Amadoda Afuna Indlela Ngaphezu Kwezesondo Nje
Akumangalisi ukuba ubulili bubaluleke kakhulu kubantu. Amaninzi amaninzi, amadoda aya kuvuma ukuba yinani eliluhlu lwabo kwinto abayifunayo emtshatweni. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda amaninzi aneminye iminqweno ngaphandle kobudlelwane bezesondo okanye iimfuno zomzwelo.
Amadoda ahlale ebuza abafazi bawo oko afuna, kodwa abaninzi babo baneengcamango neemvakalelo abazenzayo. Ngokomzekelo, amanye amadoda avakalelwa kukuba unembopheleleko yokunyamekela abafazi babo ngokwezezimali, nokuba ngaba ufumana enye okanye usebenze umrhumo womvuzo owenziwe emibini ekhaya. Lo mzekelo udala uxinzelelo oluchaphazela ubudlelwane, ngoko ukuqonda ihlabathi lakhe langaphakathi lizakukuvula kwilizwe lokuqonda kunye nethuba.
Uthando
Nangona isondo sisoloko sibaluleke kakhulu kubantu abaninzi, baninzi bafuna ukufumana uthando oluninzi. Ingaba ubambe isandla sakhe esidlangalaleni, eshiya umyalezo wothando kwi-voicemail yakhe, okanye ukuxutywa kwamagxa akhe-kubonisa ukuba uyamkhathalela ngezenzo zokuthanda uya kuthinta intliziyo yakhe.
Zama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokubonisa ukuba unomdla kangakanani ngaye ngokufudumala. Izinto ezilula ongazenzayo zibandakanya ukumxelela ukuba uyamthanda kangakanani, uyamncoma xa eziva engathandabuzekiyo, kwaye umxelela ukuba uyaxolisa xa izinto zihamba kakuhle. Unokuhlala uhamba phambili kwaye umnike ukumanga okungalindelekanga okanye ukunyaniseka kancinci, naye. Zama ngothando lomzwelo kunye nomzwelo ukuze ubone ukuba yintoni eyenza ukuba azive ephelele.
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Ukukholelwa kwiZakhono Zakhe
Amadoda amaninzi acinga ukuba kubalulekile ukukhusela nokubonelela abo bathandayo. Yenza umyeni wakho azi ukuba ukholelwa kwiitalente zakhe nezakhono kwaye uyamxhasa. Ukhuthazo lwakho luncedo kunabo bonke.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ongayenza yenza indoda yakho ibe ngathi iyindoda kwaye ingengumfana omncinci. Hlola oko kukumenza akhokhe ngokumnika ulawulo oluncinane (njengoko ukhululekile). Ngokomzekelo, unokuzama ukumvumela ukuba akulandele ixesha elizayo xa uphuma ukuyodla okanye umbeke ephethe isicatshulwa. Izinto ezinje ezinje zihlakulela ukuthembela phakathi kwakho ezimbini kwaye umnike umvo woxanduva kwibudlelwane.
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Ukuqonda
Amadoda afuna ukwazi ukuba "uwafumana". Ngokuqhelekileyo banengqiqo kwaye banqwenela ukulungisa ingxaki. Oku kunenzuzo kwaye kudala ukulinganisela phakathi kwabasetyhini abaphefumlelweyo kakhulu kwaye banxibelelana neemvakalelo zabo.
Enye yeendlela onokubonisa ngazo ukuba uqonde omnye komnye ngokuzibophezela ukuthetha imihla ngemihla kunye. Unokucwangcisa uvavanyo lwemihla ngemihla apho uthatha imizuzu engama-20 ukuba ubuze imibuzo efanelekileyo. Oku kungabandakanya izinto malunga nento ekukhanga komnye nomnye, usuku oluthandayo kunye kunye nokuba yintoni umgangatho wakho oyintandokazi.
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Ukuxabisa nokuqinisekiswa
Uninzi lwabafana banqwenela ukubanjelwa ngasemva. Enye indlela yokwenza oku kukuncoma umyeni wakho kaninzi. Kunokuba ungaphezu kwexesha, qinisekisa ukuba yinyani kwaye ihamba phambili ngeveki. Yenza izinto ezilula ezifana:
- Vumela umyeni wakho azi ukuba uyaqonda ukuba lusebenza kangakanani.
- Ndiyabulela ngendlela enyamekela ngayo intsapho.
- Tshela umyeni wakho ukuba ukhangeleke njani kwi shirt.
- Mxumise kwaye umxelele ukuba uyamhlonela njengomntu.
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Ukwamkela
Sonke sifuna ukwamukelwa ngenxa yokuba singobani kwaye asifuni abanye bazame ukutshintsha. Amadoda avame ukukhathazeka aze athukuthe xa abafazi babo bezama ukutshintsha, ngakumbi. Ukuba ixhalabisa impilo kunye nokukhuseleko, kuyaqondakala, kodwa iimpawu ezingekho mfuneko azikho imfuneko yokukhuphula.
Unokubonisa ubungakanani bokuba uyamkela umyeni wakho ngokuba ngubani ngoku ngoku:
- Ukubona iimpazamo zakhe nokumthanda nanini.
- Ukufunda indlela esinokuzifumana ngayo ukuze sikwazi ukuwamkela amadoda ethu.
- Ukukhulula ngokungafani neqabane lethu.
- Ukuvuma ukuvuma ukungavumelani kwiingxoxo.
- Ukuyeka ukuhamba xa kuziwa kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo, imibono, okanye ezopolitiko.
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Ingxoxo encinane
Ukuba umyeni wakho ukhathele, echaphazelekayo kwiprojekthi, okanye ngokuqhelekileyo akayi kukhangela ingxoxo, musa ukuyichukumisa. Abasetyhini banokuxubusha ngokuthe ngcama ngamanye amaxesha, ngoko kubalulekile ukuchonga ixesha lokuthetha nomyeni wakho. Cinga ukuzityhila ngeendlela ezongezelelweyo kubahlobo bakho, amanye amalungu omndeni, okanye ngezinye iindlela ezifana nobugcisa, ukuloba, kunye nee-intanethi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni ubuhlobo apho ungathethi. Ukubaluleka kubalulekile, ngoko xa ufuna ukuthetha kunye nokutshata, jonga naye kunye naye ukuba ubone ukuba uyaphi. Ukuba uxakekile, unokufuna ukumisela ixesha elithile kunye naye ukuze ubenokubuyela kumzila.
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Ukuhlonipha
Ukudala umtshato onothando nothawulekayo uqala ngentlonipho. Enye yezindlela ezintle umfazi angabonisa umyeni wakhe ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uyamhlonela ngokumphulaphula ngokukhawuleza xa uthetha, kwaye angaphazamisi.
Unokubonisa ukuhlonishwa ngu:
- Ukugwema ukwenza nayiphi na imibono engalunganga malunga neengcinga kunye nezimvo zakhe.
- Ukucingisisa ngezicwangciso zakhe ezizayo.
- Ukukhetha ukungasebenzisi "i-eye roll" xa ungavumelani naye.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ube nombono oncomekayo, onombulelo, kunye nokucingela iimfuno kunye neemfuno zakhe.
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Ixesha lamahala
Phantse wonke umntu unomnqweno wesikhathi esithile sokuthula, kunye nomzuzwana wokuvuselela kwakhona, ukuhlanganisa, nokuxhuma kunye nabo.
Xa umyeni wakho eqala ekhaya evela emsebenzini, ungamnika le ndawo ngokumvumela ukuba ahlaziye ngaphandle kweengxoxo okanye imibuzo. Kwiintsuku zakhe, khumbulani ishedyuli yakhe ngokungacwangcanga imisebenzi emininzi. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwenza okuthile nomyeni wakho ngeveki, cinga ukuba ukhethe olunye usuku ngeveki, okanye wenze iiplani zonke ezinye iveki.
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Ithemba
Ukuthembela kubalulekile kwimpumelelo yomtshato. Ababini bakhela ukuthembela kubudlelwane obuhle ngokunyaniseka omnye nomnye, ukuthetha rhoqo, nokufunda indlela yokulwa nokulingana. Kuthatha ixesha lokwakha ithemba. Kule minyaka, bobabini baya kufunda indlela yokugcina izithembiso, zibe wena, kwaye ubonise indlela othanda ngayo kwaye uxabana ngayo.
Ukuba unokungabaza ngomyeni wakho, kwaye kukufumanisa nzima ukumthemba, ufune ukucebisa kwaye ungahlanganyeli kwimisebenzi efana nokungathembeki okanye ukuhlola.
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Uhlobo
Ngethemba, unokuthi indoda yakho ayiyena kuphela umthandi wakho kodwa nomhlobo wakho. Ukuhlala ngabahlobo kunye namanxuwa kwiminyaka yonke kufuna ukuba ufumane iindlela zokwenza ixesha elifanelekileyo ukuba ube kunye kunye namava amatsha.
Ukutshata nomhlobo wakho omhle kuthetha ukukhumbula indlela uxoxisana ngayo, ungamthandi, kwaye wenze imihlatshelo encinci ukuze ukholisane. Qhubeka usebenzisa amagama anomdla, bonisa ukubonga kwakho imihla ngemihla, kwaye ukhethe ukubukela umdlalo wezemidlalo wasekhaya wendawo esikhundleni sokuhamba kwakho.
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