Ngaba uke waziva ngathi u-antidepressant wakho ubulale ngaphezu kwekhono lakho lokungcola? Njengawe wabulawa zonke iimvakalelo zakho zothando kumlingane wakho kunye? UHelen Fisher, isazi semvelo kwiYunivesithi yaseRuthgers, ukholelwa ukuba ii-SSRI zinokubangela ukuba ukwazi ukuziva uthando.
Umsebenzi we-SSRIs ngokuphakamisa amanqanaba akho e-serotonin, kodwa nawo aphantsi amanqanaba e-dopamine.
I-Dopamine yi-neurotransmitter ejongene nazo zonke ezovakalelo-ezintle iimvakalelo ozifumanayo xa uthanda. Xa amanqanaba e-dopamine ehla kwaye loo mvakalelo iyanyamalala ungakholelwa ngokungafanelekile ukuba uthando lwakho luye lwaphela.
Esi siphumo, ngezinye izihlandlo esibizwa ngokuba ngumsindo , sinokubandakanya iimpawu ezinjengokuziva unesihawu, ungakwazi ukukhala kwaye unganakukwazi ukufumana isantya esifanayo nesimo esifanelekileyo.
Ukudibanisa ngokomzwelo kubonakala kubandakanyeka kwimiphumela yecala lezesondo, njengokunciphisa i-libido kunye nobunzima nge-orgasm. Olunye uphando oluthile lwafumanisa ukuba malunga nama-80 ekhulwini abantu abafumana iingxaki zesini-zesondo ezixhatshazwayo ezixinzelelekileyo zichaze ukuba banomsindo.
Ngelishwa ukuba abantu babelane ngokuthandana, ukulahleka kwesifiso sesondo kunye nokunciphisa amandla okuvakalelwa iimvakalelo ezinamandla kunokubashiya bazive bengenalo uthando.
Esi siphumo asikho isigxina, nangona kunjalo. Ngokutsho kukaRonald Pies, MD, kukho amanyathelo athile anokunceda izigulane ezithandabuzekayo kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwabo. Ucebisa ukuba impendulo ixhomekeke ekunciphiseni umthamo wabo, ukuguqula kumachiza ahlukeneyo (i-serotonin e-reuptake inhibitors ekhethekileyo iyona nto ibangela ukugqithisa ngokomzwelo) okanye mhlawumbi unikeze imithi eyongezelelweyo engakwazi ukulwa nale mpembelelo.
Ukuba ucinga ukumisa imithi yakho ngenxa yecala lempembelelo, okanye nayiphi na enye, ufanele uqaphele ukuba ukuyeka ngokukhawuleza imithi yakho ngaphandle kokufumana okokuqala isiluleko sakho sogqirha kunokuyingozi. Abantu abaninzi baya kufumanisa ukuba ukuxinezeleka kwabo kubuya, okanye mhlawumbi kuhamba ngakumbi, xa beyeka amayeza abo. Ukongezelela, kunokuba kuyimfuneko ukuba ugqithise imithi yakho ngokukhawuleza okanye utshintshe kumachiza ahlukeneyo ukwenzela ukunqanda ukuyeka ukugula. Le syndrome iqoqo leempawu ezingathandekiyo, ezibandakanya iimvakalelo ezingaqhelekanga, isisu, isisu kunye nesisu esisiphazamisayo, abantu abaninzi abanokuziva njengolu xhatshazo oluphuma emzimbeni wabo.
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