Ukuba uphuma ngaphezulu kufuneka uqale utshintshe isitayela sakho nokuziphatha; ngokwenza ngamabomu, imikhuba enamandla ingaba yinto yesibini.
Ezinye iinkqubo ezisisiseko omele uyenze kumkhwa wokwenza oko kunokubonakala zilula ekuqaleni, kodwa njengoko ezi zinto ziba yinto yesibini uza kuba nexesha elilula kakhulu ukujongana nokuziphatha okuphambili komntu ophumayo.
Oku kuchazwe ngezantsi uza kufumana iimpawu ezi-3 ezilula kunye nokuqiqa emva kwesinye.
1. Ukubulisa
Qala ngokubulisa abantu ngokuphindaphindiweyo nge-"Hello" okanye "Good Morning" ngokumomotheka. Emva kokuba ukhululekile ngakumbi kunye nezibhengezo ezilula kubantu abangaziwayo uzama ezi zicwangciso ezilula ukufumana ukhululo ngakumbi ekuqaliseni iingxoxo nabanye.
Zama ukucela umntu ongaqhelekanga ukuba ufikelele kwindawo oya kuyo ukuba sele uyazi ukuba ungaya njani kwaye usekufuphi. Qala ngezibingelelo ozilungeleyo ukuzenza kwiintsuku zangaphambili okanye kwiiveki.
Umzekelo: Xa uhamba ngendlela efanayo uhlala uhamba, ubona umntu onokuthanda ukuqala ukuthetha naye. Yithi into enjengaleyo, "Ngomso, ngaba uyazi apho ivenkile?"
Nangona uye wahamba udlula ivenkile kwisithuba se-10 imizuzu ngaphambi kokuba ufeze izinto ezimbini apha.
Okokuqala, uqhuba ukuqala incoko. Okwesibini, abantu banokukwazi ukuphendula ngendlela enobubele xa ubabeka kwindawo engagqibekanga yamandla.
Kule meko, omnye umntu uvakalelwa kukuba unolwazi ngaphezu kwakho, ngoko ufuna ukukunceda.
2. Uqinisekiso lweNkcazo
Buyela ngqo, isifuba phambili, amahlombe abuyele. Injongo kukugwema indlela "ekhutshwe ngayo" apho abantu abaninzi abazithobelayo baziphethe. Oku kukhuthaza ukubukeka kokuzithemba kunye nokuhamba kwexesha kuya kwenza ukuba iimvakalelo zangaphakathi zithembeke.
3. Amehlo
Amehlo akho afanele akhangele izinga okanye ngaphezulu xa uhamba. Ukuba ukhangele umhlaba xa uhamba, wenza oku kungafanelekanga.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, xa uthetha nantoni na, kufuneka uhlale unxibelelwano lwamehlo. Ukuba unenkathazo ngalokhu zama le nto elula: Gxininisa umbono wakho ngqo phakathi kweelishi zomnye umntu.
Oku kunokubonakala kungenangqondo kodwa kunika into yokuba uhlala udibana nomntu, ngelixa unciphisa uxhalaba lokuba ukhangele omnye umntu emehlweni.
4. Qiniseka
Oku kulula kunokuba kuzwakala! Oku kuthatha isenzo, nangona kunjalo. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuziqhelisela kukuzifaka emzimbeni endaweni engaqhelekanga, mhlawumbi apho ungayazi mntu. Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezilandelayo.
Isizathu esona sizathu kukuba ukuba unqwenela ukuba uphumelele, kufuneka ube ngaphezulu. Kanye nje ukuba ufuna ukuphucula ukuphakamisa izisindo, uqala ukuphakamisa izisindo.
Izizathu ofuna ukuya kwindawo engaqhelekanga zilula.
Aba bantu abakwaziyo, abakhathalele ngawe, kwaye (okubaluleke kakhulu) baya kukulibala nokuba ukho xa ushiya kwaye ubuyela kwindawo yakho eqhelekileyo / indawo. Ukuba ukhangele imeko kuloo mongo, nangona udibanisa ngokupheleleyo ingxoxo yakho kwaye wenze isilumko sakho, akukho mntu uyaziyo uya kuveva ngako.
Iingcamango Zokugqibela
Isishwankathelo, qalisa ngokusebenza njengento ofuna ukuyifumana!
Ukuba ufuna ukuba yi-golfe engcali, ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kuqala igalofu ngaphezulu. Oku kunyanzelekile ukuhlalisana kunye nokuphuma. Ukuba ufuna ukuphuma ngaphezulu kufuneka uqale incoko engakumbi.
Qala encinci, gcina i-posture yakho kunye nokuzinyanya, kwaye usebenze ngokungaqhelekanga ukuze ukwazi ukushiya imeko yonke emva kwakho ukuba awuyivuyela umphumo. Xa usebenza ngokwengeziwe, ukuphuma kwakho kuya kuba nguwe kwaye ekugqibeleni ukuzinyanya kuya kuba yinto yesibini kuwe.
Inhlanhla kwaye ungakulibali ukunyusa ezinye izinto!