Iintsholongwane ezixhalabisa njani Ukuziphatha Okubi Ukufihla Intlungu
Ukukhangela, okanye ukuziphatha okuvukelayo ngumzekelo wokubonakalisa ukuziphatha okungalunganga ukufihla imvakalelo enzulu okanye imiba equka ukwesaba, intlungu, okanye ulolo. Intsha iyaziwa ngokubonisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngokuziphatha kakubi kunokuba bathethe ngokuthe ngqo. Ekuqaleni i-term acting out wasetyenziswe nguFreud ukuchaza iimpawu ezithile ezenzekayo ngexesha le- psychotherapy .
Eli gama lisetyenziswe ngokuqhelekileyo ngabaqeqeshi bezempilo yengqondo ukuchaza olu tyekelo olutsha ekubonakaliseni ukungonwabi ngezenzo zabo.
Ukusebenza kunye nokuSebenza ngeengxaki ezinzima
Ininzi intsha ayiyiqondi le nto ayenzayo. Esikhundleni sokuvumela abantu bababone basengozini kwaye bavule malunga nezinto ezibaxhatshazayo, abatsha abanenkxalabo bakhetha ukuhlukaniswa kunye nokuzikhethela ukuba ukuziphatha ngokuziphatha kubangele. Injongo ephambili yonyango ibancedisa ukuba baqonde ukudibanisa phakathi kokuvakalelwa kwabo nendlela abazenza ngayo. Kwaye bavumela ukuba bazenze ukuzithethelela endaweni yokwenza izinto. Ngokunika umntwana osetsheni, ngaphandle kwebala, ukuba aziveze yena ngokwakhe, ubanikezela ixesha abayidingayo ukuze basebenze ngeemvakalelo abazange bazihlolisise ngaphambili. Njengoko bahlaziya iimvakalelo nokuba yintoni ebenokubangela, gcina ingqondo evulekile kwaye ubavumele ukuba bathethe, nangona iimvakalelo zingenzi kakuhle okanye zidibanise kakuhle nezenzo zabanye.
Injongo kukuvumela umntwana ukuba akhangele ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kunokuba abuyele intlungu kwabanye.
U mzekelo
UJohn, oneminyaka eyi-16 ubudala, uyangcolisa ootitshala bakhe. Xa eceliwe ukuba enze into ayiphendulayo ngendlela ekhohlakeleyo, esoloko engxoxisana notitshala. UJohn uye wayenza ngale ndlela ukususela kwintombazana enyamekela ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nomnye umntu.
Ngaphakathi, uvakalelwa kwaye akaqinisekanga ngaye. Ngaphandle, wenza izinto ezinzima kwaye azenzele ukuba akanandaba nokuba kwenzekani kuye ngomgudu wokuzikhusela ukuba akhathazeke ngakumbi. UJohane akaqapheli ukuba ukukhathazeka kwakhe malunga nokuhlukana kwesi sizathu sizathu sokuziphatha kwakhe esikolweni.
Yintoni enokuyenza malunga nokuCwangcisa
Nangona ukuphinda usebenze ngokuqhelekileyo kunokuxhamla kwimibandela engumntwana okhuselekileyo, akukho nto ebomini bakhe iyatshintsha de ukuba umntwana uqale ukujongana nezizathu zokuziphatha. Xa abazali babona intombazana ibonisa ukuba le nto ingumqondiso osisilumkiso isishumi esenzakalisayo kwaye sidinga ukuncedisa ukuveza intlungu yabo ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ijongene noko kubangel 'ingxaki. Ukuba wakho umntwana okanye abahlobo bakhe bebesebenza, zama ukuhlala phantsi kwindawo engathathi hlangothi ukuya kwiingcambu zezinto ezinokubakhathaza. Unokufunda ukuba banokuphilisa ukuyenza. Kutheni ungabi yilo lizwi lesibongo kufuneka bafumane iingcamango ezidlulileyo malunga nabo okanye ezidlulileyo.