Ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kuqhelekileyo kunokuba abaninzi bacinga.
Abantu bahlala becinga ukuba amatyala okuxhaphazwa kwabantwana yinto eyenzeka kwezinye iindwendwe nakwezinye iindawo zokuhlala, kodwa kungabikho kubo. Kodwa wonke umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba amaxhoba okuxhaphazwa kwabantwana avela kuzo zonke izimo zentlalo, izimo zokuhlala kunye neentlanga.
Ngelishwa, iinani lokuhlukunyezwa kwabantwana libonisa ukuba abantwana abangaphezu kwe-1,500 bafa ngamnye ngonyaka eUnited States ngenxa yokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana nokunyanzelwa.
Ukongeza, i-75 ekhulwini yabathatywayo babulala abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-3 ubudala, kwaye i-78 ekhulwini yabantwana abaxhatshazwayo baxhatshazwa ngumzali. Akuyena umhlobo ongaqhelekanga obeka ingozi kubantwana, kodwa abantu abaphathiswe ukuba banakekele. Kwaye akubona nje amadoda awonakalisa abantwana, ama-54 ekhulwini kwabahlukumezi ababikwa ngamabhinqa kunye nama-45 ekhulwini babengamadoda.
Ngo-2015, kukho amaxhoba angama-683,000 (ajikeleziweyo) asetyenziswe ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kunye nokunganakwa. Inani lexhoba liyi-1 kwabantwana abayi-110 kwiimeko ezichaziweyo.
Ukunganakwa yindlela eqhelekileyo yokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana, ilandelwa ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzimba, ukuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo, ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwezesondo, ekugqibeleni, ukunyanzelwa ngonyango. Ingaba ucinga ukuba umntwana owaziyo, okanye enye oyibonayo kwindawo yokudlala ingasengozini? Unokuba unqabile ukungenelela, kodwa umntwana usemngciphekweni unokubandezeleka.
Amanqaku okuThatshazwa kwabantwana kunye neendaba
Amatyala okuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kunye namabali ngokuthe ngqo kwimixholo yamaphephandaba angakunceda ekugqibeleni ukuba ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana okuqhelekileyo ukwenzela ukuba wonk 'ubani abe nempembelelo yokubika ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kunye nokungahoywa .
- Ukunganakwa - Umama waseDallas, eTexas, uhlawuliswe ngokunyaniseka emva kokuba umntwana wakhe oneminyaka engama-9 ubudala efa ngenxa yeengxaki zesifo sikashukela emva kokuhluleka ukumnceda ukulawula isifo sakhe.
- Ukuphathwa kakubi ngokomzimba / ngokomzwelo - Unina waseNorth Central Texas wenza ukuba abantwana bakhe abathathu bathathwe ngenxa yecala le-Munchausen syndrome ngummeli.
- Ukuxhatshazwa ngokoMzimba - Abazali ababini eDallas, eTexas, babetyala ngokuxhaphaza umntwana wabo oneminyaka engama-6 kangangokuba wayekhathalele kakhulu kwaye wacinga ukuba akayi kukwazi ukubuyela.
- Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwemvelo - Intombi yomama ityala ngokufa kwengonyana wakhe oneminyaka emithandathu.
- Ukuxhatshazwa ngokoMzimba - Ubaba wagwetywa ngokufa kwintsana yakhe eneminyaka emithathu efunyanwe ingaphenduliyo, isifo sesifo kunye nesibindi sokuqhaqha.
- Ukuxhatshazwa komzimba - Ubaba waseLodi, eCalifornia, wagwetywa ngokuxhatshazwa ngokomzimba emva kokuba umqeshwa wesikolo ephawulekileyo kwaye echazele ukutshisa umfundi oneminyaka engama-6 ubudala, okuye kucatshangelwa ukuba yenziwe yimpahla yensimbi. Kwakhona wabethwa ngentonga, kwaye unina wahlawuliswa ngengozi yomntwana.
- Ukuphathwa kakubi ngokomzimba - Umama kunye nentombi yakhe ehlala eJanesville, eWisconsin, babetyala ngokuxhatshazwa emva kokubetha indodakazi yakhe eneminyaka emithathu ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba ufuna ukuhlinzwa ngongxamiseko kwengqondo.
- Ukuphathwa kakubi ngokomzimba - Iqabane lomama wengane eWilmington, eDelaware, libethe labulala intombazana eneminyaka engama-16 ubudala ngenxa yokuba yayingeke ikhale.
- Ukuphathwa kakubi ngokomzimba - Uneminyaka engama-9 ubudala wabethwa ngumlingane kamama waseLawrence, eMassachusetts.
- Ukuxhaphazwa Kwemvelo - KwiMigodi yaseMassachusetts, eMassachusetts, umama wecala ngokutshisa unyana wakhe oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala kunye nentsimbi yokuloba, okwenza ukutshiswa kwe-grade-grade efuna ukutyunjwa kwesikhumba.
Ukuqhawula phezulu
Ngelishwa, amaninzi amaninzi amacala okuxhashazwa kwabantwana ayengeniswa. Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana uxhatshazwa okanye akahoywa, yibika. Abantu abaninzi banqwenela ukukhawuleza okanye ukubuza abanye "imifanekiso" yomzali, kodwa ukuba ukuziphatha kwabo kubonakala kuxhaphaza okanye bakrokra, themba umthambo wakho kwaye uxhumane nabasemagunyeni.
Uninzi lwabantu lunombolo yokubika ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana okanye i-hotline ongayisebenzisa ukuze iingcali zentlalo-ntle yabantwana ziphande iimeko zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana okanye ukungahoywa.
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