phakathi kwezinye iindihloko. Iingxowa ezingenanto etafileni apho abantwana basebenzisa ukuhlala khona kunokuba isikhumbuzo esinzima kunye nesibangeliso sokungabikho kwengxoxo yosuku nosuku kunye.
Into ongayenza: Zama ukutya ukutya kwindawo eyahlukileyo. Ukuba udla rhoqo ndawonye ekhitshini, setha itafile yokulala ukuze wena kunye neqabane lakho nidle kunye. Ukuba unqabile ukuphuma ukuze udle kunye nezingane zakho, funda indawo zendawo ukuba uhambe amaxesha amathathu ngeveki. Ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali luqinile, jonga amakhuphoni e-Isaphulelo kwiphepha lendawo.
2 - Buyela esikolweni
Ukubuyela esikolweni kwindawo yakho kungabikho isikhumbuzo esibuhlungu esilungele ukulungiselela unyaka wesikolo esitsha. Enoba ukhangele phambili esikolweni ukuqala kwaye abantwana bakho bebuyela kwisiqhelo okanye ukwesaba ukuphela kwehlobo elingenasiphako, ukubuyela esikolweni kuseloko kuyingxaki enkulu kwiintsapho. Ukubona abazali behla abantwana babo esikolweni, bebukele abantwana behamba ngendlu yakho ngeepakethi ezintsha kunye nezicathulo ezitsha ezimhlophe - zilungele ezinye iinyembezi ezingalindelekanga. Njengoko bangena kwisigqi sabo sesikolo imihla ngemihla, uya kuphumla, naye.
Yintoni ongayenza: Ukuba uziva unomusa kwaye unika ububele, uthenge i-bag egcwele izikolo ezibonelela ukuba izikolo zakho zaseprayimari zendawo zifuna. Naliphi na umntu osebenza esikolweni uya kuvuyela ukukuxelela ukuba yiyiphi inhlamba eluhlu lwazo.
3 - Kwi-Store Store
I-bill yakho yokutya iya kuncipha kakhulu xa abantwana bakho behamba-nangona kungabi nantoni na imali ephakamileyo lakho xa uhlawula ikholeji. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuthenga ukutya kunokubangela iinyembezi njengoko ujikeleza kwaye uhlawule iinqununu kwaye ungathengi ukutya ukutya abantwana bakho badle mhlawumbi awuyiyo - iifatates, i-pizza efriziwe, iibhotile ezininzi zejusi le-orange yobisi. Ukupheka izandi ezimbini ezifana nomsebenzi ongaphantsi, kodwa xa uvakalelwa ngathi yonke into ifakwe kwintsapho (ungathenga ngaphantsi kwama-bunger buns angama-8?) Kunokuba nzima.
Oko unokukwenza: Ukuba ufumana ivenkile yokutya ukuba ibe yindawo enzima ngokwenene, unokufumana ukutya kwakho - ezininzi iinketyu zinokukhetha. Ezinye ivenkile nazo zinika i-curbside pickup. Ukuba usaphila ukwenza intengiso yakho (okuya kuthi, ekugqibeleni), yenza uludwe uze uphephe iisiski ezingenza ube luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
4 - KwiiNkamelo Zakho zokulala
Nangona silwa neyona nto intsha yethu malunga nokucoca amagumbi abo kunye nokukrazula iinwele zethu malunga nokunyamezela kwabo kunye nokunyaniseka kwabo, ukungena emagumbini abo amancinci, abangakhange bafunyanwe bangaxhalabisa ekuqaleni. Lezo zibopho zeengubo kunye neeklasi zokusela ezishiywe emva kwemihla zazicaphukisa, ewe, kodwa nazo zazizikhumbuzo ezifihlakeleyo zentsapho oyingxenye yabo kunye nabantwana owakhulisayo.
Yintoni ongayenza: Okokuqala, vala umnyango wokulala. Ukuba umdala wakho osemdala uye wahamba ixesha elide, unokutshintsha indlela igumbi lisetyenziselwa ngayo xa ulondoloza isikhala xa ibuya. Yenza indawo yebhedi kunye ne-sofa yokukhupha, ulahle iipowusta kunye ne-mementos ukuze ugcinwe ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye wenze indawo yokusebenzela okanye uzibuyisele yona okanye iqabane lakho. Umntwana wakho okhulile unokuthukuthela okokuqala, kodwa ukuba uhlala yedwa ixesha lokuba wenze umsebenzi wakho wendlu ngendlela oyifunayo ngayo.
5 - Ukunene Ngaphambi Kokuya Kwindlu
Ukulindela isidleke esingenanto kungabi kakhulu kunokuba kunjalo. Ukuqhaqhazela kwiibhokisi ezipakishweyo kunye nekamelo lokulala elincinci kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba umntu omdala osemdala ahambe kakuhle, nokuba uya kwikholeji, ukuhamba kwakhe okanye ukutshata kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu kwaye kukhwankqise. Uchithe ixesha elide ube ngumama kubantwana bakho, kwaye xa kufika usuku lokuba bahlale bebodwa ukuze baphile ngaphandle kokuba ukhangele, ulawule kwaye ujabule ngalunye suku unokuziva unomdla njengophelo lwento ethile. Akunjalo-ke kuphela ukuqala kwesigaba esitsha.
Yintoni ongayenza: Zama ukungabi ne-teary-eyed uze ubuhlungu ngaloo mihla embalwa ngaphambi kokuba umntu omdala osemdala ahambe ekhaya. Cwangcisa isidlo esikhethekileyo, nokuba sisitoretri okanye upheka ukutya okuthandayo ekhaya. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba njengentlanzi njengoko uvakalelwa kukuba, umdala wakho omdala unempembelelo yakhe kwimpembelelo enkulu ezayo.
6 - Kanye Kanye Emva kokuba Baphume Ekhaya
Ukuthula xa ubuyela ekhaya esihlahleni esingenanto okokuqala ngangoko kungasithulu. Azikho iiTV eziqhawulayo, akukho imidlalo yevidiyo edlalwayo, akukho mculo ongeke ukwazi ukuma phambi kwamagumbi abo. Kodwa ulinde, nje ixesha elincinci, kwaye ekugqibeleni, nangona ulahlekelwa ilizwi labo behleka kunye nabahlobo babo okanye isandi esiqinisekisileyo sokuvala umnyango wangaphambili ebusuku xa bebuya ekhaya besuka kusihlwa, uya kufumana uxolo ekuphumeni nasekuphumleni. Akunakuba lixesha lonke, kwaye uya kuba nexesha lokudumala okukhulu-kodwa njengoko ukhula ngakumbi uhlala kwisiqwenga sakho esingenanto uya kukhula ukuba uyithande kakhulu.
Into enokuyenza: Ukuba kunokwenzeka, cwangcisa ukuhamba kweveki ende. Cinga ukuba uhlambulule umphunga wakho ngomphefumlo wakho-ukutshintsha kweendawo kunye nexesha lokuphumla kunye nokuxhuma kunye nezinye zakho ezibalulekileyo kunokukwenza izinto ezimangalisayo ukulungelelanisa isimo sakho sengqondo kwaye uvumele ukuhamba nokudabuka kwakho. Cwangcisa imisebenzi yeeveki zeeveki, nokuba ngaba ngumqhubi we-Scrabble tournament, umlingo wokubheka umboniso omtsha weTV okanye ukuthatha iklasi. Musa ukubheka isidleke esingenanto njengento yokulila, kodwa njengento yokuzivumelanisa kunye nokuzonwabisa. Umntu wakho omdala useqalile ubomi bakhe bonke - ngoku sekuyisikhathi sokuba uqale lonke lakho.